Family & Relationships - 16 September 2006

I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT FOR THE MOST PART IS GOOD AND WHOLESOME,BUT BECAUSE SHE'S BEEN HURT BAD IN THE PAST SHE FINDS IT HARD TO TRUST ME. WHAT CAN I DO?

2006-09-16 02:58:46 · 12 answers · asked by REDDVELVET 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 02:57:59 · 3 answers · asked by PRASEN_P 2 in Singles & Dating

My best mate is a guy. Today I found out that he has been in love with me for the entire time i have known him....upwards of ten years. Should i risk our friendship, by taking up a relationship with him, knowing there is a very high likelyhood of my ruining it and hurting him, or should i do nothing, and let our friendship continue the way it has, knowing that it hurts him?
I do have some feelings for him. I feel guilty when i go out with others, jealous when he does, but i am very aware of what i would be risking. Should I or shouldn't I?

2006-09-16 02:57:48 · 12 answers · asked by talz_talz 3 in Friends

Do couples who have been together for years still get butterflies and feel that passion that they once had? Is it wrong to want that romance and passion for the rest of your life?

2006-09-16 02:57:06 · 17 answers · asked by tenesha g 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-16 02:56:18 · 7 answers · asked by ashok 1 in Friends

i want to know is there anything that

2006-09-16 02:55:40 · 9 answers · asked by Amb 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Two options on the dating front, havn't described them in full detail but heres an overview, what do you guys think ?

Queen of Hearts, attractive, fun, easy to be with friendly, chemistry 7 out of 10, friendship 9 out of 10

Queen of Diamonds, stunning, fiesty, can be bitchy and manipulative, chemistry 9 out of 10 friendship 6 out of 10

2006-09-16 02:55:09 · 15 answers · asked by lifeontrack2006 4 in Singles & Dating

How can I get a sugar daddy? Im young and cute and nice and live in detroit michigan, i want a rich sugar daddy, i will clean their house, be a live in maid whatever i just wanna get paid!!!

2006-09-16 02:55:07 · 10 answers · asked by Lova L 2 in Singles & Dating

I had a row with my partner of 4 years on Wednesday, he went out and left me in his house on my own. I went in his bedside cabinate out of curiosity and found a condom. We haven't needed condoms for 3 years. It wasn't there a few months ago. It was with a pile of reciepts from his recent trip abroad where he goes to see his twin girls as they live in a remote part of Norway he has to stay in the house with his ex wife, his parents also stay. He says he has been 100% faithfull and dosn't know how the condom got there, but has finished the relationship because he says I don't trust him and I have been snooping in his personal things. I feel so hurt and confussed, I love him, he now refuses to talk to me and has said he wishes I would just disappear. Hes nearly 41 and I'm 37, I thought he was the one, what should I do, help.

2006-09-16 02:53:22 · 36 answers · asked by Judie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-16 02:53:16 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after our sex lives going down hill,after me trying everything to kickstart it,after having bedroom full of candles expsensive jewelery she turned our night into cheese eating night,after telling me of her ex bf who cheated on her with everyone she come back running to him everytime because kinky sex was good,after her telling me of a 4 some she had on holiday with her mate before i met her,after finding out her best mate she slept with her brother he also dumped her.I fell for her ead over heals I love her so much but i cant cope anymore im at point of suicide because shes sold her house to pay for wedding,she used the rest to do my place up,the marriage is in 4 mths,i got no where to go,what do i do??????????????????????????????

2006-09-16 02:52:12 · 23 answers · asked by jonas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A fellow yahoo answerer (kay boff) wrote "peaple say "You never know someone until you Marry them" I say, " You never know someone until you Divorce them."
That is completely true as far as my divorce. Any thoughts on this for you or your situation?? How many people see true colors flying during the divorce??

2006-09-16 02:51:45 · 14 answers · asked by galbee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It's a common question, but I lost the love of my life. I loved her unconditionally. Everyone experiences hurt, but have you ever had to get over someone who you feel deep in your soul, to be your soul mate. I know time cures all, I just wish it would hurry the hell up!!!

2006-09-16 02:50:35 · 11 answers · asked by woodersondylan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

School in my area (Alpharetta Georgia) are considered best in the state so they are good for public schools. Not as good as some in PA, MN or NJ but you get the idea.

2006-09-16 02:49:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-16 02:49:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She sits the seat across from me on the bus. She is a sophomore and i am a junior. Plz help

2006-09-16 02:49:10 · 18 answers · asked by burnsielaxplayer 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a single mom of an almost three year old daughter her father and i are no longer together he only recently started paying child support.But i have a a steady boyfriend whom i am engaged too who wants to try for a baby but i dont think i am ready but am going along with it .How can i tell him i am not ready to get pregnant again before marriage?I am scared that after 2 weeks of him trying i might already be i missed my period this week.I really want to make him happy.

2006-09-16 02:49:06 · 23 answers · asked by claire d 1 in Weddings

my EX- best friend used to date the guy i love so to make it even i sorta flirted with the guy she really loves soon my EX- bestfriend broke up with the guy i loved and told me he loves someone else a few days later she said it was me he loves at the same time my the guy she likes said he loves me.. since my EX- best friend always says the guy i loved loves me i didnt believe her but he's been acting strange i wanna take the dive with the guy my EX- bestfriend likes but im afraid that maybe the guy i loved really does love me.. what should i do..?

2006-09-16 02:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we maintained joint accounts here back home he works in a ship but I never realize that he will left large sum abroad without my knowledge, he said when I confront him that it is for emergency. How can it be since we cannot withdraw it here in our country? I felt betrayed...

2006-09-16 02:43:19 · 21 answers · asked by meranel a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm totally in love with my girlfriend, we were best friends for 3 years before we got together about 2 months. Our friendship has always built up to us as a couple and I am so lucky to have her - I'd do anything so that she was happy.

Anyhow, she's very much a person who doesn't like to talk about their feelings. She's not shy or quiet or anything, but she just doesn't feel very "comfortable" expressing herself, I think. Due to this, I feel I make all of the effort in telling her how I feel and I get nothing back. She never tells me she misses me, likes me, wants to spend the day with me... unless I ask her to meet up, she won't, too.

I've talked to her about it and she claims it's just the way she is, but I don't think it's fair that I have to be the one who always tells her how much I love her and how much I want to see her.

I don't think she understands how exactly her not telling me how she feels could be a problem, but I'm the sorta guy who likes to talk things out.

2006-09-16 02:42:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 02:42:17 · 20 answers · asked by Chessh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

she cant leave her family for me, what should i do now, iam crushing my self for her , what should i do, tell my girls........????

2006-09-16 02:40:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i meet a guy on line and he doesnot live far and i think he is cute what should i do

2006-09-16 02:39:03 · 18 answers · asked by hiphopQueen 1 in Friends

ok, this may sound a little confusing! i have recently realised i have strong feeling for my best friend. we are close and he apparently already knew i liked him. only a friend of mine also likes him, she is aware of my feelings to. it has caused a few arguements between this girl and i. he likes both of us but says he doesn't know what he wants. I've said to the female friend that if it turns out he like her more than me, to go for it n not stop because of me hurting, i'm not willing to stop two friends being happy.
however, i cant help hoping that he won't want her. I don't want to have to see them together but care for them both and can't stop myself wanting to separate them. I'm confused and hurt. please help! what do i do?!

2006-09-16 02:38:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i'm moving to Beaumont in a few weeks with my family, but i want to know if there are clubs and bars there or is it just boring?

2006-09-16 02:38:09 · 2 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-16 02:35:45 · 17 answers · asked by toofly702 1 in Weddings

due to my stomach problems I am disabled I can move my arms I have good upper movement of my body any answers?I just can't walk

2006-09-16 02:35:27 · 7 answers · asked by jasonbaureis 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-16 02:34:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-16 02:34:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2006-09-16 02:33:56 · 16 answers · asked by tommy l 1 in Other - Family & Relationships