I know he loves me but is love enough?In nine years he never gave me money as a husband do. I don't have a child to him but he have children from another woman.For long time I want to separate with him because I know it's just useless being with him but he never give me up,he stay with her sister's house with his children.I've been so good understanding and patient for everything he's doing to me,whatever his sister say he follow,his children doesn't want me but I like them.He kept on promising but I am already tired of waiting.I want myself to give a chance to live normally to be happy because I'm getting old already and sometimes getting sick but I don't receive a support.I love him but love alone won't help.He always hide whenever he want to visit me because he is afraid to his sister and children.I am a widow by the way when we met.I am already tired.I am married to him but I don't have any right.Please advice.Thank you.
2006-09-17 17:05:43 · 9 answers · asked by Mellow Ria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I do not know your financial situation but if financially you can effort it , pack your gears now and run .....as fast as you can and as far as you can.............. He never love you , you are just convenient to him , he , in his own lazy , crazy way like you but he is a soft that do not deserve you and will never change.
Thank the lord that you haven't any children from him , that would lock you up for life.............
2006-09-17 17:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by J/P 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You have 1 important right: to be treated with courtesy and respect as his wife.
Go bring him home if you need too...day not night so it isn't threatening. You each get 10 minutes to answer 3 questions:
a) Is this the way I want the marriage to be?
b) Yes/No what 2 things need to chagne?
c) How do change item # 1 on each list.
2006-09-18 00:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Cool 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
leave him, if he has been this way for 9 years, you have done your duty. But think hard, have you done everything right, is there a reason he doesnt give you things. There are men who do not think about things like that. Do you ever just ask him for money? if you answer no you have not ask him, then today would be a great day to start. Good luck to oyu.
2006-09-18 00:13:57 · answer #3 · answered by fredadover 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is no reason that you should stay in an unhappy relationship, and after all this time, you have no hope of it ever being any thing but what it always has been. The question is...how much longer will you deal with it, and why?
2006-09-18 00:10:53 · answer #4 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would of and have left a simular situation.. drop that anchor and get out there an enjoy life
2006-09-18 00:14:40 · answer #5 · answered by DearAbby 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See a lawyer immediately and make that worthless piece of a man pay!
2006-09-18 00:09:26 · answer #6 · answered by cat s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a lawyer and get his advice. You need to leave, you should have people in your life who love and care for you.
2006-09-18 00:16:34 · answer #7 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why is hes sister runing hes life for enyway? thats why your there is to help him with hes life ....and as childern go it be couse your not there mother give thim time jusst try to be there firend and it will work out...and as far as your husbeant go thats whout thay mad a ROLLING PIN for.. get my pont!!! LOL...MY GOD BLESS !!!
2006-09-18 00:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by destiny7152003 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him how you feel.......nothing says it better than raw emotion.
2006-09-18 00:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by Da 411 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋