I AM IN A RELATIONSHIP THAT FOR THE MOST PART IS GOOD AND WHOLESOME,BUT BECAUSE SHE'S BEEN HURT BAD IN THE PAST SHE FINDS IT HARD TO TRUST ME. WHAT CAN I DO?
2006-09-16 02:58:46 · 12 answers · asked by REDDVELVET 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be yourself
2006-09-16 03:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me say i have been single for 2 years why because i have a trust issue a really big Trust issue anyways and my last and only relationship wasnt bad and didnt cause my trust issue i think it all began when i was little and my father had nothing to do with me and did bad things to me... anyways its hard for me to trust anyone male or female but more males ... i was talking with someone about it the other day and he said that the Trust is just there or it isnt .. Welll so I guess my annswer to ur question is that ... for me personally i dont not know what too tell people when they ask what they can do for me to trust them .... All i can say is be very HONEST NEVER LIE NEVER say you are going to do something and not ... so whatever happens GOOD luck to u bout Maybe she should talk to a doctor or something I think i might do that LOL HAve a great day
2006-09-16 03:06:46 · answer #2 · answered by catherineboo68 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in the same relationship, except I'M THE GUY who hurt her badly in the past. Now we're together again, it's just taken a lot of time for her to realise I'm a different person. You just have to be patient and hopefully she's learn to trust you again -- just don't betray her or anything, because if she learns to trust you again, it'd kill her to experience it all over again.
Good luck.
2006-09-16 03:02:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, i can totally relate because i was hurt badly in the past and i had trust issues.
but now, i trust my boyfriend, mainly because he often does what he said he'll do. and if he goes out with his friends, he'll tell me who's going and text me when he's out to let me know that he's thinking of me even while having fun with his friends. also, he reassures me whenever he can.
just try to reassure your girlfriend and text her often when you're out with your friends to let her know that yuou're thinking of her.
2006-09-16 03:02:51 · answer #4 · answered by boogiesbottom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her, do not judge me or punish me because of your past boyfriend that you picked, I am me, I am going to show you that I am trustworthy, and if we have a problem, we will discuss it. So I want you to just relax, and let us just have fun, and enjoy each other!!
2006-09-16 03:06:18 · answer #5 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont beleive you should have to prove yourself to them. if they have been hurt in the past and dont feel they can trust you, maybe they shouldnt be looking for a new relationship.
2006-09-16 03:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by monet r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control or change the way someone feels or thinks. This is on her.....it is something that she must deal with in her own way. Leave it alone.
2006-09-16 03:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well give her as many advices thay she is forced to choose any one you have given for her problem and she will start trusting youand tell her that you will not tell anyone about her problems
2006-09-16 03:02:27 · answer #8 · answered by batatata l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself
show her that you care
be by her side
do and help with the little things you know she'll like
2006-09-16 03:04:24 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only time will tell
2006-09-16 03:03:31 · answer #10 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋