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and i'm not saying she's cheating - a date which i set up for her to go on. the idea actaully orriginated by her. we went out for a year, broke up for a year, and got back. while mending we were very open about all of these wild fantasies we had. one of hers was that she's go out and explore her sexuality with somebody with alot of experience and then blow me away (to this day, i have a signifigant edge over her in the belt notch department).
once we stablized we stopped talking about most of it but we talked about this one almost constantly, and i set something up with a friend of mine from college that's here till tuesday, with some ground rules set. she didn't have to do anything on the date - but she could do anything she wanted too.

now its going on 12:00, and i can't sleep. its nuts! i just keep wondering - did they? are they? its so hot and crazy and the ssame time. except i don't know how to keep sane till she comes home.

2006-09-17 16:41:20 · 21 answers · asked by w0t_b0t 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

21 answers

Find yourself another girlfriend.

2006-09-17 16:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Well, you leave it alone. You set the whole thing up, and didn't say you had a problem with it. If she did anything with this guy, your rules pretty much stated that it was ok. If it really bothered you, you should have told her, OR never set it up in the first place.

Till next time,
Raven

2006-09-17 23:45:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

This is a hard question to answer. You told her to and she will do whatever she feels she can. All you can do is wait patiently, watch a movie, go out with someone else, have fun, then come back and here the hopefully good news.

2006-09-17 23:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

At first I was going to tell you to dump her, but since you did this yourself you have to deal with it. If you are more experienced & you love her then why don't you teach her new thing's your self. Sometimes you half to be gentel & patcient. If you show her & tell her lovingly what you like it could be wonderful. My first Boy friend taught me everything I needed to know. I haven't had any complaints. What will you do if she ends up liking your friend better then you? I hope that you didn't screw up. Good luck & have fun.

2006-09-18 00:57:34 · answer #4 · answered by Cindy Lou 1 · 0 0

this is like doing a threesome but you are not physically present. tell me, do you like thinking about them right this very minute and wondering if they are doing exactly what you want them to do? if thinking about it hurts you, that's normal. if thinking about it excites and turns you on, that's normal too. maybe next time, try to ask if you can come and explain that you just want to experience it and rather than have it with other girls, say that you want to do it with her so you won't be that scared. good luck

2006-09-17 23:51:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Maybe next time all three of you can go out together. Maybe he will fix you up with his ex-girlfriend next time too. He's just giving her the ol' college try.

2006-09-18 00:13:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

man tell ur girlfriend the next time she is bending over she might get done by u

i take that back if u were a girl and ur gf was a guy and if u were bending over ur gonna get done

2006-09-17 23:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

YOU NEED TO SERIOUSLY LOOK AT WHAT GOING ON HERE
WHY IN THE HELL WOULD YOU LET SOMEONE THAT YOU
CARE ABOUT GO OUT WITH SOMEONE BODY ELSE.
THEN SAY O IT OK TO EXPLORE HER SEXUALITY WITH
SOME ONE WITH MORE EXPERENCE. BUT STILL YOU
WANT TO BRAGG ABOUT HOW GOOD YOU ARE IN THE
BED ROOM. SOUND LIKE A LOT OF HOT AIR. BUT
NOW YOU ARE WORRY. BOTH OF YOU NEED TO GROW
UP AND STOP PLAYING GAMES.

2006-09-17 23:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0 0

You will need counseling if you want to keep her as mate material.

2006-09-17 23:43:51 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0 0

The good news is that you guys deserve each other!

2006-09-17 23:49:52 · answer #10 · answered by Doctor Dad 2 · 0 0

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