talking to girls?

Question

There is this girl at in my high school that I want to ask out but I can not even talk to her. I am really shy and get really nervous when I am in class with her. I can’t stop looking at her since she is so beautiful and when she sees me looking at her I feel stupid. I don’t even know that much about her or if she is going out with so one. Wondering if anybody had the same problem with talking to girls and how did you get over it.

Answer 1

looking at her in class shows her you have an interest in her. looking away when she catches you looking will make her think you have other intentions. when she catches you looking just smile at her. if she smiles back she is giving you a signal to go to the next step - talking. as soon as the bell rings start making your way toward her. tell her you hope that you didn't embarrass her by looking but you couldn't help it she is so attractive. take your lead from what she does after that. what have you got to lose by talking to her. the worst that could happen it that she rejects your advances. you won't be any worse off than what you are now. i used to go to the school dances alone. i would go to the table where all the unattached girls were and start asking them one at a time if they would like to dance. if one said no i asked the one next to her. eventually someone would say yes. your odds of success are directly related to the number of times you try.

Answer 2

I have trouble talking to guys because i'm so shy.....so I might not be of much help.

Are you asking how to talk to this girl? Or just girls in general? Considering you just said she is with someone?

Either way try to just be confident in yourself and know that you are worth it. Confidence is the key in many cases. If you don't feel that you are worthy odds are she won't think so either.

Good Luck to you!

Answer 3

be u and just do what comes natural. Good luck!