My friends [married] saying that Maintaining or managing Wife is very risky and tough job..Is it true?

Question

Plz let me know abt it and plz giv som idea so that i can prepare my management skills??

Answer 1

It is very risky managing wife, she probably does not like being managed

Answer 2

Hey, well firstly, I'm pretty sure that any woman in the world that reads this question will be fairly insulted to discover that there are actually people out there that believe wives need to be "maintained or managed" And i bet there are a fair few women who could tell you that it's the husbands that need to be "managed" lol! Still, what your friends are saying is true to some degree as being married to either a male or female, does require a lot of work and communication to ensure that it does not fail. However, whatever you put in will always come back to you and if you truly love someone then making them happy really won't feel like work. You've just got to love to be loved in return, and relax, you don't need to prepare, it will all come naturally.

Answer 3

Well if you want a happy marriage its the little things that keep it together, a card here and there, an inexpensive trinkets to surprise her. Us married woman need to feel wanted,,,ALOT...You also have to find a partner with the same spending habits or at least one who will be a good finance manager, also the communication aspect is key. You may not always like what you hear or even what you have to say, but if it's going to work you have be willing to accept neg and pos feedback. Woman also love surprises, don't break the bank, but a card or little trinket means the world to us woman, it lets us know you still think about us, even if it is just candy or some thingy from the gas station. In a way we are like plants, the more you talk to us and feed us with premium formula the better we grow and respond.

Answer 4

By maintaining and managing a wife, are you referring to giving her the support and love that only her husband can give. Are you referring to to discussing and meeting her half way, in making decisions that the two of you need to make as a Married couple? If you are talking about, caring how she feels and sharing with her your view points in a loving manner. If you are talking about working on your marriage everyday, keeping an open mind and loving your wife and being a supportive,husband, then I guess maintain and managing would be a very important part of being the head of your household.
Whatever you do, think for yourself, and don't let friends lead you astray.

Answer 5

I'm sorry but I don't believe that they are talking about wives in general. The difficulty or toughness in maintaining or managing one's wife depends on the kind of woman she is. If she is simple and understanding, she will manage to live happily with her husband despite financial difficulties. So, in this sense, a wife like that is very maintainable. And she likewise is very manageable because of her deep understanding.

So, I would say that their statement would only be true to those husbands whose wives are quite demanding, materialistic, and insconsiderate.

You don't have to prepare your management skills regarding your future marriage. Marriage is a two-some affair wherein both the husband and the wife should help each other to keep it alive and successful. Your marriage's successs will depend not only on your ability to maintain and manage it but also on your wife's willingness and interest to support you with that endeavor.

Answer 6

For one thing you don't 'MANAGE' a wife, okay, you marry her and you both live together and treat one another equally in your relationship. Now as for maintaining a 'MARRIAGE' that is a job that is done 'TOGETHER' by both the husband and the wife. Maintaining a marriage requires trust, honest, communication and understanding. I would say that communication is about the most important thing, I know so many people that have gotten divorced and it is because they don't openly communicate with each other. My husband and I have open communication, we still fight but what is important to remember is that it is okay to fight because everybody does it, it is how you resolve the fights that you have that will ultimately determine the outcome and preservation of your relationship.

Answer 7

Some woman are but they were always like that. So there shouldn't of been any surprise when they got married. As a wife I don't think that I am a tough job. The key is understanding what it is you and your wife need to be happy. Once you have that then it is smooth sailing. If you don't know what makes your other happy then don't marry them cause they will make your life hard.

Answer 8

I was married once for 5 year and i believe its just as hard to manage a husband then it is to manage a wife, it takes two to make a relationship work. both have to give 100% in a relationship.

Answer 9

A marriage is like a job, it takes work to keep it strong. Communication is the key so is taking personal time for each of you. Maintain honesty and know what you want out of your marriage. Most important remember that your wife comes first before friends, job, and sometimes family.

Answer 10

Here's my advice to minimize your risk:

1. Don't cheat. Ask your wife or proposed wife what HER expectations/interpetation of cheating is in the very beginning. Crucial.

2. You "maintain" a checking balance, not a wife.

3. You manage a schedule or career, not a wife.