Alright, so I was talking to this guy for about two months. Nothing ever happened physically, even though it was obvious we both wanted something to happen. I'm only sixteen, so lets keep it pg 13 please.
We liked each other a lot. We were Valentines. It was adorable.
Anyways, we used to talk for about five or six hours every day. And one day he called and said he just wanted to be friends.
But he gets jealous over EVERYTHING.
He still flirts with me.
That was about five months ago...and he hasn't had a girlfriend or anyone that he's been close to at all.
He called me about a week ago and left me about five voicemails, playing guitar and singing some songs.
It was cute.
Two nights ago, we talked on the phone for about three hours...
His best friend is my best friend =(
It makes him jealous.
Anyways, do you think he still likes me?
I think he does.
I still like him....a lot.
Any feedback would be appreciated, sorry its so long. =)
2006-09-17 17:36:56 · 5 answers · asked by blender 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You guys need to talk, seriously.
Just ask him how he feels about you, it can't hurt. You'll figure things out as they come to you after that but you've got to talk. The longer you keep up these pent up emotions the more difficult it's going to be for you.
What have you got to lose? He'll either tell you that he's just interested in a friendship or he'll say that he wants something more...either way, you'll feel better in the morning.
2006-09-17 17:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear... sorry if I might sound brusque, but he doesn't seem to be that into you, emotionally-wise.
From what you wrote, he could be slightly interested in you but it's not as much as he would want to be with you for the long haul.
The jealous part could be because he sees you more as a close friend and does not want to lose you as a close friend. Plus the part that his best friend is your best friend? All the more that he would want to hold onto you just so that he will never be alone. Do you get what I mean?
You said "we were Valentines". I don't know how long ago that was but the key word is "were". Things change. Puppy love disintegrate. Heck, the reason why "puppy love" is called "puppy love" is because it's not real and not lasting.
You are still 16. There's tonnes of guys out there waiting for you to discover them. Take care, beautiful. Don't be mean to yourself and give yourself a chance at better happiness :)
2006-09-18 00:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by syrope 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is crazy about you
but has no courage to face it, he is still insecure with himself, he is afraid of rejection,of pain, if he would realize he really likes you and that you both belong together, he should wake up from his cowardice, make it work for the both of you
but i believe he loves you
he is so sweet to call you and sing songs for you
thats very rare
he is brave in other ways, give it some time,
things will fall into place
2006-09-18 00:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just flat out ask him if he does.. thats the only way you are gonna know.. none of us have the answer.. most importantly.. dont let him slip away.. u may loose the love of your life
2006-09-18 00:43:38 · answer #4 · answered by an14341991 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am very sure he likes you. that's the logical explanation of what he is doing to you. maybe he is just afraid to confirm his feelings. it's ok because both of you are still young.
goodluck ^_^
2006-09-18 00:40:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋