2006-09-17 17:30:51 · 37 answers · asked by pia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
As long as the lack of education doesn't drive YOU crazy Sure it could work!
2006-09-17 17:35:14 · answer #1 · answered by renclrk 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily. Love can only carry you so far. If education is a value that you hold in high esteem and the person you choose to be with does not then you have a huge problem. This will typically lead to one individual evolving while the other remains static and eventually an enormous divide will exist between the two of you. Mind you, I have seen exceptions but there is a reason why most people with a PhD either marry someone else with a PhD or at least a Masters.
2006-09-17 17:39:39 · answer #2 · answered by h_miles97 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because true love is hard to find and when you find it you should do all you can to hold on to it. Some people cannot afford to get a proper education like others. You should make sure that the person is making a decent living though. If the person has the funds to pursue a better education but is being idle then encourage him/her to further their education. If they refuse then it is not a sign of maturity. When you have a decent person who loves you, that is more valuable than all the riches in the world. Suppose you married someone with a better education and more money but you remained in love with this other person. It would be unfair to you, the first person and your spouse. Life is too short to be unhappy. Watch the indian movie "Judaai" with Sri Devi. In the movie Sri Devi realized that she was happier with her husband who was poor, than when she got rich and almost lost her husband's love. Don't do anything you will regret forever.
2006-09-19 05:53:59 · answer #3 · answered by Hema 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is fine, what abt after marriage? Can he keep u happy, well, give u the basic luxuries???
Even if hez less educated ask him to study further, or find a suitable permanent job.
Love is crazy, ok it is fine. But he shud be able to keep u properly after marriage.
If he cant, then there is no point in marrying so soon, u can wait, I mean u both can wait till he becomes little financially stable.
Then it will be fine, and u are to ready to marry.
Itz little bit OK, if u both marry now, but there MAY be fights regarding this matter, better solve it b4 getting married.
I'm in the same situation with my guy, and so waiting for 1 1/2 yr.
Choose and decide it carefully dear.
Good Luck!
2006-09-17 18:04:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel. For a marriage to be a success, you must RESPECT the person as well as love them.
How do you react to people who are not as well educated as you are? Do you find it difficult to get along with them? Do you find them annoying, or do you look down on them? Or do you find it quite easy and comfortable and have no hangups?
If you are not comfortable around less well-educated people, then that feeling will eventually come through in your marriage, and chances are you will lose respect for this person. Then you will be unhappy and will make him/her unhappy too.
If a person's level of education makes no difference to how you feel about them, then it doesn't matter. But I suspect that if that was the case, you wouldn't be asking the question.
2006-09-17 17:46:12 · answer #5 · answered by Kylie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can Love anyone like crazy.Its all in the movies.What Edu.Qualification you have? Compare yourself with him,the man should always be a shade higher than yourself for a succesful life.Think ahead,when responsibilities will fall on him,you will be surprised the change you will see.Open your eyes,discuss with your Parents & friends & don't get moved by him.Talking to some mature people is must for you as you are not able to think in the right direction right now.If majority of your Dear ones says No to this Man then Listen to them & don't ruin yourself.
2006-09-17 17:40:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Education shouldn't have anything to do with it if you love that person. However, people get along better if they have things in common. If one is educated and the other not, eventually the educated one might look down on the other, causing problems in the marriage. They might lose patience with the other one.
2006-09-17 17:39:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't look back or give a second thought to marry a person who loves u affectionately, truly and sincerely. .Loves the way loves her/his self, care and respect you , loves your values obediently not like a slave but like devotion. I tell u that this marriage surely will be a success.. if u too love the way the person loves u... literacy can come later... educate the person be an encouragement don't be aggravated on the ignorance but uplift your better half to match your likings and status..... I encourage u to go for it... u shall have a wonderful married life.
2006-09-17 18:52:33 · answer #8 · answered by dniel_son 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hold a professional qualification and my boyfriend only finished high school. I think in the end, it's really a matter of compatibility. I happen to have plenty of experience dating idiot degree-holders. More importantly, you have to decide if you love the person back, and that you will not succumb to peer pressure when time comes to Meet The Friends And Family. People will talk and you have to make sure you're strong enough to handle their inevitably nasty comments.
2006-09-17 17:48:42 · answer #9 · answered by janicebks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they have job stability or financial stability with the education they do have if not you will be a statistic divorced over money love can not pay bills. he has to be able to get an education other wise no he's just an infatuated loser..
2006-09-17 17:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by mizsinister 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋