But i hope by leaving him in child-care, he is able to mix with children of his age, thus, able to talk as he cant say a word till now not even calling mummy or daddy. I hope him can learnt to be indepndent too. But whenever i see him call for me for coming back, i really feel very sad. Can someone tell me what to do?
2006-09-17 16:38:09 · 13 answers · asked by tinyant06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Kids at 2 to 3 yrs old are most attached to the mother. But everyone need to grow up, just like you and me. Just remember kids can adopt to environment much more better than adult, so just give him some time, probably he will soon enjoy going to the childcare.
2006-09-17 18:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It will be OK it is very hard i have 3 boys of my own one is 5 months and one 2, and then a 3 year old , going to day care is very good for a child they learn a lot , i sent my child to day care when he was a year old they learn to much and he will be talking in no time being with other children makes a big difference because they are around other kids talking and they learn a lot faster ,my 2 year old can say any thing you ask just wait and hold him to wanting to take him out i no that is what you are thinking just me i no i already did it,wait and see with a week or so he will be talking up a storm then you be asking him to shut you will be begging once they learn they never stop it is great just hold on and run when you leave or you will go back and get him you wont be able to leave
2006-09-17 23:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by Axel R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a few things you can do:
- Talk to your boy before bringing him to school. Let him know that you will bring him there and you would like him to enjoy himself... and most important, you will come back for him later at xx time. Repeat it 5 times a day.. whenever you can...
- Keep reminding him and ALWAYS fetch him on time
- DO not go back to him just because he is crying for you.. if not he will think he can get away by just crying loud...
- Say goodbye properly to him so that he doesnt think that you have disappeared and abandoned him.
If you feel sad because your boy is crying for you.. maybe you should relook at the way you treat your child. Have you been so overprotective that he has been unable to learn anything for himself?
2006-09-18 00:25:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know your pain. i have a 2 year old boy who is currently in my lap and won't leave me alone...but i love him so much and they are little for only a short while. Daycare has been an achilles heel for me. I have had to take my son with me to work etc. The seperation anxiety is difficult but after a little while they work through it and are fine; even not wanting to come home after playing at daycare with a new friend. Don't worry, just be patient. All little ones talk, grow and develope at different paces. You might try a differant daycare, I had to try a couple before my son was comfortable and happy.
2006-09-18 00:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by eileenmaxxam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Child care is good, all my kids went! They learned alot. You Just remember to tell him every morning that "mommie will be back" he will soon understand I have done it four times, now I am about to do it all over again soon, and Make sure you know the place inside and out, the workers as well!
Wish you lots of luck!
2006-09-17 23:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart can feel your sadness. I have gone on that one too.
Sometimes if the childcare provider place will allow you, stay a few minutes with your child. Until he or she feels safe and comfortable. Then simple edge your way out the door. But, do it one step at a time. It might take awhile but if the daycare is good one they will work with you. Seperation away from their mother/father is a hard thing to deal with. Give them a few days, they will get better. Good luck and don't get too down on yourself, its hard being way from you child too.
2006-09-17 23:48:52 · answer #6 · answered by leftykoalabear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children at the age of 2 don't really play together, they play next to each other. He needs you FAR more than he needs day care. Get him out of there, and have him seen by a physician if he doesn't seem to be progressing. There may be something wrong.
2006-09-17 23:45:21 · answer #7 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called separation anxiety, most children go through it at some point or another. its a normal part of childhood, but once he learns that you will be coming to get him again at the end of the day he will be ok and wont do that :) but for right now when he wants you to come back say to him "mommy or daddy will be here to pick you up at the end of the day"
2006-09-17 23:40:50 · answer #8 · answered by the quiet one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I feel you should avoid sending him to child care. You must arrange a house mate in you living place to take care for him.
With this you will be with him whenever you will be at home and secondly the house mate can do other small things at home besides taking care of your curdly little one.
2006-09-17 23:47:31 · answer #9 · answered by GURPREET SINGH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i know and understand how you feel....
Hello Honey,
Last time i do feel the same way too... but as time goes by, slowly you'll get use to it. You need to think more positive for what you are doing is for the good for your child..
it'll help him get more friends and learn more things..
As time go by, he will want to go there more often rather than staying at home... So dont worry..
2006-09-18 20:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by Love69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋