Later on in the relationship, he said he would prefer I cover up more. But after that, once, when i wore an off-shoulder top or something, he would look at me sexily and say he's turned on. What gives? What to wear?
2006-09-16 02:27:33 · 22 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
of course he's changed, the gameplan has changed: at first he was trying to get into your knick-knacks so compliments go down well. Now he's got you he doesnt want other guys to notice you as he feels insecure, so he wants you to tone it down a bit.
Just wear more sensible stuff, you dont need to 'dress to kill' anymore whilst youre dating someone.
2006-09-16 02:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by vaivagabundo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe the clothes you had on was not the then in question... But the place you were wearing them at the time.... You didn't mention that part... Be more selective as to what you wear and to where you wear it... As for what you had on when he got turned on.... He may have looked very sexy on that day... IF this bothers you.. Try asking him... Had does this look before you go out for the trip you have planned for the day... I am sure he will let you know...
2006-09-16 09:38:34 · answer #2 · answered by levita45 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds very much like most men out there that are in a relationship. He likes looking at you when your dressed sexily but he doesn't want anyone else looking at his girl.
2006-09-16 09:32:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heheheh! My bf's like that, too. It's so weird. Kinda like the middle eastern-man-possesive mentality, kinda freaky. We might have to cover up ninja-style soon. (i'm just kidding here, anyone please do not get offended) <3
Well, the good thing is obviously, he wants you all for himself. What works (for me at least is) when going out with him, and if im feeling like wearing something sexy but not too revealing, i wear a tight top and a tight jeans. Cause showing the shape of your body can be really sexy instead of showing the skin ^^ Hehehehhe guys are as weird to understand as us girls
2006-09-16 09:34:13 · answer #4 · answered by shuddupfirst 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is turned on by the way you dress he doesn't want you to wear it any more because he thinks you are turning on the other males in the area!!
You tell him he was attracted to you in the beginning with the way you dressed and you are not changing ho you dress for him.It would be like you asking him to change because he is with you now. Your man needs help he is insecure and thinks he will lose you.
2006-09-16 09:36:31 · answer #5 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as though he's torn between wanting to look at significant parts of you even when you are dressed and the problem that other guys might get cranked up about you and take you away from him. Talk.
2006-09-16 10:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be insecure about you going out looking too sexy. Wear the sexy stuff when you're at home or you go out with him, and cover up when you leave home without him.
2006-09-16 09:31:12 · answer #7 · answered by ZPE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably just dont want you to wear sexy stuff out in public or without him around. but theres plenty of time to wear it when you are alone with him at home and stuff. Wear it then. if he dont like you wearing it at home alone with him then hes way to possessive...
2006-09-16 09:50:47 · answer #8 · answered by Lova L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wear what you want to wear. This guy is your boyfriend not your jailer. His wanting you to cover up is his jealousy peeking through. If you paid for it and you like it you wear.
2006-09-16 10:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lady in the streets but a freak in the bed..
2006-09-16 09:36:48 · answer #10 · answered by Tigger-Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋