there are people who get upset because someone did not tell them something, which if seen properly was never of importance to these individuals and also not related to them. why does this happen?
2006-09-16 02:32:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's a great question. I'm at fault for this myself. Work seems to set me up this way. People form clicks, you want to feel part of the group. Feeling left out makes you feel like you weren't important enough to share the info with. It's probably just an insecurity issue. I think we've all been there and done that.
2006-09-16 02:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL, obviously...........the something that is not told to the individual, is actually something that matters to that person. In which you are unaware of. You might assume alot of things from a person, but really you just don't know them at all. This happen because of a misunderstanding.
Maybe you should get to know that other people more.
2006-09-16 09:38:41 · answer #2 · answered by shuddupfirst 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's natural human reaction to want to feel a sense of belonging in a part of everything. It begins when a child is introduced into the process of socialisation and from then on, he/she instinctively yearns to belong in a social circle. That's why people get upset when they feel left out, even if they eventually realise that the issue at hand doesn't really concern them.
2006-09-16 09:37:22 · answer #3 · answered by citrusy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only those people get upset who lack confidence in themselves. Next time you are not told anything,don't bother & ignore,thinking that if that person doesn't need your point of view, its his bad luck.Let that person himself come & tell you,you will not ask nor will get upset. Its all in your hands. Sometimes when a person sees that his attitude of not telling you is not bothering you, he will get upset & will felt like wanting. Try it out. The result will not be immediate, but don't lose heart. At the end the result will be in your favour.
2006-09-16 09:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something connected between those ppl and the things are related to the person...
2006-09-19 12:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by Diya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because some folks are 'know-it-alls' and finding out differently puts their noses out of joint
2006-09-16 09:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by Aslan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CAN YOU SAY NOSY OR BUSY BODY!SOME PEOPLE CAN'T BUT HELP BUT THINKING THEY HAVE TO KNOW EVERYTHING!
2006-09-16 09:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by lisababyg ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋