when do girls start growing up and actually have a bf to find someone right for them and not have one just to have one?
2006-09-17 17:09:58 · 21 answers · asked by blah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you find the answer to that one please let me know
2006-09-17 17:13:08 · answer #1 · answered by taffy2513 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It hit me around the age of 25, probably not what you were wanting to hear, but....... up until then life is all about growing up and finding yourself. Honestly if you settle down too early in life when you are still growing up and finding who you are, odds are that you may change in opposite directions and end up not being the person the other thought you would be. And by the way, it is true that you find the one you are meant to be with when you aren't really looking. I never believed that until it happend to me....now I'm married to him.
2006-09-18 00:14:38 · answer #2 · answered by Melinda S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me, i was 21
i have been single ever since (and that's exactly 2 years and 1 month)
my motto is "i would rather stay single, than go out with some gronk, just so that i can say i have a boyfriend"
unfortunetly tho, some of my fellow female species dont ever seem to get this....
that is why my bestest friend just got married for the second time a month ago (she is only 24) and the other friends are either unhappily married or stressed out being engaged supposedly for the "fun" of it.
if you know a chick that's like that (just goes out with boys so she can say she has a boyfriend then she is more than likely gonna stay in that same frame of mind for a very long time - if not forever.
2006-09-18 00:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by miss2sexc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most of them dont really grow up, until they are about 90. But to be kinda mature, and have a long term relationship, uhhhh...well i guess it depends on the girl and if she really is commited. I am 16, have been in a relationship for a year, and am getting engaged on my b-day. (October 24th) So I guess you just have to find the right one!!!!!!!
2006-09-18 00:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by TayNuz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is actually a good question for someone to ask. its rude how some of the girls replied to this question.
it just depends on how mature the girl is though. some 14yr old girls are more mature than some 18 yr old girls. it all depends on the girl, not her age.
the best way to avoid a bad relationship is to get to know a girl first before dating her. if she seems mature enough to handle a relationship then you should ask her out. friendship is an important key to maintaining a strong relationship
2006-09-18 00:30:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think thats how it should be and thats why I am still single. I don't want someone just to say I have a boyfriend. Even if the first one is not the right one, I don't want to mess with their head if its just going to end in heartache. No one wants that.
2006-09-18 00:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by Rx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to break it to ya but it doesn't stop:( I know grown women who have gotten married just for the sake of getting married. They just wanted the house with the white picket fence, it had nothing to do with being mature or being in love.
Not all girls are like that though, just some:)
2006-09-18 00:15:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all girls are like this. it depends on the individual and if she's this way then there's not really much u can do about it,it's her nature. probably when she finally finds someone who blows her away and she really falls in love with she will be prepared to settle down. if not, let her be.
2006-09-18 00:15:08 · answer #8 · answered by sUnSh!ne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Around the same time boy grow up and figure out that girls are not just there to be receptacles for their semen.
2006-09-18 00:13:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
about the age of fourteen if not younger i am 12 and looking for a serious relationship with the past boyfriends that i ahve had i'm now picking wiseley
2006-09-18 00:16:01 · answer #10 · answered by Tay Tay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we start to grow up when we feel we are ready to look for
that someone that makes our heart melt
2006-09-18 00:12:34 · answer #11 · answered by daisy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋