I'm 24 and for some reason I gravitate towards men who are around 35 or so. Is that strange? Are any of you like that? My sister's the same way. Her guy is WAY older then her. I just want to make sure I'm not alone in this matter
2006-09-17 15:52:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NOOOO. Has nothing to do w/finances. There's just something about them that I like.
2006-09-17 15:57:06 · update #1
You're not abnormal. Lots of women are. Older men are usually more settled, more stable, more confident, and better able to meet your needs. When I was your age, I dated men from one year younger than me to MANY MANY MANY years older than me. (I'll keep the actual age a secret.) I adored the older men, but I would not go out with anyone who was divorced or had children. Widowed with adult children was ok. I didn't want to be anyone's step-mother or the second wife to a man who had proven he didn't have staying power. In the end, I married a man 3 years older than me. But I dated them all.
2006-09-17 15:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by lizardmama 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i don't think its weird. I've always been attracted to older men. My husband is 13 years older than i am. Older guys seem to be more mature and have their head on straight. Your not alone. =-)
2006-09-17 22:57:25 · answer #2 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, you're not alone. For some it's a matter of maturity, for others they just like they way an older guy looks.
2006-09-17 22:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by fleekyone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not at all weird but perfectly normal. Older men tend to be more attractive because they are financially stable and wiser. Therefore you feel taken care of. They are more mature as well and don't behave like jerks (almost).
2006-09-17 22:56:00 · answer #4 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all I am also 24 and my ex bf is 20 yrs older. They say its because maybe we lacked a father when we were young, I just think its because we like them older, we like a guy who knows what he is doing and dosent only think of himself, plus you dont have to teach him anything mostlikely he already knows how.....
2006-09-17 22:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird older men are more mature ,and have gotten over the little boy syndrom
2006-09-17 22:55:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You not alone, I was married to a man 10 years older that I. .. It didn't work out, not due to the age difference a**holes come at any age...
2006-09-17 22:55:49 · answer #7 · answered by littlevae73 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You r not weird n aso u r not alone.... older men r usually more attractive than younger men....they r more mature but i guess they dun "sweet" talk as much as the younger 1....
2006-09-17 22:59:45 · answer #8 · answered by D@ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I'm older and single drop me a letter at robert899295@yahoo.com
2006-09-17 23:00:30 · answer #9 · answered by robert899295 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicole,
It's probably the whole being more mature and experienced (not necessarily in the bed department), but in other areas of there life.
2006-09-18 01:33:02 · answer #10 · answered by Jason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋