I have been his daughter in law for 16 years and he has never done anything like this. He grabbed me, kissed (my cheek because I turned my face) and then asked 3 times to let him touch my breast. He does not have dementia, delirium or Alzheimer’s. My husband is out of town working for 4 weeks. I am creeped. Since our home is located next to my in-laws' I hate being home.
2006-09-17 17:41:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
HOW CAN YOU TOLERATE THIS, JUST SLAP HIM OR KICK HIM, IF THIS CONTINUES. BUT FIRST LET YOUR HUSBAND KNOW ABOUT IT.
2006-09-18 02:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!! All I have to say is good luck with this one. I would tell your husband. Even though you have been married for 16 years this is his father even though he did do wrong your husband will have a hard time adjusting to what really happened. I had a similiar situation but with my step-dad this was not the first time either. Needless to say he tried it on my sis and my mother is still married to him. I would distance myself from this man as much is as possible make sure someone is always around when you are around him. That is what I have to do. Just please be prepared for people to say you are lying and that you hit on him. Cause I am sure he will flip the situation to fit him. Good luck.
2006-09-17 17:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Heidi B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband, tell your mother-in-law, and have a family meeting about it with everyone there. Suggest in the meeting that he may need to go for counseling. From there on out, don't ever be alone with him, only in family setting.
2006-09-17 18:22:03 · answer #3 · answered by Angelwings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a spyware store in your area or on th enet,, get a cam/mic and audio video tape his actions next time without encouragmeant such as inviting hm over for coffee to get him in a situation where he would try it again once armed with the evidence confront him in front of everyone,, that will end the harrassment and the rumors and lies before they happen one set back ur hubby may not like his father put on the stop like that and will blame you for not handlin this discreetly
2006-09-17 18:33:38 · answer #4 · answered by kewl69charger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess your FIL must be excited watching late night movies. Suggest you speek to your husband asap and try going to your relatives till he returns. I can see the things getting worse in no time if you ignore. After his return you can shift your fil to a mental hospital nereby or you both shift elsewhere.
2006-09-17 17:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mechie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
How do you know he doesn't have dementia, delirium or Alzheimer's? Are you his doctor? Because that is what it sounds like to me.
2006-09-17 17:44:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband, tell your mother- in-law, tell everyone and anyone. And if you can tell all these people in front of him - all the better. Don't let this go on. You've done nothing wrong - he has. Stop it RIGHT NOW !!!!!
2006-09-17 17:50:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one, It needs to stop now. Tell him that you are going to talk to your husband about it. I just hope your husband stands by you. Good luck
2006-09-17 18:07:51 · answer #8 · answered by hotrdcars9 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your husband and let him take it from there. You should have knocked the shyt outta him, but I guess you dont like conflict, so just tell your husband.
2006-09-17 17:44:16 · answer #9 · answered by reh3363 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If that were me...I would have kicked him in the #$%@ and then called my husband right away!!!
2006-09-17 18:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by **KELLEY** 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am really so sorry that happened to you. TELL you what you do. YOU need to have him over and a recorder hidden. YOU need to tell him to please dont kiss you or attack you again. AND if he continues youll tell your husban. BUT HAVE A Gf in the bed room just incase he attacks again you ca n yell. HAVE a bat ready too.
2006-09-17 17:46:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋