how do you stopped loving someone and just be there friend or should i end the friendship and put space between us and cry over that to
2006-09-17 18:25:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You do not stop loving someone, but you do stop hurting and have the ability to love another.Space sound like a good decision to make, you are still too hurt to be just friends right now. Later you might become just a friend. Allow yourself a little time to hurt, but not long. Avoid being around the person, do not call, go out with your friends, read, and find other things to channel your time and energy. Things will get better, the pain will go away.
2006-09-17 18:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you. It would be better if you put a space between you two for now. It will hurt like hell, but unless you try to move on, then the more that it would hurt.
You can still be friends, but for now you need space.
It won't hurt forever. It will pass.
2006-09-18 04:14:33 · answer #2 · answered by 8s_fun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have strong feelings for him, but he doesn't for you, then put some space between the two of you, and find someone new.
2006-09-18 03:54:48 · answer #3 · answered by up2sumpthun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now all you should be focusing on is your life and healing. believe me it hurts twice as much to see the person you love and not be with them. ask yourself this question, if you guys were friends and they started dating someone new, would you be strong enough to see that with your own eyes right now? you need healing space. and then after that when your strong enough to handle this situation, you guys can become friends.
2006-09-18 01:31:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no losing the friendship is more painful. just let it go the feelings will fade naturally.
2006-09-18 01:28:41 · answer #5 · answered by mbd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a life, work harder, go out, meet new people, there is this saying in my country that, literally "it takes one nail to get out another".
2006-09-18 01:30:48 · answer #6 · answered by Carlos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I changed my number, deleted her from IM, threw all her pics.. cause getting hirt is JUST NOT WORTH IT
2006-09-18 01:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by some1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you need some time off. Just move on.
2006-09-18 01:28:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should give yourself some space
2006-09-18 01:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by Precious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Once it done, its done. Go on with your life and live it.
2006-09-18 01:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by jrnh5150 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋