I am a recently divorced mother of two and I have been seeing this guy for a little while now and I'm starting to fall in love with him. He's been there for me through my divorce as a freind but now it has gone a lot further. We have both been hurt in the past so how do I know if he feels the same way . Just wondering if anyone has any ideas about how to tell him I'm falling in love with him without scaring him off or making him feel intimidated?
2006-09-17 17:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by fa0099 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yah if you are spending alot of time with him now, he must care or he woudent be there for you now! good luck hun i wish you two the best
2006-09-17 17:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be friends for a while sounds to me a bit like both of you arn't ready for a full on relationship just yet.
but don't offer him sex yet either. this will only spoil the friendship and may turn him away from you. just let things happen don't force it and don't seem desperate either. if he loves or feels stromgl;y about you it will develop naturally anyway
2006-09-17 17:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by Scott G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not tell a man that you are in love with them unless you r 4 sure he feels the same way. that will either scare him off, or give him the go to take advantage of you. he'll figure she is so n love with me, that i can't do n e thing wrong.
2006-09-17 17:08:31 · answer #3 · answered by tamika r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already gone "alot further"... if he's still around don't worry. Unless you want to marry him (which I encourage), you've already got everything you could hope for.
If you do feel that marriage is in order let him know.
2006-09-17 17:11:27 · answer #4 · answered by The_Chocolate_Moose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I have to say is good luck and best wishes to you!
2006-09-17 17:12:30 · answer #5 · answered by brigette b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first just be yourself and tell him your fellings if him fells the same he'll tell you.
2006-09-17 17:08:02 · answer #6 · answered by danni_doodlebop09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should ask him about his feelings. if he has any feelings for you.
2006-09-17 17:07:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋