I have been dating this guy for almost a year we live together and then last night i got frusterated cuz it was raining and he wouldnt answer his phone and i knew he was going to Home depot but he told me that at 530 and then he finally comes home round 8:30 and we kinda got into a fight .. But now this morning he went to work and text me that he cant put up with my **** .. and that all i do is make him miserable/// someone help me on what to do
2006-09-15 05:20:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all you need to find out why he was so late. Explain that you want to know cuz you care about him so much and wants to be able to trust him. If he is not ready to talk or an arguement starts then give him some space and go and stay at a friends house for the night. You relationship seems to be lacking communication so you need to talk and he needs to understand this
2006-09-15 05:25:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there,
I don't want to sound that I know what is best and no body can actually. However, I would like to explain the situation from the way I see it based on the points mentioned in the question.
First, this is absolutely normal. Fighting with eachother and doing aother crazy things. BUT always reeber that when ever a person say something when he/she is angry then he is not sure of what he/she said. And most of the time it is not correct. I tend to believe that the words that come from a person in an angry situation are nothing but "mis-putting" stuff.
People often tend to show their angriness ot the ones that they love.
So, I would advice you to calm down for few days and then you both sit together with coll open minds and discuss your lives together.
And REMEBER the good time yuo spent together. That is a time that you can never get again.
In short, you have to not have worries, rely on your sixth sense and you will be fine.
C Ya
2006-09-15 12:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sorry to tell you this but I think he might be doing this on purpose. He wants to get you mad at him so you'll breakup with him and he won't have to break up with you. I think he wants his space. Good Luck I hope everything works out.
2006-09-15 12:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by Roses Red 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a little over protective. I understand your concern, but really it is not a big deal. Try to loosen to reigns a little bit. Don't worry about him. Don't be so quick to think that he is cheating on you.
2006-09-15 12:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by babyjay_babyjae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys live together,, but it seems like he wants his free time,, i dont want to hurt your feelings but you can let him have his cake and eat it to or you can tell him he can realize you live together or one of you can leave.
2006-09-15 12:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by blwatson41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get off his back already
2006-09-15 12:23:29 · answer #6 · answered by amber r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. He is Mr. Right for you??
2006-09-15 12:25:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nevermind!!!
2006-09-15 12:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋