Is it okay to just come right out and ask a guy how he feels if he's sending lots of mixed messages or does that scare a guy off? If so, what's the best way to do it?
2006-09-17 16:52:19 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I THINK IT IS OK TO PUT THE CARDS ON THE TABLE SORT
OF SPEAKING. THEN YOU WILL KNOW WHAT GOING ON
THE WORST THING IS MIX MESSAGES. THAT PLAYING GAMES AND YOU DONT NEED THAT. IF HE HAS PROBLEM
WITH IT, THEN YOU KNOW IT WAS THE RIGHT THING TO
DO, AND YOU DID NOT WASTE SO MUCH OF YOUR TIME,
2006-09-17 17:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure if it would scare him off or not but sometimes the mixed messages have more meaning than you think. You may have to come right out and ask him. I am in the situation that you are so I'm not sure what advice to give you?
2006-09-17 23:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by fa0099 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out what is sign is. No really. You could learn alot about a person if you know their sign. Read up about him through the horoscope and find out if he is a sensitive person or a hard person to deal with. If he is sensitive, maybe he really likes you but is scared to tell you. If he is a hard person, then he would like to have things laid out on the table instead of all this playing around.
2006-09-17 23:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by meeeohmyyyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is sending you mixed messages maybe you need to sit down with him and just say look I am confused can you help me understand this. and ask him what you are confused about maybe he is sending mixed messages because he is confused too
2006-09-17 23:57:20 · answer #4 · answered by melthule 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same posotion. I asked him if he just wanted to be friends or if he was looking for a relationship. He said just friends becuase of this whole thing that is going on with this other girl (she keeps calling him and messing with his head). We haven't talked much since. So, if there is another girl involved, step back a little, if there isn't, just ask him.
2006-09-17 23:56:44 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confused men are the hardest to figure out!
when i come across confusing men, i'll pretend to appear aloof about the whole thing.
when he sense that u aren't really bothered about how things are going between u 2, he'll either make up his mind about staying or leaving.
2006-09-17 23:56:11 · answer #6 · answered by keira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go ahead and ask. I'd tell you how I felt, but then, maybe he wont. If you lose him, don't sweat it. You will find your guy sooner or later.
2006-09-17 23:55:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd simply ask. If he can't provide you with a direct answer, i might consider dating others.
2006-09-17 23:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sister in-law used to say it best;"What the F****?!!"
2006-09-17 23:55:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask him and you will know from there what too do
2006-09-17 23:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋