Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

when do girls start growing up and actually have a bf to find someone right for them and not have one just to have one?

2006-09-17 17:09:58 · 21 answers · asked by blah 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok i really don't like being tall i mean i'm taller than my friends and i hate it! My friends always tell me that i'm lucky to be tall and thin and have long legs! First of all i would like to be med size than tall and i would like not to be taller than my friends!!! Ok i'll tell you my height its well 5"7 and i'm 14 and i know what your thinking really tall right and your prob thinking why the heck is she on here!!Anyways am i lucky to be tall? Or should i be ashamed of my height?

2006-09-17 17:09:47 · 31 answers · asked by diamonds_are_love 2 in Singles & Dating

the story is that My boyfriend of 6 years is going away for 10 days with some male friends ( all single not married) I want to be fair and not give hima ahard time since we are going to vegas ina afew weeks for 5 days but at the same time i don't think is fair that he's taking trips with guys for so long ( every year he has to go away with friends once or twice a year) I don't see what's the need for that .I need your advice in how I have to handle this situation by the way his friends are all players and over 35..so I'm ina atough situation I don't want to be selfish with him but a lot of people tell me that is not right that a boyfriend go away for so many days with the guys and every year... what can I do???

2006-09-17 17:09:29 · 13 answers · asked by CAJA 2 in Singles & Dating

and no one else is home. I dont have any friends either, maybe thats part of it.

2006-09-17 17:08:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Single mom Of 4 month old boy. Im taking the "donor" to court for paternity, child support/ custody, & medical... Only problem is I have no-one to represent me in court. The dad will not return any calls or e-mails & I have not spoken to him since Jan. Since Im staying under my moms roof, they combined her income (less then 20,000 a year) with my 401 K (approx. 10,000) & said " I " make to much for free legal representation. (3 adults & 1 infant) Her income is not mine! & to take my 401K out would mean me geeting penalized 30%... I've looked into NJ Bar, family planning groups, free legal advise sites, etc. - but I can't seem to find REPRESENTATION (To stand up infront of the court & speak on my behalf) for an actual court date coming up the begging of Oct. Any Organizations??? ANY HELP AT ALL WOULD BE MUCH APPRECIATED. Thank you soooooo much... : (

2006-09-17 17:07:32 · 4 answers · asked by nocrapps 1 in Family

I slept with my ex's close friend and i don't apologize for it because i'm a grown woman who can choose to do what she wants to do. recently, i started speaking to my ex again and all the feeling i once had started to come back full force. if the opportunity presented itself i would like to get back with my ex, but would that be a good idea?

2006-09-17 17:07:08 · 30 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Singles & Dating

Does that seem odd? I don't want to worry about her, I want her to be self-sufficient and just, you know, enjoy conversing about the origins of the universe & s***. Is that too much to ask?

I was talking to a friend about a girl I hit it off with at a party, and when I finally got her number (like a week later [long story]), I told him I wanted to take her out to coffee. He said she'd think I was boring. Okay so maybe I am! He suggested bowling! F*** bowling, I want to be boring! So I haven't called her. He knows her and says she'll be bored.

Are women attracted to intelligence? Instinct tells me "No." So does personal history. And observation.

2006-09-17 17:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know he loves me but is love enough?In nine years he never gave me money as a husband do. I don't have a child to him but he have children from another woman.For long time I want to separate with him because I know it's just useless being with him but he never give me up,he stay with her sister's house with his children.I've been so good understanding and patient for everything he's doing to me,whatever his sister say he follow,his children doesn't want me but I like them.He kept on promising but I am already tired of waiting.I want myself to give a chance to live normally to be happy because I'm getting old already and sometimes getting sick but I don't receive a support.I love him but love alone won't help.He always hide whenever he want to visit me because he is afraid to his sister and children.I am a widow by the way when we met.I am already tired.I am married to him but I don't have any right.Please advice.Thank you.

2006-09-17 17:05:43 · 9 answers · asked by Mellow Ria 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Ex Boyfriend Said That He Would Never Hurt Me And Then We Went Out And Like A Week Later, He Broke Up With Me For One Of My Friends. THEN, He Broke Up With Her And Asked Me Out Again And In My Stupidity, I Said Yes. Then One Of My Like Best Friends Found Out { Or So He Says} That My Ex Was Just Using Me. So I Broke Up With Him On A Saturday But He Didnt Read The Email Until Sunday. Then On Monday My OTHER Friend That Has Also Never Lied To Me, Said That My Ex Actually Did Like Me. Well Now I Don't Know Who To Believe... Can You Help Me Out?

2006-09-17 17:04:38 · 8 answers · asked by Cheez-It 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a recently divorced mother of two and I have been seeing this guy for a little while now and I'm starting to fall in love with him. He's been there for me through my divorce as a freind but now it has gone a lot further. We have both been hurt in the past so how do I know if he feels the same way . Just wondering if anyone has any ideas about how to tell him I'm falling in love with him without scaring him off or making him feel intimidated?

2006-09-17 17:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by fa0099 2 in Singles & Dating

I think she likes me and I like her. What can I do to let her know?

2006-09-17 17:03:13 · 8 answers · asked by The_Chocolate_Moose 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm kinda shy and all, but I really like this girl. I know I should be confident and all but is thee anything to help me out, or should I just roll the dice and pray for some luck

2006-09-17 17:00:47 · 14 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Singles & Dating

is constantly calling the house asking me questions about my brother and they aren't even together. She always wants to find out if he has company, among other things. What do you think?Would you mind? What would you do? I have already told her I am not in the middle and do not wish to answer her questions. How would you make it stop? Oh yeah, we get along somewhat now, but we have almost fought in the past because she threatened to burn me and my children up while we were sleeping. I still don't trust her.

2006-09-17 17:00:34 · 10 answers · asked by LaJoya S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 16:59:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She kept in contact with this person, even after they stop working together. She then referred him for a job where she worked. From how I see it she kept the contact going. They know speak on a regular basis, by phone, email etc. I spoken to her about it, she does not seem to care how I feel and insist it is a friendly relationship. We now go to the church that he invited her to. Today after church she to our kids to his house and spent over three hours there, I was at work when she came to pick me up my son told me where they were. Am I wrong to feel disrespected.

2006-09-17 16:58:35 · 22 answers · asked by uglyboy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

well my birthday is on the 23 of september and im going to invite him over the first time on my birthday.And i really want my first kiss with him and i really like him and all and also he really likes me and all.Well my reason is i really want somthing to hapanned to me on my birthday and that is i really want my first kiss! well should i kiss him or should i wait to see if he kisses me.Well im thinking i should kiss him when he leaves or should i wait until he kisses me.please help me what do you think i should do.do you think i should kiss him or just wait until he kisses me.what do you think i should do.Please be honest and nice to me on this qeushtion.

2006-09-17 16:58:16 · 13 answers · asked by - Allison 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know height is important to most women, but I've been wondering, is it more important than being in shape?

So hypothetically, would you rather date a man who is 5'7" and muscular, or a man who is 6'5" and flabby?

2006-09-17 16:58:02 · 17 answers · asked by Byakuya 7 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I like this guy. What should I do?

2006-09-17 16:57:47 · 27 answers · asked by Isabella 2 in Singles & Dating

when u put it in then u move ur tongues round....yea imma sorts slow...so yea it would help if u explain

2006-09-17 16:57:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 16:57:19 · 17 answers · asked by Cyber Spacer 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 16:56:53 · 18 answers · asked by tropicstrawberry19 1 in Singles & Dating

A few years ago, I taught part-time at a community college, and I still stay in touch with some of my former students. Is this ok? My students were around the same age as me, but most of them were actually older than me.

Personally, I still stay in touch w/ some of my former professors, but it's more on an academic/professional level - like to ask for recommendations and talk about the field.

With the students I stay in touch with, it's more on a friendship level, and not academic at all. And one of them likes me romantically, even though I've told him time and again that I'm not interested.

I guess if it feels wrong, it probably is wrong. But I just wanted to see what responses I might get.

2006-09-17 16:55:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

hey all. I just don't know what to do. See I am from a small town and this weekend is the homecoming. That is one of the main things that happens there and it is just the place to be! : ) The game is Friday at 7pm (mtn time) Im in college 6 hours away and I have class that day at 11am (cst) it does get done at about 11:30 sometimes.
do you think I should leave after class or just skip and go before or even the day before after my last class which is at 1pm? I just don't know what to do.
The main things are to see my friends & family there plus its a fun time to go back. and also my boyfriend might get time off of work on fri. sat and maybe sun. he is also back home. so that is the other half of me wanting to go back. oh FYI, I already have 10 hrs of absences and can only get 30. otherwise I will be kicked out. (academic probation) any suggestions might help me to make up my mind! : )
thanks a bunch!

2006-09-17 16:54:36 · 9 answers · asked by native_lady 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like some guys and I'm not picky or anything...what can I do to make a guy think about me until he goes insane? to make him like me? thanx. lol. GOOD advice is appreciated....leave your "ur too young" and "love urself first" comments to urself

2006-09-17 16:54:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

in high school

2006-09-17 16:54:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out on a date two days ago and still no phone call. He did text message me after he dropped me off saying he had a good time. Although throughout the date there were awkward moments and sudden silences. What do you guys think?

2006-09-17 16:53:04 · 23 answers · asked by Andyr 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it okay to just come right out and ask a guy how he feels if he's sending lots of mixed messages or does that scare a guy off? If so, what's the best way to do it?

2006-09-17 16:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres couples everywhere.Everyone seem so happy. even the ugly ones, even the enoying ones even the stupid ones... i mean everyone is in a relationship. i believe theres always somebody for everybody... but i've been single for a longtime and i personally don't think i'm the ugly one or the enoying one or the stupid one... But just really have bad luck with guys. Why....? it seems that i'm always the SINGLE one. what am I doing wrong?

2006-09-17 16:51:59 · 34 answers · asked by gougga 1 in Singles & Dating

dammm i love her but then i want to run away

2006-09-17 16:51:48 · 7 answers · asked by Sergio 1 in Singles & Dating

that looks like Pepto Bismol, and wears pink shirts, a has a little purse with him...

And he has two sons, and is married.....
My questions is he gay?

2006-09-17 16:50:41 · 17 answers · asked by DREENA 2 in Marriage & Divorce