they just broke up from a relationship a couple of months ago. she told me that the relationship was very "intense" but she has moved on. but recently he has been calling her and emailing her about going to a concert with him. she says nothing will happen. but i don't know
2006-09-17 16:34:12 · 56 answers · asked by cone_head 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, why she still want to go to concert with him if "nothing will happen?"
I doubt! but don't say " NO" to her, say what you really felt about the situation and let her decide what to do.
If she still want to go with " him", I suggest you might want to looking for someone else in the future, because a girlfriend couldn't concern about your feeling would never be the one for you!!! good luck!
2006-09-17 16:41:58 · answer #1 · answered by Shar-Ching 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The words that bother me are "intense", in describing their relationship, and that she has "moved on" in describing their present relationship. Take what I'm telling you here very seriously, as I AM a woman and I can assure you that NO woman has "moved on" after breaking up from an "intense" relationship after only a "couple of months" AND is still accepting phone calls and emails from Mr. EX and is even considering going to a concert with him and trying to convince you that "nothing will happen". Tell her that of course you don't mind if she goes and you're so glad to know that "nothing will happen", and since that's the case they surely won't mind if YOU go along too!
2006-09-17 16:53:19 · answer #2 · answered by celtgirl50 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you're feeling so bad then you should tell her not to go or to allow you also to join. it's always very scary i know but you should know how to deal this. if you don't like it, then ask her to avoid the invitation. or may be you'll find out they're really good friends now but that's very rare. post break up meetings only ends up in physical relationship. i tell you what dude, go to a private eye!!! just kidding. ask her to stop contacting exbf.
2006-09-17 16:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by don_yourmate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a girl. But if it was my boyfriend going to a concert with his ex, Something is BOUND to happen, he obviously still likes her...What to do, I don't know...
2006-09-17 16:37:38 · answer #4 · answered by iMegan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she goes, there are still feelings there that you have no control over..........Who are you to say (as a boyfriend) that she can't go somewhere anyway?????? Sounds like an issue of control there, and you would be best to leave her be and make up her own mind if you truly care for her...........
2006-09-17 16:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i'll let she go.....but make sure u follow her to the concert....why dont u try to be her ex as a friend. so, u no need to worry about your relationships
2006-09-17 16:45:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow?? You are not married, you have no say. But No, I wouldnt want her to go, and I would ask her nicely not to go, and tell her that you are uncomfortable with it even if you do trust her. How would she like it if you went somewhere with your ex??
2006-09-17 16:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by yournotalone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't over react.Maybe she's going to let the ex know that it's really over or maybe it's his way of saying goodbye.
2006-09-17 16:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let her go then you're an idiot and if she goes to the concert anyways that means she doesn't give a rat's *** about you.
2006-09-17 16:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way around it, you gotta just trust her on it. Otherwise you set a tough precident that will always rule the relationship.
2006-09-17 16:36:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋