My boyfriend makes sexual comments of other girls in front of me. It makes me feel insecure, what should I do?

Question

Usually when we are in public and he sees a pretty girl and also women he sees on T.V. I feel uncomfortable and it hurts my feelings.

Answer 1

Give him a taste of his own medicine. Give sexual comments on his goodlooking friends. I am certain he will freak out. Cheers!

Answer 2

make sexual comments in front of him to guys, then once he gets mad at you for it tell me that is exactly how you feel when he does it. Make sure it is something you know he may be insecure about as well, so he can really get the feeling. Sometime people have no idea how they can affect us without an example

Answer 3

First of all to that guy Alpho whatever your name is, just because you are a dirty lil scum that cheats and lies and feels like he can belittle your wife does not mean every guy is like that. Now that, that is out of the way you really just should talk it out, maybe he thinks it is okay. You know men are use to having their boys around to talk smack about how good girls look but if he is gettin into detail about he wants to do them and what not that may be a hint for you to pack your stuff and hit the road. If he just says they are pretty and have nice melons you should feel happy and glad that he is honest enough with you that he is telling you what he is thinking about. Most guys think like that anyways he is just letting you in his little world. So DONT DUMP HIM OVER stupid thing cuz every guy thinks stuff like that. He is just saying it out loud. If it really bugs you just tell hiim to stop cuz you dont feel comfertable enough yet to hear what he is thinking all the time and that you just dont like it. Period.

Answer 4

Hey, I don't think he's your Mr. Right yet..Go back and think about it girl...I think u have to be frank with him and tell him that the way he behave it's actually hurts u..whether he accept it or not,is the 2nd thing..I would say that he doesn't know how to respect u.Respect is the main element for girls to see how much the guy love them..So,my advise is..make a wise choise! Good Luck.

Answer 5

Let him know how you feel, but don't confront him in an accusing way. Just explain how you feel don't lay blame or he'll either shut down or blow up and nothing will be resolved. Chances are your boyfriend is simply expressing himself and he really has no idea just how much it is effecting you. If there is something he can do to help you build your confidence and self esteem let him know. Men have no idea what we want unless we tell them. I hope this helps. Good luck.

Answer 6

Ok look thsi is the real truth whatever comments he makes of comes out of his mouth HE MEANS IT! i do the same thing to my girlfriend and she gets mad just like you do then of course she stars to yell and scream @ me i calm down alittle but i still look so best thing to do is tell hime how you feel if thats dosen't work start to yell like a ravin lunitic

Answer 7

Tell your boyfriend just what you told us. Tell him it makes you feel insecure, tell him it hurts your feelings. If he doesn't stop, I'd find a new boyfriend who respected me and kept his thoughts to himself.

Answer 8

Be h onest and up front with your boyfriend tell him that his comments make you feel uncomfortable.

Answer 9

It's not you. Your bf has no self respect. Trust me, he is the one should feel insecure.

If he is hurting your feelings and making you feel uncomfortable, he is not right for you.

Love is security and happiness.

Answer 10

Well first off TELL HIM. If this does not work then start doing it wright back to him. Trust me he will get the hint.