i need helpppp
2006-09-17 15:58:47 · 24 answers · asked by luvyarocka 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off dont say I love u to a guy u havent even asked out , If a girl said that to me i would run away (it sounds a little clingy ) u have to play hard to get flirt with him one day , act like u dont notice him the next save i love u for when u have been with him 4 months ..
2006-09-17 16:01:52 · answer #1 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have scared him if you told him you love him. Just because a guy tells you you're beautiful doesn't mean he's in love with you. Tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels about it. Get everything out in the open and see if he feels the same way. If he doesn't just move on with your life.
2006-09-17 23:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by Trav777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He mention tat u r beautiful but he didnt said he like/love u... he didnt make a another step even wen u told him u love him...i suggest u leave hime alone. Mayb he is already seeing someone else if nt he may need somtime to "calm" down. U just wait n see, do not make any move, i m sure u dun 1 to stress him....
2006-09-17 23:06:33 · answer #3 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you already blew it by wasting 'I love you' with him.
This makes me want to rant about this disgustingly abused phrase between juvenilles and young adults to manipulate one another...so here I go.
To love someone is to wipe thier *** when they are bedridden after losing a limb. To love someone is to care about that person selflessly. If you love him so much you will do whatever is necesary to be with him. You maybe scared and or hesitant to tell him if it will leave you so vulnerable but you will do so anyways to understand his reaction. If you love him you will also care about his reaction. To love someone is to honestly care about them no matter what.
If I told a girl she is beautiful and she turned around being so flattered for maybe once or one of a few times in her life that she was inspired out of the compliment to tell me she loves me then I could hardly take her seriously. It says you are sensitive but also wild and immature. Maybe that disinterests him from taking you seriously.
Maybe you just want to have fun? There are plenty of guys like me out there that will smirk at such a cute comment and either take advantage of you if we think you are cheap like that or just defer any involvment if you seem to be closer to the innocent/immature kinda thing...which I think you are, please take this comment as constructive criticism. Please understand what Im trying to tell you. Its a moral sin from yourself. Im not christian or religeous, but being honest is a necessary component to happiness, be honest with yourself at least.
Sorry, but if you tell someone you love them based on some superficial looks or gestures, there is a part of a guys mind that will disrespect that for what it is...manipulation for what you want.
sorry, even if you only have the sweetest intentions.
dont resort to desperation, and if you are desperate acknowledge it and recognize it. make a healthy choice before you are in an abusive relationship or have kids with the wrong guy who also has a weak ego issue.
2006-09-17 23:15:08 · answer #4 · answered by jorluke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on to the next. He's not worth your time. I've been there and done that, but I can't say that I told someone that didn't want me that I loved him. The "I love you" is only worth one person that YOU know that loves you back unconditionally. Don't waste that term, because if you do, then you will never know who it is truly worth for.
2006-09-17 23:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you just tell other people you love him or do you tell him you love him?
If you tell him you love him and you haven't even been on a date yet, you may have scared him off.
If its other people you are telling, maybe he doesn't know how you feel and he won't ask you out because he s intimidated by how beautiful you are.
2006-09-17 23:03:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok well dont rell him u love him u guys dont go out . he probaly wont ask u out becasue whe u said u loved him u prpoblay scared him becasue he doent know u like that and u kust pop uo]p and say that u love him?!?!?! bad choice well u have to try to move slow now so keep him close But not close lol good luck!
2006-09-17 23:05:37 · answer #7 · answered by M o m o ★☆•·.™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time getting his attention. Find someone else who is willing to take you out without restrictions.
And how can you say "i love you" when nothing is going on between you.
You really need serious help.
2006-09-17 23:04:44 · answer #8 · answered by tangerine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you telling someone you never even dated that you love him? You sound desperate and needy. No wonder he's not interested. Back off and find someone who's available.
2006-09-17 23:01:12 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just play hard to get guys love that. And tell him your feelings anymore until he shows you how he really feels about you.
2006-09-17 23:05:57 · answer #10 · answered by dawnann 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋