Its frustrating, i want to be able to turn a girl on by something different than the normal joe bloggs, help me out
2006-09-15 05:21:12 · 12 answers · asked by Si_Man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Baby....the best and hottest part of foreplay starts in your mind. It's the thought of what's to come. It's the tease, and desire that needs to be sparked. People forget about the foreplay that starts while the clothes are still on...... I would suggest focus on kissing. There are so many ways to kiss and be kissed, so that is a matter of personal preference. But I would add variety....soft kisses, nibbling/biting/ licking/ deep kissing.....and don't forget touching. Let your hands explore....but the key here is not to actually touch any of the key parts. Tease....comes close and leave her wanting to be touched. The key that will make you different from every other guy is not "step A, step B, and step C" its your ability to be SENSUAL. You need to be able to get lost in the feeling of enjoying the woman your with. Enjoy each step along the way. Woman are very turned on, knowing we're turning you on. I'm not joking about being able to tease.....it will make a woman hotter than you can handle. Most of us are used to having men chase us. It's the man that makes us want to chase back that gets our attention. Make sense???
2006-09-15 05:34:50 · answer #1 · answered by wendy 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
kissing on or in the mouth! If the kissing is spot on i can get turned on by that alone. well i speak for myself here!! The neck, ears don't do it for me. Caressing, avoiding the 'rude' parts are a turn on and a teasing point! or simply try a massage thru the clothes, thats a good one as well! Good luck!
2006-09-15 12:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tivvy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ring her up, and tell her how much you are looking forward to seeing her..her sparkling eyes and her smile. Then when you do meet first thing to do is kiss her.
If you are on line and can talk then, simple cyber is really a fantastic turn on. Not really hard core just 'this is the kind of thing i would love for you and me to do when our relationship is moving on'
The imagination is a wonderful gift trust me!!
2006-09-15 13:00:51 · answer #3 · answered by theoldecrone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI
A nice meal, some red roses, and candles maybe...
or my husband only has to tell me he loves me and we just have a really good old cuddle in front of a film.
Or experiment in body massage or give her a good old foot massage some of us woman will get turned on by this. It works for me anyway!!
Try it and let me know if it works for her.
This is very nice when you have two children and been married for 13 years.
2006-09-15 12:33:02 · answer #4 · answered by samleigh40@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I wear a mini-skirt with no underwear and get lifted-up while french kissing, only to have his fingers enter me.....is the ultimate turn on for me!! Just recently experienced this and within 10 minutes we were in the sack.....(maybe) got 4hrs. sleep that night. Would do it again in a heart-beat!!!
2006-09-15 12:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by "N"saysable 1iric 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
foot massage. then after 10 mins work your way up her legs.
or play with her hair by running your fingers though it.
2006-09-15 13:51:07 · answer #6 · answered by Barry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt her a lot and make her laugh. Make dirty jokes on her and start what you want. Any way practise makes perfect.
2006-09-15 13:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by LemonPro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play with her hair, blow gently in her ear, let your hands wander up and down her back, and if its gone far enough, press hard against her.
2006-09-15 12:25:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are many things, such as massages, kissing, or strip tease.
2006-09-15 12:38:18 · answer #9 · answered by ;-D 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lick or blow into the ears.
actually works for me and many guys i date.
2006-09-15 12:26:55 · answer #10 · answered by Jean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋