Ok ill try to make it short...2 years ago i met this girl at a college party. we talked a little, nothing much. I was blown away by her beauty and wanted to ask her out. problem was that i never saw her again. Now to the present. I was finishing up college and low and behold it turns out she was a mutual friend of one of my friends. so we would always be in the same bars or at the same parties. Ok, heres where i need advice...She never recognized me after those 2 years...prolly cuz we only saw eachother once drunk at a party...but anyway i want to ask her out but dont want to seem like a stalker because i know that she wont remember me. I IM'ed her and she didnt know who i was so i told her we had mutual friends and left it at that. so know its just small talk...WHAT DO I DO NOW??????
2006-09-17 15:52:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her evereything that you told us, be honest and tell her that you are so much in love that u still remember her.
~Reyanne~
2006-09-17 15:56:15 · answer #1 · answered by Reyanne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Small talk can lead to good things. Find out what music, books, etc. she likes. Maybe you can get tickets to a concert or something and ask if she would like to go. Maybe do stuff as a group with the mutual friends and a couple of other friends so it isn't really like a date yet.
2006-09-17 22:57:17 · answer #2 · answered by knittinmama 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you met at a party. Girls kinda like it when you bring up stuff they don't remeber. It lets them know that you did! Tell her that it would be cool if you went out for drinks or dinner or something. I mean its cute. Don't call and tell her you met her once and want to marry her of course. Jus be cool about it. Your showing you had interest by telling her that you remeber!
2006-09-17 22:57:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't make to much out of the fact that you met her two years ago, it's really not that important. I'd just ask her if she'd like to go out for a drink or something, get to know her.
2006-09-17 22:56:44 · answer #4 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
married woman for ten years giving you advice, ask your friends to introduce you. then if all goes well, ask miss beautiful if she wants to meet you at a movie or something. party or club a no go if it was me. that is a place to meet someone, but not a place to get to know miss beautiful.
take her to dinner, be a gentleman. let me tell you, even chicks in bars and clubs like nice guys who know how to act nice.
hth.
2006-09-17 22:58:36 · answer #5 · answered by Madonna1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her all over again. Is it that hard? Dont menton the other party. Thats like creepy. Anyways. Talk to her, find out if she's got a bf or not. If you think she likes you, then ask her out. Good Luck!!
2006-09-17 22:56:42 · answer #6 · answered by Yellow :) 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell her you met her before at a party, thought she was beautiful but never saw her again. and that its amazing to finally see her again, and if she doesnt think its too odd, to go out sometime if shes single!?
ps make sure to mention the part about you were blown away by her. most girls i think would love to hear something like that.
2006-09-17 22:55:54 · answer #7 · answered by bridgetsmomma621 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you IM'd her it would make the most sense to hurry up and ask her out so that she would know why you IM'd here. Just tell her that you are interested in getting to know her and ask her out for a drink or something
2006-09-17 22:56:44 · answer #8 · answered by SunnySmile83 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, find out if she is otherwise engaged (has a boyfriend, fiance).....Then when you have the all clear, call her and tell her that you never forgot meeting her (even though you've seen other girls since then) and would like to see her again......Good Luck, hun.........
2006-09-17 22:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out and see where your relationship goes because changes are after dating awhile she may remember you or you can tell her and who knows you may be her prince charming. It happen to me. Good luck.
2006-09-17 22:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by randrnorman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you think she's attractive and ask her out...after all, youve already told her yall had mutual friends so she probably wont think your a stalker.
2006-09-17 22:59:31 · answer #11 · answered by Southern Sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋