We have been seeing each other for two weeks but nothing is official. I just broke up with my boyfriend and he knows my situation, it was his idea to wait! He is gentle, laid back and funny.... I have never met anybody like him... he never pressures me but the truth is I am horny and I have been able to control it well all we have done is kiss. Other than that we just talk and laugh a lot. When will I know when it's the right time? I really want to but I don't want things to change for the worst between us.
2006-09-15 05:30:12 · 10 answers · asked by akiastatz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
waiting is so boring lol...no i'm just kidding....you'll know when your ready dont let your hormones get the best of you....as far as developing a friendship with him i think you both already established that...you just need to relax enjoy his company and if it gets to that point...dont think let your heart make the decision for you...yea you did just break up with k but only you know the real situation with that...as far as i'm concerned i think you have been over k you think about him and cry for him because you want him to do better for himself but right now you know that thats just not possible...just let things between you and him fly...if its ment to be with k it will but right now dont stop your life for moving on and let a good guy that this one seems to be pass you by over someone that just really wasnt ment for you....your a passionate person you'll make your decision on your passion and emotions....and honetly if that leds you to him more...then just go with your heart....everyone makes mistakes and if this just happens to be one of those mistakes then let it be and learn from it....either way i'm here for you whenever you need me....you deserve to be happy....i just hope you find the happiness that you couldnt find in k...i love you
2006-09-15 06:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by E 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only right time for you is his first move,,
make some encouraging kisses, and if he reciprocates, then you will know when is the right time..
You still do not know him well in 2 weeks,,, that is why most people in the US end up divorce or another break up because they hurry for the sex,,, and not the lovemaking...
If you cannot control your horny as you say,,, use some toys on yourself to relieve the burning sensation inside of you, but nevery hurry him up to you..
Otherwise, you will just end up like your first boyfriend.
Goodluck
2006-09-15 12:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by yulnores 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just keep an open mind, and let things happen for the two of you...Youll know when the time is "right". As far as things changeing, well if you feel that way, then he is a pretty shallow type. Give him a bit more credit, deal with your urges, and develope a longer lasting friendship, thats what more important.
2006-09-15 12:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by zeakster01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take your time, you will both know when it's right and it's too early for you yet - new relationship and just out of an old one. Besides, you can go almost all the way and releive each other's "tension". Just take your time, enjoy slowly learning about each other's bodies as you get to know each other better.......
2006-09-15 12:43:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take your time. You just ended a relationship and need time. My husband made me wait 2mo before we had sex the first time. It was nice to have someone want to know me before wanting to jump my bones.
2006-09-15 12:35:33 · answer #5 · answered by jagbeeton 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take your time and when the right time arrives, you will know.
2006-09-15 12:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you will know when the times right - just go with ur instincts!!
2006-09-15 12:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by JUST_ME 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If it is right do it.
2006-09-15 12:35:01 · answer #8 · answered by daveyboyone 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
when you think it's the right time, then it is
2006-09-15 12:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
lets see... wait
2006-09-15 12:35:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋