what if that 16 year asked me out but I know my parents would tell me not go out with him? What should I do?

Answer 1

Tell him you are sorry, but you are not allowed to go out with him !!!

It is called ‘respecting your parents’ wishes’ !!!
You could perhaps mention to your parents that he asked you out on a date, and that you would appreciate knowing the reasons for any objections they may have to you going out with him.

The thing is, that whilst you continue to live with your parents, you should respect their wishes, and not go out with him !!!

Answer 2

You are jail bait for him. Whatever he does, your parents can send him to jail for doing it...or even thinking about it with a 14 year old. Why do you live with your parents if you are not going to do what they say? Why do you think God selected them for you? To keep you out of trouble!!!!!!!!!!!!! The way this happens is you ask them for advice and then you take it. Presto, you are kept out of trouble. Did you read about the 14 year old who ran from home to meet this great guy she met on the web? He put her in chains in a cave with real bombs around her to kill anyone who entered. She managed to send a text message to....WHO???? WHO did she write to for help??? Her MOM, the one she ran from and lied to about what she was doing and who she was planning to see. What should I do? How about your homework !...so that you can be smart enough to earn money when you are 16 and you can get out of your home and be a prostitute and make lots of money because your terrible MOM will not be able to protect you any more. You will be an adult. You cannot make enough money at 16 to get a place to live unless you break the law.
Why do you not have a heart to heart talk with the parent you trust the most and tell them you are being tempted by this 16 year old guy and ask them what is so wrong with him. Maybe they will tell you the truth. Say you want to invite him to a dinner with the family and then you can all play games and get to know each other. How is this 16 year old going to help pay for the baby. Is he rich? Is his religion the same as yours? Then your parents and his parents meet for a dinner and discuss rules for the courtship. If this guy wants to date you he should do it right...while being watched at all times. Your English is not so good. Practice perfect English so you can get a job as a typist. Please trust your parents...they are the only people who really care what happens to you and how you turn out.

Answer 3

U should listen to Ur parents, because as luck would have it, something will happen if u go out with him anyway.

U could run into someone who will see u and they may tell Ur parents( without knowing they're telling or on propose)

U may get caught by Ur parents

U may make a mistake and tell on yourself( after going out with him)

And if any of the things happen above u can mess it up for you self and the guy. U do this and u could make it hard for them to trust u again and they may not allow u to do other things u would like to do because now u have lost they're trust.( do u want that)

U could get the guy in trouble( do u want that)

So u have to think to yourself ( is this worth me getting into trouble over one date)

If u sneak out with him and Ur parents find( and believe they JUST MAY)then way happens if u want to do some simple and they say NO because they can trust that ur telling the truth, what if u want to go somewhere and they either say (ok, but we're going with u)until we can trust u again?

This is really not worth u losing there trust over some guy. Guys come and go and if he's telling you to go out with him after they say no( then HE'S REALLY not worth it)

BE SMART SWEET, DON'T DO IT

Answer 4

Talk to your parents - in a mature manner - and find out what their objections are. Don't get an attitude about it, don't whine, don't do any of the normal teen-age girl stuff.

Is it because he is considered too old for you (how old are you)? Is it because they don't want you dating right now - period? Is it something because of him directly? Have they heard stories about this boy that makes them leary of him?

Would they have any objection to his coming over and watching movies or something at your house - maybe with a bunch of friends so the can become more comfortable with him and learn to trust him?

Whatever you do, absolutely do not sneak out, lie or whatever to go out with this boy. If, and most importantly WHEN you parents find out, you will have broken the trust that they had in you. At that point they will not want to allow you to do anything and you will have no-one to blame for that but yourself.

Answer 5

tell your parents that you really want to go out with this guy! ask if you can just go to the mall.(start small) just say that you are going to the mall with him and it's not that big. just try asking to see how it goes. and if you can e-mail me so i can give you the screen name of a friend that was in the same thing that you are in.

Answer 6

I have a feeling you are not that old. If your parents tell you not to go, then do not go! You are not old enough to make your own decisions and you are obligated to obey your parents whether you agree with them or not! When you are an adult on your own with your own place and your own money, then you can make your own decisions.

Answer 7

listen to your parents out of respect they know whats best for your there will be plenty of time for boyfriends. they only want what is best for you and love you. don't loose their trust because if you do its hard to get it back.

Answer 8

Well how old are you? Just talk to them about it and maybe if they know who,what,when,where and all that stuff they will feel more at ease if not you can always wait till you get older....