Family & Relationships - 15 September 2006

I was in a love relationship with a married guy for 2 yrs. Now He is of the view that nothing can happen for our future and we can not marry.Now the problem is that he is living ok with his wife but doesnt want to leave me either. And I know my feelings for him will never change and seeing them together is and will be a great pain
for me.But He doesnt want to stop talking and meeting me.I know it will be difficult for me too but i have to take this tough step. Plz suggest what to do?Should i accept whatever he says (not to stop meeting and talking to him) or just leave him and live my life.If your answer is to leave him then plz suggest how to do that? I am out of mind now and just can not think anything.

2006-09-15 05:30:44 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been seeing each other for two weeks but nothing is official. I just broke up with my boyfriend and he knows my situation, it was his idea to wait! He is gentle, laid back and funny.... I have never met anybody like him... he never pressures me but the truth is I am horny and I have been able to control it well all we have done is kiss. Other than that we just talk and laugh a lot. When will I know when it's the right time? I really want to but I don't want things to change for the worst between us.

2006-09-15 05:30:12 · 10 answers · asked by akiastatz 3 in Singles & Dating

Is this a compliment? I don't know how to take this but a few have proclaimed this.

2006-09-15 05:30:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been smoking weed for 10 years. Eight days ago I stopped,and my family is very proud of me,but my fiance keeps asking me to smoke with him.I've asked him why he wants me to continue,and he always answers 'I dunno'.Does anyone have any Ideas?

2006-09-15 05:29:26 · 16 answers · asked by smallish baby budge 2 in Singles & Dating

I am really casual and was thinking of a pair of medium rinse blue jeans, a black top and black nikes or a pair of light rinse blue jeans, a white top (more feminine than the black one) and white nikes. I'm going w/ my BF and he's casual as well. Does this sound okay?

2006-09-15 05:29:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That your spouse was "the one" ? How did you feel about it when you finally figured it out?

2006-09-15 05:29:12 · 12 answers · asked by crabbygirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Relation kick started in the form of friendship and is still going strong irrespective of the years as long as eight yrs

2006-09-15 05:28:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-15 05:28:41 · 7 answers · asked by brittineyc 1 in Singles & Dating

Is abstinence from sex & masturb. a good way to keep energy ? any harm to mind or body?

2006-09-15 05:28:11 · 8 answers · asked by a b 1 in Singles & Dating

I dated my husband for 3 and a half years before we married. We have been married for two years.

Our first year of marriage was a breeze, and the second year was even easier.

Married life for us is actually easier than dating because his family respects our relationship more now that we are married (official).

I have a friend who knew her husband 6 months before they married, her first year of marriage was horrible.

She said adjusting to wife and husband roles were very difficult, and so is living with someone else that she is still learning stuff about.

Its actually still bad after 18 months of marriage and she wants a divorce.

Everyone says the first year of marriage is the hardest, what do you think?

Was it the hardest for you?

2006-09-15 05:27:31 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok..here's the problem..I'm 17 and my mom is so overprotective about my clothings. How can I make her understand that there's nothing wrong with what I want to wear and everyone else wear them?

2006-09-15 05:27:08 · 12 answers · asked by krishnokoli 5 in Family

I am getting married to girl i met a year ago next month,she said she was with her ex for 6 years offered no commitment,she said the only reason she put up with him was sex was fantastic.well after he dumped her 6 mths on she met me within 2 mths she had moved in,within 4 mths she sold her house,she tells me she loves me all the time but sex between us is dull she never wants to do anything but she was like a pornstar with her ex,this worries me,i need your advice am i doing the right thing by marrying this woman,oh i have tried talking to her and she sulks and tells me its different between us because she loves me.help!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-09-15 05:26:47 · 32 answers · asked by jonas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

things is a relationship????


LOVE, RESPECT & COMMUNICATION I will said should be the most importan things for a solid relationship !!!


What do you think????

2006-09-15 05:26:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The father of my 2 babies won't marry me or even talk about it. He doesn't seem to forgive me for keeping the pregnancies (he wanted an abortion) and yet he says that he loves me and won't go away (we live together). We have been together 3 years and I was wondering if I am wasting my time by staying with him because I want to get married someday. Will he ever change his mind?

2006-09-15 05:25:53 · 27 answers · asked by SexxyPrincess 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Hubby had a one nighter a few months ago. He brought a "present" home and passed to me.(fixed with antibiotics). Even after he was found out he still tried to lie about it. He hides things from me, used to spend money like crazy, and had a pot habit. I have tried talking to him about it, finally he realizes he has lost everything. What is his problem?

2006-09-15 05:24:57 · 28 answers · asked by Marie 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wedding is in a month and my shower I think is this weekend. Well, I keep looking at my registaries online for two reasons. 1. to update and add items and 2. to see what has been purchased for me. Am I the only one that does this? Is this terribly wrong of me? Am I cheating? It's so much fun to see what my friends and family have gotten so far though!!

:)

2006-09-15 05:24:43 · 25 answers · asked by FaerieWhings 7 in Weddings

2006-09-15 05:24:37 · 22 answers · asked by hazelshine 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Don't get mad you that you fear the truth so much.
Real girls and Tgirls are the sexiest creatures on earth.

2006-09-15 05:24:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 05:24:19 · 8 answers · asked by Lacey M 1 in Singles & Dating

Man works in store, gawks at me whenever I'm there but won't say hello and was avoiding me until he recently starts watching me all the time and circling me in the store. I'm a nervous type person but I kinda think he likes me. It's hard to get a chance to say hi because he's busy or seems to get busy when I'm getting ready to say something to him. Even my friends notice he is watching. Does this man like me or hate me? I want to talk to him & see what's up without embarassing myself or him, so what should I do? I'm in my twenties and he is older...

2006-09-15 05:23:22 · 23 answers · asked by catgoturtongue 1 in Singles & Dating

I know many chicks that have boyfriends who they dont even FFucking like, and they complain to me, and then cheat on them...with me, lol cant be all that bad... anyways why do girls have to be in a relationship at all times???? HIT ME BACK WITH WISDOM BEYOND MY YEARS THANKS

2006-09-15 05:23:17 · 12 answers · asked by J from O 4 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex broke up and it was his choice. He got a new gf and since being with her he has slept with me and started txtin and callin me again. He told me last night that his gf has been lyin to him and goin clubbin ad=nd sayin she goin to see her friend emily but has actually been goin to see her ex bf simon. He is really hurt by this but told me he wants it to end. Do you think there is a slight chance of us gettin back together, especially since i have been there for him and because of it it has really shown a sensitive side and feels that he can confide in me. And especially since he has been callin and txtin me more and more. Do you think he has realised he has made the wrong mistake for lettin me go. He even siad last night he'll call me later to talk

2006-09-15 05:22:10 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 75 yrs old and my mum still makes me wear dypers and still breastfeeds me.is this wrong

2006-09-15 05:21:48 · 22 answers · asked by jagtic 5 in Family

Is it wrong to want to have sex with your teenage childrens friends? I mean it worked for Debra Lafave right?

2006-09-15 05:21:28 · 14 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Singles & Dating

Its frustrating, i want to be able to turn a girl on by something different than the normal joe bloggs, help me out

2006-09-15 05:21:12 · 12 answers · asked by Si_Man 1 in Singles & Dating

I speak english but in a very hoarse voice. I spoke to my speech teacher in high school and she said I need to breathe out my words to sound not hoarse. I usually never breathe out my words and the words usually come out my nose. I talked to many people but they seem to ask me to repeat lots of stuff that I said. but ninety percent of the time, they do not want to become my friend. Why is that people cannot accept people for who they are instead of how they sound like or how they look?? I am starting to be sad that I will never find the right girl for me.

2006-09-15 05:21:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My mom and dad in-law are celebrating their 27th wedding anniversary and I need some desperate help on what to get them as i've never celebrated a 27th anniversary (wink).

2006-09-15 05:20:47 · 8 answers · asked by Blk Angel 2 in Weddings

we have to kids and they are 4and 1 and we dont get a whole lot of us time and when we do we are stuck in a rut after being married for 5 years i guess and we dont wanna spend much money what can we do to have fun and not fight. after all im 23 yrs old and my husband is 28. yeah yeah i know were young. lol

2006-09-15 05:20:38 · 12 answers · asked by Hope 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating this guy for almost a year we live together and then last night i got frusterated cuz it was raining and he wouldnt answer his phone and i knew he was going to Home depot but he told me that at 530 and then he finally comes home round 8:30 and we kinda got into a fight .. But now this morning he went to work and text me that he cant put up with my **** .. and that all i do is make him miserable/// someone help me on what to do

2006-09-15 05:20:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 05:20:25 · 7 answers · asked by nasir h 1 in Friends