Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

What is the best way to get revenge on my boss? I invited him to a family BBQ, where after only 2 drinks, began to make sexual advances on my wife in front of my father, and swore so much that my son's favorite word is no longer "dada", but "****". He later told my father that he bets my mom was a "real piece of ***" back in the day, and that he wouldn't mind a turn on the "momma merry-go-round." This was my boiling point. I kicked him out of my house (semi-violently), and since then things haven't been the same. I fear that I will lose my job of 13 years because this a** has aproblem with me. His father is the owner of the company (one of the largest car dealers in the U.S.), so my situation is tricky. I can't just report him...HOW CAN I HUMILIATE HIM OUT OF HIS JOB?

2006-09-17 16:33:18 · 20 answers · asked by Ford F 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im in a weird situation, and I dont know how to ask my girlfriends best friend to stop hanging out with her at our place while im at work...

he just survived cancer 2 years ago and his parents died when he was young.

When im at work he comes over and hangs out with my girlfriend smoking pot and watching dirty movies. The guy wears jogging pants all day and walks around my place with a *****.

I confronted him, he called me a sellout, insensitive jerk and a not a man because I wont fight him and because I work as a janitor, so im not a real man... And my girlfriend doesnt believe me when I tell her how I feel. She just defends her friend.

Should I just beat him up or set up or pay someone to rough him up?

2006-09-17 16:33:00 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does your partner use you the same now as they did on your honeymoon?

2006-09-17 16:32:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my mother is extremely picky at whatever she wants, or has, or gets. I have bought her things in the past just to find out that she has returned it because i was a shade to light in the color or what not. Does any one have any suggestions on a gift that is good for all and there is no chance for my mother to be too picky? i mean there are things that she'll love no matter what but i want to get her something original and special but i'm afraid she'll just take it back... any suggestions?

2006-09-17 16:32:02 · 26 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Family

I can't find what makes me happy in life. I feel like no matter how hard I try, I will never make it in life and that I should just give up.

2006-09-17 16:30:32 · 8 answers · asked by NameUnbroken 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok I am a freshman in HS and for the past week i told my friend (sarah) that i thought this Junior liked me because he (or atleast i thought so) would always look at me. So i told her that i thought he liked me, i dont know him, and that i thought he was cute but i was not crazy about him. Then when i saw the boys myspace, i found out that he had a girlfriend so i was like "whatever" so i just dropped it and forggot about him because he was already taken.I guess comes to find out my friend Sarah knows that boys sister and told her everything that i told her, and the sister told him everything, i guess he was really nice about it but he just said that he did not like me and that he has a girlfriend, ect. Wow what is your opinon.
P.s.- When I confronted Sara about why she told them that she said that i said that it was ok. What? Ok? She is really messed up in the head. lol. I cant believe it because i am very close friends with sara for 2 years. Ahhh!

2006-09-17 16:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I want to blow my hubbys mind tonight, can I get men to give me tips on what you like, and I can see if he likes it.

2006-09-17 16:29:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 16:29:06 · 2 answers · asked by john p 2 in Family

There is a boy at my school that I am friends with, I think he likes me. How can I tell if he does or not?

2006-09-17 16:28:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

O.K. heres the deal I have been talking to this guy and until we actually meet we talked everynight for 2 to 3 hours. We've seen each other twice in the last week wich is great but the phone conversations have gone to about ten to twenty mint. at the most since then. I don't want to be the only one calling but the last few days it seems as if were going to talk thats how it has to be. guys give me some advice!!!

2006-09-17 16:28:39 · 10 answers · asked by momof3 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My mother in law wants me to go with her to my sister in laws baby shower... however, I honestly dont want to go, Im hurt because my mother in law has always treated my sister in laws child like she was heaven on earth and treating my child like she is nothing but a waste of time... shes always comparing them and putting my daughter down... I had my son and no one gave me a baby shower, and my mother in law hardly did anything for my son or my daughter when they were born, My sister in law relishes in all the attention her daughter recieves and joins my mother in law in degrading my daughter, All I am able to do is defend my daughter... Im extremely jealous and hurt because of this, and I try to avoid the mother in law and sister in law when they get together because it only makes me feel worse... anyway I know when her daughters baby is born she is going to treat them better as well and it hurts... Should I even go to the baby shower or make up some excuse not to go to keep myself ..

2006-09-17 16:28:35 · 17 answers · asked by beautifullybroken 2 in Family

2006-09-17 16:27:09 · 21 answers · asked by narziso23 1 in Friends

Am i crazy for not going to a marriage counselor with my husband that when I told her that I was being abused, she looked at me with the most disbelieving eyes I'd ever seen and said, "Oh yeah, how are you abused?" I then proceeded to tell her and she gave me the same look and said, "And how many times has this happened?" She also cussed during our appointment, which totally in my opinion threw professionalism out the door and seemed very sacastic about the whole thing. I was so upset by this I started crying my eyes out. Does this sound normal?

2006-09-17 16:26:51 · 5 answers · asked by lgb_v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK THE NEW GUY AT SCHOOL LIKES ME AND I LIKE HIM TO BUT HE SAID WE CANT GO OUT RITE NOW BUT I HAVE TO WAIT 3 DAYS BUT THE STRANGE THING IS LAST WEEK HE KISSED ME TOUNG AND ALL. DO I WAIT OR DO I MOVE ON

2006-09-17 16:26:30 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can internet relationships work out? like romantically?

2006-09-17 16:26:15 · 7 answers · asked by tessie 3 in Singles & Dating

He is really a nice guy, but he just has alot of ways that I dont like. I cant drink anything with red 40 or yellow 6 and I cant eat pork. I thank him for being health oriented but he iusd forcing all that onto me. I dont want him, Atleast I think I dont and am afraid to leave.

2006-09-17 16:26:14 · 8 answers · asked by Sexxyinanothersex 1 in Marriage & Divorce

All right, this is really pretty funny, but I'm actually not making this up and I would like to have some imput on it.
I have been dating my girlfriend for a month now and her father is making us break up because I did some inappropriate things with her but more because he thinks we had sex.
To clear some things up, she is a virgin and yes, I have had sex before. But that was when I was young and immature. I am a better person now and I would not hurt her.
I fully intend on having a "talk" with her father over this, cause I'll be damned if I lose her over something stupid like this. I only want to tell him that I have not slept with his daughter and that I am insulted that he would think that, and that I don't intend on breaking up with her cause I really do love her.
Don't get me wrong, I understand why her father is doing this. He worries about his daughter. I respect him for that, but I do not intend on giving up my girl.
Please ask if you want more info and I'll post it.

2006-09-17 16:25:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 16:25:06 · 21 answers · asked by libby 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked my crush out and he said yes. But i feel a bit awkward to like hold his hand and all. I mean, i somehow feel like 'different' this way. Im afraid to show a bit of emotion like towards him. What should i do??

2006-09-17 16:24:27 · 23 answers · asked by Eve 2 in Singles & Dating

For me it was at work, finishing about 2 seconds before our hot receptionist came in to talk to me.

2006-09-17 16:24:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is it exactly? I am 16 and I have an older brother and a younger brother, so I am the middle child.

2006-09-17 16:24:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have a 17 month old son and he doesn't have that much to do with his father, partly because of communication break-down and taking things said the wrong way(most of the communication he has had with me after we broke up was through text messaging). At the moment i'm trying to contact him (txt)so i can talk to him face to face and explain some things that he's taken the wrong way and to try and work out with him when he can see our son, but he is very defensive and thinks i'm just after maintenance money from him, but i'm not! I want our son to get to know his father because i grew up without one and i know what it's like without one.

2006-09-17 16:23:55 · 3 answers · asked by strongagrl 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

that square for yahoo, like on answers people have little cartoon pics, how do i get one?

2006-09-17 16:23:19 · 2 answers · asked by curiosity 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance recently attended a "romance party" with a bunch of her female friends, at which she purcahsed some "toys" to spice up our sex lives. She claims that it's primarily for when we're both in bed together, to ensure we both reach climax. Since we've been dating for over a year now, she wants to keep it fresh. At first, I was pretty cool with the whole idea, since I want her to be satisfied too.

However, once she actually brought it home, then I started to feel a little put off by it. I started to feel like she wasn't satisfied by me, and like I was being replaced with a piece of machinery. I guess it wouldn't be such a big deal if we had been married for years already, but we've only been "romantic" for about a year. No one I have dated in the past has ever needed to do this.

Overall, I guess my male ego has taken a bit of a hit. Am I being too sensitive?

2006-09-17 16:22:39 · 18 answers · asked by George C 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 16:22:30 · 8 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Friends

2006-09-17 16:22:28 · 7 answers · asked by just some chick... 1 in Singles & Dating

hi, i just wanted to say some one out here in the cyber abbyss is fianlly happy and therfore there is hope that everyone can be. i love you all even if you dont understand this. and all i have to say toyou is...NEVER EVER GIVE UP ON LOVE!

2006-09-17 16:22:17 · 4 answers · asked by a perfectly contradictory cat 3 in Singles & Dating

My bestfriend's boyfriend has Bipolar. Lets call her Kelly and him Owen. Kelly is in her early 20s and Owen in his late 20s. They have been together about 14months and its been an on & off relationship. I think they broke up about 2-3 times. Anyone who is familiar with Bipolar will know that the person can be depressed for day(s). Currently Owen is unemployed & has been for a couple of months. Kelly does help with his rent payment every now and again & sometimes other expenses too. Owen may go for days without calling/seeing Kelly & she is the one that mostly rings him. His excuse is that he is too depressed etc. I know I shouldn't call it an excuse & I understand its a serious illness. When they break up, they remain friends & get back together again. She gets upset when he doesn't ring/see her. I tell her that it isn't just Owen that we are dealing with but it is his illness as well but sometimes ya know..U jus haf 2 wonder..is it really? I am lost on how to advice her.

2006-09-17 16:22:01 · 9 answers · asked by Sienna Bella 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a 34dd bra size and I am looking for a bra that fasins in the front and is cute. I am 33 and not looking for a old lady bra I want something that pushes me up

2006-09-17 16:21:59 · 9 answers · asked by dunnbyapril 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 16:21:16 · 10 answers · asked by dawnann 1 in Singles & Dating