he defended himself that it is for his friends on board ship because he works abroad right now he is on a 2 months vacation, does he hide "something fishy" from me?
2006-09-16 02:23:06 · 21 answers · asked by meranel a 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I have several email addresses. I use them all for different things. I wouldn't worry about it too much :o)
2006-09-16 02:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean caught your husband? does he have to take permission from you even to open a new id? plus it's not wrong to have a private email ids for whatever reason provided it's not used to cheat on you. now if you ask me whether he's using this email id to cheat on you, well i would say i don't know, you need to check that. but having another email id doesn't mean he's up to something fishy. so pls remove this doubt in your mind and ask him with open mind. all the best. trust him unless he's proven guilty!
2006-09-16 09:27:52 · answer #2 · answered by genial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I were in here on the computer the other day and I said, oh, let's just use my other email account and he said "what other account?" and I told him that I have another email account. He said ok and we went forward. It was no big secret or anything and I wasn't trying to hide it from him, I just never saw the need to tell him that I created another account. Could be the same case, he wasn't trying to hide it, he just probably never thought to tell you.
2006-09-16 09:24:18 · answer #3 · answered by Faith In The House 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep a watchfull eye. Thing is, this is going to really eat at you. Not knowing is just a torture. There r a couple sites out there with alot of good info on how to catch a cheater. Whatever you choose, stay focused & stay true to yourself...know what you want and then work towards obtaining it. *If he is wandering or cheating, this may provide u an opportunity to actually improve on your relationship...IF U want 2. If not, you'll B on your way towards ending it. Peace B with U.
2006-09-16 09:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by lovnlife 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have a ton of email addresses. I'm sure my husband doesn't know them all. Nothing fishy going on here. I just use different addresses for different things.
2006-09-16 09:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by C K Platypus 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont be bother of his other email accounts.. i have several email accounts too..for work, for peers, for my fraternity, for family, for friends.. In our modern communication, it's just like having other celfon numbers..etc.
If somebody doing somethinf fishy, he will do it even without email add.
What impt is trust with each other..
2006-09-16 09:44:58 · answer #6 · answered by Jack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something similar recently happended in my marriage and while I confronted him for years, he kept calling me crazy, paranoid, etc.
I found him on myspace and the search engine was always cleared out. I decided to confront my fears myself and I put a "watchdog" on the computer. I am now divorced.
He was cheating - for 10 years out of our 11 married. Trust your instincts friend.
2006-09-16 09:27:01 · answer #7 · answered by lovemcss 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine for people to have multiple email addresses. Most people who work, have one for work contacts (it keeps the spam and other crap out). Me and my hubby have one we share together for our family and friends and we each have our own as well. Keep a close but 'silent' eye on him.
2006-09-16 09:31:00 · answer #8 · answered by colleenjohn_vano 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you CAUGHT that "fish" for sure! He's hiding something. Keep you eye peeled and do it discretely; acting like you don't really care.
2006-09-16 09:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he is hiding anything from you. Maybe you like to use his other one and he would like one of his own..maybe to use for important emails and stuff like that. So don't worry, its not he's doing bad stuff with it.
2006-09-16 09:27:00 · answer #10 · answered by ♥mcmanda♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋