Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

It's noisy & hard to get to know each other & I don't want to drink on a first date...yet guys seem to love to ask girls out for drinks at a bar for a first date (later on, it's fine).

2006-09-17 17:46:25 · 8 answers · asked by it'sjustme 1 in Singles & Dating

I am bipolar2 with some residual ADD and anxiety disorder tossed in for good measure. These neuroses have a shattering effect on my ability to communicate. I understand people and all, but I just don't have the energy to talk most of the time (except in my rare hypomanic episodes). There's no way I'm getting medication and I don't think it would help because --

-- I am an extremely "divergent" thinker, meaning my mind goes off on bizarre tangents of imagination, making it extremely difficult for me to be able to follow a conversation.

Even when I DO have the native energy to open my mouth and speak I go wildly off the handle in quick, excited bursts about the "fundamental aspect of perception steeped in the physics of the universe and how it relates to human consciousness," and other crap like that.

When my ex told me in a sweet and condescending tone last summer that I'm "so weird," it broke my spirit.

2006-09-17 17:45:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do? What do you think about this? I met this guy about 3 mos. ago, we met on the phone (business relatated) we became very acquainted with each other 4 mos before meeting, we fell in love, but he witheld important information about himself, health related problems, he gets very sick at times and says he almost died 4 times before, I've only seen him 7 times & we attend a class together every week, I've waited for him to come around, we do some biz. together & talk almost every day, but somehow, something comes up & we don't see each other, I have feelings for him still, though he is not that attractive, we are very compatible, he talked about marriage before & I can't wait for him any longer, I feel very lonely and bad, I have a good career & financial situation and I'm not unattractive, but I find myself spending weekends on end by myself at home, I want to re-marry, I don't like being alone. I've prayed for a husband, I cry over this.

2006-09-17 17:43:34 · 22 answers · asked by You are loved 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been his daughter in law for 16 years and he has never done anything like this. He grabbed me, kissed (my cheek because I turned my face) and then asked 3 times to let him touch my breast. He does not have dementia, delirium or Alzheimer’s. My husband is out of town working for 4 weeks. I am creeped. Since our home is located next to my in-laws' I hate being home.

2006-09-17 17:41:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you guys look for in a girlfriend?Personality and evrything. Be specific please.Thanx.

2006-09-17 17:41:22 · 14 answers · asked by true-mysteryfrom chinese wish 3 in Singles & Dating

If a guy thinks your the perfect most presttiest girl he has ever seen, but just got out of a serious relationship and needs time to think for a while, and is overwhelmed by everything....will he come back to you?

2006-09-17 17:41:14 · 10 answers · asked by confussed 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know im in love

2006-09-17 17:41:07 · 6 answers · asked by jamesthehotcheeto 3 in Family

Is lust a prerequisite to true love? And where does infatuation fit in?

2006-09-17 17:40:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

question to abuse(just in case it was true).then i got to thinking....what a great way to get points on here.she had 10 answers in 2 minutes.is it possible that just toss in a sour subject and pissed of people will get the for her points?

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2006-09-17 17:39:32 · 4 answers · asked by cowgirlprincess08210 2 in Family

Usually when we are in public and he sees a pretty girl and also women he sees on T.V. I feel uncomfortable and it hurts my feelings.

2006-09-17 17:37:18 · 34 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been dumped, rather it's the past or the present , for another female or male and you sought sweet revenge by looking your best in front of he/she and giving them a reason to regret letting you go?

2006-09-17 17:37:01 · 5 answers · asked by A_WWE_FAN_4LYFE 6 in Friends

Alright, so I was talking to this guy for about two months. Nothing ever happened physically, even though it was obvious we both wanted something to happen. I'm only sixteen, so lets keep it pg 13 please.
We liked each other a lot. We were Valentines. It was adorable.
Anyways, we used to talk for about five or six hours every day. And one day he called and said he just wanted to be friends.
But he gets jealous over EVERYTHING.
He still flirts with me.
That was about five months ago...and he hasn't had a girlfriend or anyone that he's been close to at all.
He called me about a week ago and left me about five voicemails, playing guitar and singing some songs.
It was cute.
Two nights ago, we talked on the phone for about three hours...
His best friend is my best friend =(
It makes him jealous.
Anyways, do you think he still likes me?
I think he does.
I still like him....a lot.
Any feedback would be appreciated, sorry its so long. =)

2006-09-17 17:36:56 · 5 answers · asked by blender 3 in Singles & Dating

Not that I am a sexest,because I am not.However,it seems that more often than not,the women is the one who cheats and don't have enough respect to try to resolve the issues at hand.

2006-09-17 17:35:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 17:35:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

So...I got hypnotized at this Sorority party the other night by one of my friends boyfriend during Rush week. It was awesome and felt great, the only thing was I don't remember any of the crazy things they said I did. Is that normal?

2006-09-17 17:35:28 · 5 answers · asked by daisybabyatthemall 1 in Friends

I want to keep kids in their home enviroment and in their schools(priviate)..I am willing to put my life on hold..a bit for that. He says now that he wants the big D to move on..there my be a women behind this. We live in same house and are separated..we have ever other week with one of us being in charge of house and kids..that leaves the other person free to do whatever he/she wants. Dating is fine but we do not flaunt it..do go out in our area stuff like that..is this too weird? Is anyone else living like this? Had long talk with the kids about 2 months back to bring them up to speed...its been about a year of living this way..him in basement me upstairs..I could do this forever. If I met someone I tell him everything asap..some dont get it and leave one or two have stayed and am currently datting them..they either have been in same situation or just plain understand putting your children first. What do you think..expecially if you have been here or are here.

2006-09-17 17:33:25 · 17 answers · asked by DeeDee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 17:30:51 · 37 answers · asked by pia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have taken her out to dinner on occation and to the show too. How much do you think it has cost me for a year in food and hot water and some entertainment?

2006-09-17 17:30:15 · 32 answers · asked by susan_112147 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Couldn't they argue or bicker when the kids aren't present? Why do they always have to involve the children/kids/others?

2006-09-17 17:29:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How can i have pretty wedding with out spending a lot of money? I am getting marrried in Jan. of 2008 and plan on gettting a lot of my decerations on sale after christmas. I need some ideas.

2006-09-17 17:29:27 · 13 answers · asked by aprils242001 3 in Weddings

I just broke up with my first love for good tonight. We are both in love but the relationship just will not work out. We are too different and we both realize it. Anybody got any advice or stories about thier first love?

2006-09-17 17:29:18 · 28 answers · asked by kosarsosar 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i am weird, but i have a lot of interest in sexual behavior. I ask this because this has happened to me the one time I made love to a woman, but I thought nothing of it. Just a few days ago I saw a movie. After the couple made love they were laying on thier sides and the narrator made emphasis on the man having his hand on his girlfriend's breast. She was not holding his hand while he touching her. They showed him having his on the boob, then he took his hand off, which she put his hand back on the boob. So I was just wondering if this means something special or what?

2006-09-17 17:28:47 · 14 answers · asked by lil freedom fighters 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 17:28:31 · 6 answers · asked by kingfo_2000 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a guy who i loved and said he loved me...he was incarserated for 18 months i waited and wrote and excepted calls and the whole 9 he got out a month ago and now hes f*ucking someone else.....2yrs down the drain....should i try or let him b happy with her?

2006-09-17 17:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by Always Asking 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We are having a destination wedding with just family. About a month later, we'll have a reception back home for everyone else. Because of cost, I was wondering if anyone had ideas other than doing a full dinner.

I was thinking cocktail "hour" with h'dourves...but how long should it be if there is no dinner? As far as alcohol goes-is it okay if we just have wine/champagne and maybe keg beer? Or should we really have liquor?

I've also heard of a cake & champagne reception. Any other ideas?

2006-09-17 17:28:29 · 14 answers · asked by abbya11111 2 in Weddings

I'm in my school's band and i play the clarinet. in class my friend said to my another friend that she can hardly play the school song(she also a clainet player) the anoter friend said well atleast you can play it better than a 10th clarinet player and my friend said my name. my sister found out and told me. it made me cry i thought she was my friend. at the pep band game i was mad at her. she tried to talk to me but i didn't want to talk to her. at school monday she wanted to know what i was mad at her for and i told her. then she said that she never said that. she'd lied to me in the past so i don't know if i should believe her. what should i do ?????? please help me!!

2006-09-17 17:27:58 · 13 answers · asked by danni_doodlebop09 2 in Friends

Then why do we focus on whether we are happy or not in our marriage? If a person gives out in the marriage more than they expect in return would it not make for a happier marriage.

Would less marriages end in divorce if both parties worked towards making the other person happy?

2006-09-17 17:27:55 · 19 answers · asked by Searcher 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i value everyone's opinion, btu if you WERE actually adopted pls. tell me that too.
P.S. Please don't tell me "you need to decide for yourself" cause it's not me and i'm asking YOU what YOU would do.

2006-09-17 17:27:54 · 13 answers · asked by downtown girl 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-17 17:27:14 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-09-17 17:27:05 · 15 answers · asked by aussie_gurl 2 in Weddings