ok i need help!ASAP!!!!!?

Question

ok there r these 2 girls at school and they told me not to hang out with this other girl.the girl that they told me not to hang out with is my friend.we r like the same we like all the same things.and we both get excited wen the guy we like comes near us.and i can tell her like EVERYTHING and we can talk bout guys for hours and nvr get sick of it like all my other friends do.she told me that nodoby likes her cuz shes quite.and everybody is talking bad bout me cuz im hanging out with a nonpopular girl wen im popular.and i told all my friends if they hear ppl talking bad bout me to tell them that shes my friend and i dont care if ppl r talking bad bout me shes my friend i like to hang out with her andthats all that matters.is that really what i should do?i am goin to introduce her to sum of my friends so im not her only friend.am i doing the right thing??im im not please tell me to do sumthing different.please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

First off, do you know if your friends will accept her cause if not, then don't set her up to get hurt. If you do think they will accept her then cool. Do it. It's aways good to have friends. And good for you stepping outside the box to do what you feel is right. Everyone needs friends. If she is fun and outgoing like you then hopefully you all will get along great. But don't let your friends tell you what to do and who to be friends with. That's not cool. Do what you do. And if that means being friends with someone who is not so popular then so be it. It's whatever.

Answer 2

I say, Good For You! Use your own Judgment, think for yourself! If this girl is a friend to you, I promise she will be your true friend, while the ones over in the gossip and trouble maker group,will come out to be the losers. When other people see what they really are, they won't trust their judgment either.
It isn't our place to judge other human beings. You go Girl! there is nothing but good things that come from a person who is kind, and good and gives another person a chance, who may not be so popular.

Answer 3

I think u should introduce her to some of Ur friends also. But, no matter what don't turn ur back on her because of what people r saying. U like her style than be a friend. But, i would introduce her to a few and let them know she's cool, and a little shy if they go to talking about her. And if she don't feel comfortable around them, oh well u have to accept that. Some people love to be a loner. She eventually adapt to what's happening. But stick with ur friend if u like talking with her and she like being around u, people will say bad things either way it goes. Hell with them. Live Life.

Answer 4

Baby girl believe me when I say your attitude will take you a looooong way in life. I'n the same. I'm a known street fighter in the streets of Charleston South Carolina and through school Id always have to beat someone's @$$ because of their mouth. they always cracked jokes about the friends I kept because they were not "on my level" well I ended up beating this dude up who was picking on my friend and nearly beat him to death. He was in a comma for 3 months and I was sent to prison from the age of 16 until age 24. I just got out last month and I'd do it again for a friend if I have to. The lesson here is, they talked bad about Jesus, so they'll talk bad about you. Keep your friends. It's not were your from, it's were your at in your heart.

Answer 5

You are absolutely right! You shouldn't let other people dictate who you keep company with or who you're friends should be. Don't worry about being popular or other people "talking". Judge people by the goodness of their hearts....like you want to be judged. I think you're wonderful not to exclude those who really need a good friend. Those other people could learn a valuable lesson from you. Godloveya!

Answer 6

If you are in school still, ppl tend to stick with their own groups. I would introduce her around and eventually she'll be hanging out with you guys everyday and she'll have a ton of friends. All you can do is try to help her out, but you don't want to lose a friend like that, trust me

Answer 7

well all i will Say is if you like her and want to be her friend then by doing that you are being a true friend. hopefully everyone else Will see it like that after a while. its going to be rough. if you two are truly friends continue it. I'm not so sure you should have your friends meet her unless they agree, that's the only way it will be easy for all parties involved. good luck. hope i made you see a easier way or just helped you. deasia06

Answer 8

U have to introduce her to a friend that is not saying or doing bad things to people so that she will feel comfortable around your other friend, and u should not listen to what other people say about the people u r friends with unless u know that they really do bad things.

Answer 9

Hi..I think U shud give a damn abt such "FRIENDS" who decide to hang arnd with u only if ur popular.U shud b the one to decide whom to mix up with,coz at the end of the day u need to spend time with him/her n not ur FRIENDS.as far as u r thinking of introducing ur frnd to other frenz...i think its a gr8 idea as she will knw how to b street-smart n bcome a lil social.u r being of gr8 help to her....So KEEP UP the good work.ADIOS

Answer 10

Tell those 2 girls, to take a hike. are you going to listen to them that easily. your friend who is quiet isn't doing anything wrong, shes just being herself. and you like her for that. if shes your friend, youll be her friend. not leave her just like that. dont let that 'popular,cool,awesome' thing play a big role in your life.