Family & Relationships - 16 September 2006

my boyfriend and I was working and living together for about 1 year.
we broke up because he kissed another woman in front of me and I confronted him we got into a big fight because his excuse was at the time that was just who he was and he was not going to change,1 week later my boss at work who's a female and lots of coworkers told me it was for the best that I left him because he was caught sending inappropriate sexual e-mail back and forth and was asked to stop but both refused too. he denies it all. its been 4 month since then and I do love him but I have no truth and just don’t know what to believe, he says he loves me and there no other woman.
After all this happened we decided to get back together but I gave him some rules to abide by with no exceptions. There for he believes since I gave him there rules the everything is my way or no way. I believe the rules I gave him are simple rules in a relationship.
1. No cheating.
2. No flirting with others.
2. Respect me.
3. Treat me as an adult not a child.
4. When there a problem we discuss it.
5. No going to bars with out each other especially since that were he kissed the other woman.
Please help am I wrong?

2006-09-16 02:32:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm 16 n my bf is 20. would the be considered rape?

2006-09-16 02:32:21 · 4 answers · asked by misa 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

there are people who get upset because someone did not tell them something, which if seen properly was never of importance to these individuals and also not related to them. why does this happen?

2006-09-16 02:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm living with a bf for yrs but he mentally cheated on me nothing more but it hurt, i now havnt had sex with him for 4 yrs , is this normal not to crave **** from somewhere else?

2006-09-16 02:32:04 · 24 answers · asked by cheryl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 02:30:16 · 16 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Singles & Dating

Plz let me know abt it and plz giv som idea so that i can prepare my management skills??

2006-09-16 02:29:48 · 26 answers · asked by siberdice 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-16 02:29:34 · 28 answers · asked by rerebaby_2000 1 in Friends

my cousin and my boyfriend had fight 2 years ago an d they dont talk,so last nite my cousin call me an tell me that he saw my boyfriend in the town wit a another girl at 8 in the mornin and that he is cheatinon me i dont no who to blieve my bfriend said he love me too much an he left hom late that mornin please help me i dont no who to believe

2006-09-16 02:29:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife to be told me she had a foursome,she told me how many men she slept with to she never used protection ever,i cant help every time i look at her what a **** she is,i love her so much and i feel hurt,a foursome its pretty sick,first time im unhappy in my life,dont think i can be with her anymore am i being childish?????????

2006-09-16 02:29:01 · 47 answers · asked by jonas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Later on in the relationship, he said he would prefer I cover up more. But after that, once, when i wore an off-shoulder top or something, he would look at me sexily and say he's turned on. What gives? What to wear?

2006-09-16 02:27:33 · 22 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy at my school that is SMOKIN'. He is black and I am white what should I do. I am asking this for a friend!

2006-09-16 02:27:26 · 20 answers · asked by sillygirl227 3 in Singles & Dating

I'd like to get her something special for her birthday, but I don't live near her (and never have), so I'm not really sure what she's in to at the moment. She tends to like "alternative" things. In other words, she's not very main stream, thinks Britney Spears is a joke, comes from an "artsy" family. To complicate matters, I'm a teacher, so my finanaces are limited. The best I've come up with is a talking Jesus statue! LOL!

2006-09-16 02:26:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my brother has a child and never see's him, he says he loves him, but still he wont make contact, how can i make him see that he will be the one to suffer when he gets older, i have regular contact with my nephew

2006-09-16 02:25:58 · 18 answers · asked by lovelylips 1 in Family

I have tried the finger paint (Stop'n'Grow) - No luck
Plasters - No luck

Suggestion Welcome

2006-09-16 02:25:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my mother took my 2 year old and moved out of state. im trying to find her to take her to court. please someone help me........ please.

2006-09-16 02:25:51 · 3 answers · asked by deasia06 1 in Family

One of my best friends is turning 18 and i have no idea what to get him. We live in 2 different states and I really want to get him something nice BUT also something a 14 year old with no job can afford.

Help!

2006-09-16 02:25:29 · 8 answers · asked by Sen10r 2 in Friends

2006-09-16 02:25:26 · 8 answers · asked by texasguy11656 2 in Family

ok there r these 2 girls at school and they told me not to hang out with this other girl.the girl that they told me not to hang out with is my friend.we r like the same we like all the same things.and we both get excited wen the guy we like comes near us.and i can tell her like EVERYTHING and we can talk bout guys for hours and nvr get sick of it like all my other friends do.she told me that nodoby likes her cuz shes quite.and everybody is talking bad bout me cuz im hanging out with a nonpopular girl wen im popular.and i told all my friends if they hear ppl talking bad bout me to tell them that shes my friend and i dont care if ppl r talking bad bout me shes my friend i like to hang out with her andthats all that matters.is that really what i should do?i am goin to introduce her to sum of my friends so im not her only friend.am i doing the right thing??im im not please tell me to do sumthing different.please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-16 02:24:01 · 22 answers · asked by babygirl 1 in Friends

2006-09-16 02:23:40 · 36 answers · asked by dan_hesson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like one of my guy friends... and everytime he sees me he gives me a big hug. but my problem is also that he is constantly bugging me about all kinds of stuff. i really want to ask him out but i am too shy... is there anyway to let him know i am interested, without actually comming out and saying it. (most of my friends guys and girls think he likes me, *they dont know i like him though*) what to do?

2006-09-16 02:23:35 · 13 answers · asked by maureen 2 in Singles & Dating

he defended himself that it is for his friends on board ship because he works abroad right now he is on a 2 months vacation, does he hide "something fishy" from me?

2006-09-16 02:23:06 · 21 answers · asked by meranel a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-16 02:22:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-16 02:22:28 · 31 answers · asked by elwario 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 02:22:09 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy last night in a club and gave him my number, (he seemed interested last night) if he is going to call / text me when do you reckon he will?

2006-09-16 02:20:13 · 12 answers · asked by greenday_fan 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in a long distance relationship. I came to work in a foreign country to earn more and save for my wedding. I plan to formally propose when I go back. I enjoy my work, and I also enjoy the culture and atmosphere here. I have a colleague that I talk to during work hours, and I think I would like to go out with her. (I know it's a flimsy excuse, but I would like to get to know her better.) I think she would agree, I catch her looking at me sometimes. I have told my girlfriend about this crush I have for this lady. Am I cheating?

2006-09-16 02:19:23 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

flirt and try to get what they need from you BUT stay in their unhappy relationship anyway? Girls?

2006-09-16 02:15:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how can i stop my feelings towards him to develop anymore?

2006-09-16 02:14:10 · 14 answers · asked by ღ 4 in Singles & Dating

What are the reasons to hire a PI?? The obvious would be to try to catch me cheating. Which I am not and have not through our marraige. But what else could he be looking for? I live in Michigan and we have no fault divorce here. It doesnt matter the reason as long as you both agree that it is over.

My soon to be ex hired a private investigator and is notating everything through his lawyer.

I am a stay at home mom that does nothing all that exciting. What is he hoping to find?? Is the PI watching me and my kids behavior?? Do they check out past records and present??

Mostly I know that I have nothing to hide, but he really has me shaken up to think he has hired a PI.

2006-09-16 02:13:31 · 14 answers · asked by galbee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-16 02:13:06 · 5 answers · asked by coolguy 2 in Singles & Dating