I speak english but in a very hoarse voice. I spoke to my speech teacher in high school and she said I need to breathe out my words to sound not hoarse. I usually never breathe out my words and the words usually come out my nose. I talked to many people but they seem to ask me to repeat lots of stuff that I said. but ninety percent of the time, they do not want to become my friend. Why is that people cannot accept people for who they are instead of how they sound like or how they look?? I am starting to be sad that I will never find the right girl for me.
2006-09-15 05:21:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People who don't accept you for who you are or how you sound are not worth your time or energy. Don't give up, the right person is out there somewhere.
2006-09-15 05:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People will criticise you for my things, but does that mean you must listen to them 100%? you have act on your own self. Its perfectly alright if you have a hoarse voice, i'm pretty sure you would improve on it. It takes time.Trust me. Besides, people don;t fall in loveafter knowing the opposite partner is rich or beautiful. what really matter's is your character that makes people want to be around you.
Always think positive and things would always look brighter and better for you.
GD Luck!
2006-09-15 12:33:00 · answer #2 · answered by maayub15 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of the frustration of the person attempting to listen to you, and not being able to understand what you say and needing to ask you to repeat yourself, over and over.
Not to mention, your tone and pitch might actually be unpleasant to the ears after an extended period of time. That can be an extreme turn off, especially coupled with the fact that they are struggling to understand what it is you're saying.
You do not need to have an alluring voice, but you do need to have a clear and understandable voice for every day life, not just to attract friends.
2006-09-15 12:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by eedoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi!
first of all believe in yourselves. i know you r good at heart and you find someone who love you the most as a person like you.
second,dear you can not stop people thinning towards you, but you can change yours thoughts. just don't give them any important in your life. give imp. to those who care 4 u like your mom, daddy, relatives.
be happy and love all.
do you know i think u r just perfect but, i think they r really silk who think like this 4 u.
by 4 now but believe me god made you special to make this world more beautiful.
2006-09-15 12:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on...i don't think ur voice matters;it's about who u are and ur thoughts...although we have to face that sometimes even without wanting u judge someones appearance,even if u know that's not right....i really think that u haven't met a smart girl 'cause it ur voice matters that much they're not too bright (srry)
2006-09-15 12:25:01 · answer #5 · answered by in3s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about what others say about you
2006-09-15 12:32:49 · answer #6 · answered by Miss Cherie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋