Family & Relationships - 17 September 2006

Isaiah 64: 8 says that God is the potter and we are the clay. It is God's job to mold us and make us into what HE wants us to be. It is not our life to be lived, it it HIS life to be lived through us. So, who is the potter, who is the clay?

2006-09-17 18:30:42 · 4 answers · asked by Dead 2 Self 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I work as a dating expert and a lot of my older female clients worry that men in their 40's only prefer younger women.

What do you think? What has been your experience? Do you know any reasearch or articles about this?

Thanks so much,

Sam

2006-09-17 18:28:04 · 19 answers · asked by samvanrood 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I called & asked this gurl out i recently met like 5 days before on thursday night... i know big mistake.. and she already had plans but i guess she already had plans and wanted to be nice... so she said yes but im not sure so call me on fri and find out.. then she was like if my friends leave early we are on and if not i will call you no matter what... she called me and appolgized at 9:45 and told me she is in another city... at time i was already out but i was understanding and nice... but i kinda like the gurl and wanna win her heart... so i call her today at 7:45 she does not pick up or call me back.. WTF? what should i do tommrow if see her at skool?? what should i do in class should i talk to her or ignore her help i really like her and wanna be with her... if she never calls me back should i try again and call her in a couple days or not... shes really everything i look for in a gurl :(

2006-09-17 18:27:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we speak and see each other everyday, I stay over in his place many times, he always calls me sweet names like "doll" "bird"; but he is uncapable of telling me he likes me, or compromise. I know all his friends, we've met each other families and countries; but some how I feel insecure with him. I dont know where I stand. He is always making jokes, that he wants to sleep with other women, that he doesnt like me, but then I know its not true. Or is it? Im so confused...

He helps me a lot with my work, im setting up a company and he is the one who make sit go, he always takes me to his friends dinners etc, but he doesn't face that Im his girlfriend, well not to me!
He is normally very very cold, almost no touching and no kissing(very english) the only way he shows he cares for me is calling me "dolly"etc... cooking for me, and helping me with my job.
And I love him dearly... Appart from all this weird attitudes he is very special.

Can you help me please?
Thanx

2006-09-17 18:26:45 · 14 answers · asked by Gemmy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can i make her talk

2006-09-17 18:25:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You know people who do everything they can to look hot and get laid and party. They give it up without any bitterness?

2006-09-17 18:25:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

how do you stopped loving someone and just be there friend or should i end the friendship and put space between us and cry over that to

2006-09-17 18:25:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So enjoy every second of it ....

Is a friends love worth life every other thing ???

2006-09-17 18:25:09 · 8 answers · asked by stealmysmile 1 in Friends

I love sex in any position, as long as im not on top....i have no idea why, but ill be orgasming like crazy but as soon as the guy puts me on top, the orgasm stops....is there something wrong with me? what do most men prefer? i like it more when the guy makes all the moves....do men prefer making the moves or do they want the girl to?

2006-09-17 18:25:05 · 7 answers · asked by heybells2004 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 18:24:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I hate this female junior colleague of mine, whenever i see her, i feel really sick. i dont like to talk to her, i don want to join gaterhing if she is going, i dont want to have anything to do with help!! Why? I dont know exactly the reasons.....if i know i think i dont have such problems :( could be......maybe she knows that i m the only one who know many ugly things of hers at work, eg very bad working attitude, dishonesty, and careless at work, disappearing for doing her make-up, touch-up etc. As such she might be afraid or me or simply disliking me so always show me a "smelly" face. Honestly, I am very much affected by such a person, i grow to dislike her attitude to me too so her presence really make me feel sick. Why do i have such feeling toward her n how not to feel this way ?

2006-09-17 18:24:21 · 9 answers · asked by tinyant06 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

do you see a smart girl as hot and girlfriend potential or do you see her as threat? do you get all intimidated by her being smart or do you get more interested on asking her out on a date and get to know her more?

2006-09-17 18:23:26 · 20 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

Marriage is talked about in the bible. Many non believers still choose to get married. I am not asking this question to tear any people down (I am a catholic) but I just want to know what is the terms an athestist get married under and how do they view marriage?

2006-09-17 18:22:56 · 22 answers · asked by Jenna 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I know a sport jacket with the jeans is oky but what about with tennis shoes?

2006-09-17 18:22:42 · 8 answers · asked by richie s 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 18:22:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-17 18:21:49 · 15 answers · asked by cool a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my nephew is going to be 15 this october...what is a good gift for him?pls. suggest anything!!tnx!

2006-09-17 18:20:51 · 14 answers · asked by vma addict!!! 1 in Family

My girlfriend and I love each other very much and have talked about marriage. She is Black, and I'm White, and my parents have old Southern attitude about interracial marriage. Theey have never met her but have told me ever since I started dating back in high school that if ever married a black person they wouldn't talk to me. They aren't against socializing with black people but draw the at marriage and having kids. I love my parents and my girfriend and don't want to lose either . What do I do ?

2006-09-17 18:19:01 · 12 answers · asked by goodguy7 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i met this girl a few months back. she has a bf but we hang out a lot w some of our friends and we enjoy each others company. like 20 minutes ago she called me up to tell me that she just broke up w her bf and she was asking me some advice. she told me how she was w that guy for almost 3 years. i like her and all but i dont think il be able to top her ex boyfriend and i really dont want to screw up our relationship and hurt her because shes a really sweet girl. what should i do???

2006-09-17 18:18:21 · 12 answers · asked by mrgudboy 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife told me tonight that she feel tired and lost of engery. i am worry about it. she been work alot in long hours and two jobs.
i would like some advise or suggution to help my wife feel comforable and relax.

2006-09-17 18:17:30 · 13 answers · asked by jwtaz1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not currently in employment and fear that the CSA might wack me for all the past payments, despite the fact that I did not work.
Also, will the court come after me despite the fact that I wrote to them?
Any UK divorce solicitors or CSA experts out there?
Thank you.

2006-09-17 18:16:45 · 1 answers · asked by Cos 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-17 18:14:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My b/f has asked me to marry him and i am not real sure on how to tell my dad. i don't think he likes my b/f to much but i am not to sure. i love my dad and i love my b/f. i am very happy and you think my dad would be happy for me but i just don't know what to do.

2006-09-17 18:14:13 · 14 answers · asked by aprils242001 3 in Weddings

My boyfriend is out of town a lot for work. We recently took a month break, and got back together a week ago. We just had the most amazing date and he tells me all the time "he can't live without me!" Well I just found out that he has been asking other people to grab drinks with him when I am unable to, people he doesn't know. And not by him, I found out a different way and I have written proof! How do I talk to him about this???

2006-09-17 18:13:36 · 14 answers · asked by Mimi smashes 1 in Singles & Dating

So I met this guy feb of this year at a party, there has been a lot of chemistry n attraction, we actually ended up drunk n having sex in the back seat of his truck the first night.. we had sex a couple more times and then he left for philly since he lives there but only comes back here for winter for work... so he came to see me 3 weeks ago and also last week, we had a great time and we started talking... i want to build a friendship with this guy but i dont know where to start, since i rarely see him, i just wanna jump his bones when are together, but i know that it takes more than sex... is there any hope? what steps should i take to build on this? pls. give me specific examples. best answer gets 10 points!

p.s. we always have greatt sexx!

2006-09-17 18:13:20 · 16 answers · asked by I am your weakness! 2 in Singles & Dating

she is 16 and I have NO IDEA what to get her! Please help!

2006-09-17 18:12:15 · 4 answers · asked by skip_2015 2 in Family

my husband and i have been together for eight years. we dont have problems with sex, but we fill like we have pretty much done everything together. we need to try something new. so i was just wandering if anyone had any ideas for us. thanks so much, please no bu!!$hit answers!

2006-09-17 18:11:58 · 18 answers · asked by "big dogs wife" 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or in LA for that matter?

2006-09-17 18:11:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lately my husband has been so concerned on me losing weight he wants me to lose 15 pds then he said i'll be perfect,at first i said sure but everyday he has some kind of coment to say about something on my body wether it's my weight or what i'm wearing.i'm getting really pissed off and feeling to frustrated to begin a program to lose weight because of his commets the funny thing is he's the one who's truly overweight i should be telling him to lose weight not him telling me!when i tried to make that point to him today he just walked away.i don't understand him he's trippin anyone have any advice to how i can get myself to klose weight for me and not him,i reaally need motivotion no cruel comments please thanks

2006-09-17 18:11:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

how did you know you were in complete utter love =)

2006-09-17 18:10:42 · 7 answers · asked by risaNaldo 2 in Marriage & Divorce