I slept with my ex's close friend and i don't apologize for it because i'm a grown woman who can choose to do what she wants to do. recently, i started speaking to my ex again and all the feeling i once had started to come back full force. if the opportunity presented itself i would like to get back with my ex, but would that be a good idea?
2006-09-17 17:07:08 · 30 answers · asked by sexylips 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is your EX.....there must be a reason for that...has that problem been corrected..................
2006-09-17 17:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u still like, or love the ur ex, then go. It's never a bad idea. Just pray though that his friend is no kiss and tell. But well, if that ex's friend is, so? Don't sweat that stuff off. U were not with a relationship with your ex when u did it anyway, or are u? And shall that friend leak out somethin', don't ever confirmed it as true it may ruin whatever chances you have with your ex. And by the way, whatever happens, I think u r a grown woman enough to handle it----
But shall your ex knows, don't give him the right to fuss about it.
goodLuck with your 'second-time' around chances with your ex....
2006-09-17 17:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by cher_dc_xu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're a "grown woman", what do you think? You slept with the man's friend, of course it's a bad idea. No man wants to date a woman that slept with his friend before, it ruins the intimacy of what relationship you would've had. You might as well be used goods to him now.
2006-09-17 17:13:35 · answer #3 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Because you slept with his friend? Would it be a good idea to get back with your ex you say? I would say no, not a good idea for your ex. Give him a break.
2006-09-17 17:12:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to think about why the two of you broke up in the first place. If whatever caused the breakup (eg personality differences) has not changed, then the relationship is not likely to work the second time around.
2006-09-17 17:10:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anisha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally not a good idea. There is too much history and the reasons for your first split are still there. If you have children and think there is a good chance it will stick, then it is worth it. No Kids, don't do it. Go back and have sex all you want but not for marriage.
2006-09-17 17:11:33 · answer #6 · answered by FrogDog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, was he your husband? If you were broken-up at the time and you slept with his friend, that should be okay. If you were married and not divorced that may be another issue, I think you should tell your ex-whatever, the truth about you and his friend, he may already know and has you labled as a slut. But whatever happens enjoy both of them maybe? threesome.
2006-09-17 17:18:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about why you broke up in the first place, is it something that could recur? or has it been a while for people to change. There is a reason why you broke up. In some cases you can get back together and everything would be ok but just remember. break up once shame on you (him), break up twice shame on me (you).
2006-09-17 17:12:57 · answer #8 · answered by nctarheels1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to tell him what happened but you can get back with your ex. He was your ex should it really should be no big deal to him. Be honest with him about your past and also where your heart is now. If he wants to be with you he will forgive you.
2006-09-17 17:10:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I slept with my ex's brother...then months later my ex wanted me back...it was really uncomfortable and i felt bad for what i did....it all depends on whether your ex's friend will tell him what you did...if he does tell him,i don't think you will get back together.
2006-09-17 17:40:09 · answer #10 · answered by sugar_n_spice 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so. You broke up with him for a reason. If it didn't work out the first time, it most likely won't work out the second (or third or fourth, etc). I say move on. There are plenty of great guys out there, you just haven't met them yet.
Good luck.
2006-09-17 17:51:21 · answer #11 · answered by Me 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋