Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

My husband and i have been married for almost 9 years.I dont feel our relationship is very good at all. so far we have both cheated and tryed to forgive.we have 2 wonderful children together(ages 7 &8 )witch we both love very much. Any more it seems we are still together for our children. We both have different intrests.He likes going out,weather it to a friends house or a bar, eather way there is usually drinking involved.Im getting to be the opposite. Dont get me wrong every now and then is ok But not every friday,saturday and sometimes sunday (when money permits)Id rather watch a movie,go to dinner, or even get a bottle and stay home.The bar to me is for the single croud.We got into a arguement today and i asked him why he was still with me and he said that our kids need a mother and a father that are together.To me that is the wrong reason to stay together.what would that Teach our children? Im not sure what to do im open for suggestions.Do i love him. Yes hes the father of my kids

2006-09-17 16:03:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

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2006-09-17 16:03:09 · 17 answers · asked by kri 1 in Weddings

ok i gave hima hanjob and he kinda pre cam ya no a little here a little there.. k well then it went in/.... not all the way but maybe 3 inches. Cuz it was our first time togehter. then he came and as he came he pulled out.. im uncertain if any got in or not. but hm what are possiblites. alot becuase of pre-***. but it was only 3 inches.. my period is suppoed to ocm on 11 days!..so hmm help

2006-09-17 16:02:26 · 7 answers · asked by Gaga <3 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Seriously, where do they come from? Not that I'm complaining, but don't they have a Mom & Dad and grandparents somewhere? Couldn't they have a good life being that hot without doing porn? I can see nasty skanks getting into it, but there are some pretty hot chicks in porn too.

2006-09-17 16:01:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one of my friends just asked me out! i like him AS A FRIEND not as as BOYFRIEND!! idk what to do i mean i dont wanna hurt him...plus its gonna we real awkard cuz he gets the same ride home as me and we go to the same church and youth group its gonna be real gay!! idk wat to do help!!!!
p.s i told him id think bout it for a day so i only have 24 hours to figure out what to do.

2006-09-17 16:01:37 · 5 answers · asked by ohdarliingletgo 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I seem to struggle with accepting the fact that the people around me that are close to me truly care about me. I have this one close friend that is like a big sister to me. She is 9 yrs. older than me, and I am 18 years old. She is very outgoing and happy all the time, so I really enjoy being around her. I look up to her a lot...and we do lots of fun stuff together like shopping and eating at restaurants every so often. I know that she likes hangin out with me b/c she invites me over a lot and we go lots of places. But for some odd reason....I always catch myself thinking that she just feels obligated to be my friend, or that she doesn't really care for me that much. Although I have no reason at all to believe this...I still seem to feel this way. For example---if i call her and she doesn't answer, then i just automatically think she ignored my call. I feel like I am crazy and I dont like feeling like this at all b/c she is a very important person in my life. Can u help??

2006-09-17 16:01:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is this girl at in my high school that I want to ask out but I can not even talk to her. I am really shy and get really nervous when I am in class with her. I can’t stop looking at her since she is so beautiful and when she sees me looking at her I feel stupid. I don’t even know that much about her or if she is going out with so one. Wondering if anybody had the same problem with talking to girls and how did you get over it.

2006-09-17 16:01:26 · 3 answers · asked by lazyman 1 in Singles & Dating

Does this guy like me or something? Why would he want me to be involved like that?

2006-09-17 16:00:41 · 12 answers · asked by dawnann 1 in Singles & Dating

i need helpppp

2006-09-17 15:58:47 · 24 answers · asked by luvyarocka 1 in Singles & Dating

well i have a boyfriend and we have been going out for about umm half a month and well he already wants me to meet his parents but im not sure about that too so when is the time right?

2006-09-17 15:58:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 15:57:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

anyone know?

2006-09-17 15:57:35 · 3 answers · asked by marlana g 1 in Singles & Dating

it will be even better if you are capricorn too. i don't necessary believe in these stuff, but just curious.

2006-09-17 15:57:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its making me sick to my stomach. what ever happened to just getting to know a person. why do
the majority of men have to have sex all the time on their mind. i thought humans have more going for them other than sex. plz plz plz. guys if you answer this be nice. cuz i didnt say all guys were like this. but you know honestly the majority of you are. come on be for real. i mean its happening to alot of women and i mean alot. so im not making this up.

2006-09-17 15:56:33 · 18 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

im so confused...if u ask him/her do u stll like me and he said why im here with u right now....
i dont understand why just say YES or NO....

2006-09-17 15:55:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have had my fair share of relationships and came to the conclusion that i cannot trust men. i want to have children of my own without the hassel of a husband. i'd have men in my life to please me sexually, date, and maybe to fix things around the house. i no longer have the urge to be in an exclusive relationship when all he's gonna do is lie and cheat and add unneeded stress to my life.

2006-09-17 15:55:14 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I LOVE JLo's dress in this movie, and I want a very similiar one for my may wedding. Does anyone know where I can find information on this, or know of a similiar gown? PLEASE let me know!!

2006-09-17 15:54:42 · 2 answers · asked by punky_tshirts 2 in Weddings

2006-09-17 15:53:37 · 8 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Friends

Ok ill try to make it short...2 years ago i met this girl at a college party. we talked a little, nothing much. I was blown away by her beauty and wanted to ask her out. problem was that i never saw her again. Now to the present. I was finishing up college and low and behold it turns out she was a mutual friend of one of my friends. so we would always be in the same bars or at the same parties. Ok, heres where i need advice...She never recognized me after those 2 years...prolly cuz we only saw eachother once drunk at a party...but anyway i want to ask her out but dont want to seem like a stalker because i know that she wont remember me. I IM'ed her and she didnt know who i was so i told her we had mutual friends and left it at that. so know its just small talk...WHAT DO I DO NOW??????

2006-09-17 15:52:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Last Friday, we watched a movie based back in the 40's or 50's. Two of the main characters had an "open marriage", and the wife had an affair with a much younger man. Afterwards, we were discussing the movie, and she made a strange comment. She stated that she believes that nearly everyone who had money back in those days probably also had open relationships. Then she went on to say that if she lived in those days and was rich, she'd also want to have a "boy toy". I suspect that she is mostly kidding, but her comments still concerned me. Even if she's not really that serious about it, it still caught me a bit off guard that she's speak so lightly about an issue like this. Should I be worried?

2006-09-17 15:52:27 · 18 answers · asked by George C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 24 and for some reason I gravitate towards men who are around 35 or so. Is that strange? Are any of you like that? My sister's the same way. Her guy is WAY older then her. I just want to make sure I'm not alone in this matter

2006-09-17 15:52:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 months. We have not had sex yet. We both agreed the other day that intimacy is what is lacking in our relationship. But he said that " i'm used to dating older women.. not younger.. they take what they want seductively.. not ask for it"... So I'm wondering.. if that was his way of telling me that he wants me to be the first one to make the move? Anyone have any advice?

2006-09-17 15:52:18 · 34 answers · asked by blueskylvr1983 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 15:51:36 · 15 answers · asked by m just a love machine 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 15:50:31 · 12 answers · asked by betyloveschips 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 15:49:53 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He spends every free moment on it. I dont know how much more I can take. He doesnt spend anytime with me, ignores me, he wont even be affectionate to me. The only time I see him is when he comes through the door and when he goes to sleep. Its killing out relationship. I am broken hearted. I feel unappreciated not to mention unwanted. I try to tell him but he doesnt seem to care.

What do I do to get through to him? To save the relationship?

2006-09-17 15:49:27 · 28 answers · asked by Leslie 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 15:49:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a minimum number of guys she'd of had to have slept with? Is it just about her attitude? What makes a woman easy?

2006-09-17 15:49:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tracks all over her arms and God knows where, i care, i don't want her to fall forever. she goes to 2 or 3 pain management clinics and , well she doesn't smake pot, but i wish , that was all she did,even though i don't like that either. she calls me alot,crying and sometimes she's loaded. she's got self inflicted burns all over her, her mom is at a lost. we are 10 years apart. my girlfriend hate me talking to her, i can't let her die, i feel the struggle, i need your help so i can have a new perspective, i am so sad, is there somone with just any words that will help, please don't red flag me, i've rephrased this 3 times, already???

2006-09-17 15:48:32 · 16 answers · asked by lee f 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 15:48:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends