There is a girl in my class, whom I adore too much. Through my body language and words, I have tried to convey that I like her. But I am unable to say her that I sincerely love her irrespective so called social values.
2006-09-17 16:33:48 · 21 answers · asked by Gentleman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This question seems to have been asked just for the heck of it, it seems. You are married and she is engaged, secondly she 15 years younger. In my perception if the girl is sensible she will definitely refuse (positively), even if she is nice towards you don't take this as a Yes. And for heavens sake come to the real world "Desire what is yours (your wife) and not what is not".
2006-09-17 18:55:55 · answer #1 · answered by Rahul 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best way is arrange for a meeting of, your current wife, this girl in your question, and your mom-in-law. And before the meeting, please tell your wife that this particular girl is disturbing you in the class and you are distracted. More importantly, let the meeting happen in the cafeteria of your college or wherever you are studying. If possible, arrange the whole class to be there. I am sure, if you give enough notice, Burka Dutt of NDTV could anchor the entire show for you.
2006-09-17 22:55:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For how long you have been married & do you have kids?Neither you know the meaning of Marriage nor you know what Love is.Wake up man, there are other important things in Life especially after marriage.Feel yourself Lucky that you haven't been able to disclose yourself to her. You will lower down your personality. If you want this way, noone can stop you from your self-destruction. Think about your kids & their future & their thinking & feelings about you. Do Yoga!
2006-09-17 16:46:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are married there is no way to propose to someone. What would you say? I want to marry you but oops, by the way, I am married. If you truly want to propose, get out of the marriage first. However, since she is engaged what makes you think she would be interested in your proposal? Sounds more like a crush to me.
2006-09-17 16:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by thrill88 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a cold shower and repeat after me...Are you nuts??
Do you realize all the people you will be affecting because of your so called "puppy love" "infatuation" ? Come on already..........Look at your beautiful wife...........really look!
I have a good feeling that if you act on this you will be left alone in 5 years when this person you are referring to wants someone her own age, and understands her age of thinking...Come on.
Get a grip.... Go kiss your wife and tell her how much you love her>>>This is reality...Trust me, when you are alone in 5 years and you see your now beautiful wife with someone else b/cause she moved on, you will really be sorry!
2006-09-17 16:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by mom of a boy and girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is naturally that being attracted by so called beatiful thing.
You can tell her how you feel.
But, always keep in mind that we have our social responsible part need to be aware of. Don't made any move before you both clear with what you are going to do (if she also like you).
If she trun you down, then you just need to get her off your mind. Always remember that you already have a family to take care of.
2006-09-17 16:41:28 · answer #6 · answered by Vincent 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Excuse me???
This is a trick question, isn’t it….
OK, let me see…
You are married… You have a ‘wife’ do you not?
The girl is engaged… She is planning to marry someone else, is she not?
And you are asking how you as a ‘married man’ should propose to a girl who is engaged to marry someone else.
This is the only question you have asked on Yahoo7 Answers, so I don’t have anything else to work on.
Do you go to university or something?…
You mentioned that you are both in the same class, even though she is fifteen years younger than you.
Here is a suggestion…
Ask your wife or the girl’s fiance how you should propose.
Perhaps they will have some good suggestions for you !!!
2006-09-17 16:37:24 · answer #7 · answered by I_C_Y_U_R 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
only your heart start beating but the mind refuses to work. everything else other than the one you love will not seems to be important. the love what you call is just a FEELING. we feel hungry to eat, we feel thirsty to drink, etc love is also like a feeling. it is a temporary exhilaration. every man/women will under go 2 stages in cyclic manner(once in 3 or 4 months) emotional high stage(EHS) emotional low stage(ELS) when both the partners are in EHS they feel like they are in love. both will try to keep the love going by building a castle on feelings. after some time when they are in ELS they feel like not loving each other. it is called as "trapped syndrome" so why to FALL in love like falling in to a pit? instead of it why can't we GREW in love? true love is Commitment , will to stay togather AFTER MARRIAGE
2006-09-17 17:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to concentrate on your home and your wife. If this girl is fifteen years younger that you and is engaged, she is in love with her fiance. Take your mid-life crisis somewhere else buddy. Go home and treat your wife with the love and respect that she deserves.
2006-09-17 16:39:17 · answer #9 · answered by Sue F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're infatuated, but you're married. Stay away from this girl. Find a new study partner!
2006-09-17 16:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋