O.K. heres the deal I have been talking to this guy and until we actually meet we talked everynight for 2 to 3 hours. We've seen each other twice in the last week wich is great but the phone conversations have gone to about ten to twenty mint. at the most since then. I don't want to be the only one calling but the last few days it seems as if were going to talk thats how it has to be. guys give me some advice!!!
2006-09-17 16:28:39 · 10 answers · asked by momof3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok when i siad the phone calls have dwindled I meant that we only talk on lunch breaks , and such. He also called to let me know it would be tomorrow before he could come over. We both have small kids and his is sick but he didnt call back when he said he would. When we do go out its for 3 to 4 hours eating and talking.
2006-09-17 17:04:33 · update #1
I am not quite clear about your question. Are you saying that you spent a lot of time talking on the phone, however since you met in person the phone conversations has been dwindling? If this is so, back off a little and wait to see what happens. He is probably just feeling that he's rushing in too fast and just wants to get a grip of himself. Give him a liitle space and let him call a few times before you make a call. If he asks why, just say things were a little hectic...
hope this helps
2006-09-17 16:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by sparkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like u miss those long and exciting conversations had b4!!! sister, u're quite okay with the thought but it not really that case always. checkout why he doesn't call u instead u calling him everynite! better b straight sister, it helps a lot. may b u're feelin' backed off to ask, but until u find out u'll keep thinking that only u care for this initial stage of an unknown relationship. you met and keep meeting up. it's natural that ur phone conversation will reduce day by day but u shouldn't feel insecure..
2006-09-17 16:32:42 · answer #2 · answered by don_yourmate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how u feel. then dont call him for a couple days see if he calls u first if he really likes u he will call u when u dont make the move
2006-09-17 16:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by proflirt1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My song Confusion can answer that for you. Go to mypage and click on the link that takes you to my music site and listen to the song called Confusion and then you will understand.
2006-09-17 16:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be busy with school projects or tests. i would call and if another week passes and it is the same, then just give up and let him call you. if he doesn't call then you know upfront what kind of person he is.
2006-09-17 16:33:31 · answer #5 · answered by LOLO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit calling him, let him make the first move.
2006-09-17 16:31:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ash Anne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he lost interest.
2006-09-17 16:59:51 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not interested anymore.
2006-09-17 16:43:09 · answer #8 · answered by maritzared 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him too call you any time. then move forward.meet other people.enjoy life
2006-09-17 16:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isnt interested anymore
2006-09-17 16:31:13 · answer #10 · answered by Glimmer__Man1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋