Family & Relationships - 15 September 2006

I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years now we live together, For 2 years i have been asking him to stop smoking pot, for many different reasons, for 1 I do not want to marry or have kids with a pot head, and also it makes him very nasty, it makes him lazy, he never wantsto be intimate with me, and life is just so blaa with him i feel like it makes him very selfish and i beleive it is because he is high all the time, so when i do try to talk to him he tells me to shut up all you do is compain, or he will keep telling me lies like ok im gonna quite and then he will smoke behind my back, he always has another excusse. not to mention i have told him numerous times that if this continues i am going to leave him i guess by now he thinks its a joke, dont you think if he really loved me he would make a sacrifise, but instead he tries to turn it around and tell me if i love him i will stay with him, i tried explaining to him that sometimes love isn't everything but he doesnt want to hear it.

2006-09-15 04:58:55 · 10 answers · asked by julie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My peeing philosophy -
When peeing in the morning hours , if it has a flow in clockwise direction , then that day is usually good , if its anti clockwise then its not going to be a good day
Is this just superstitious ? or is it true for every one .
For those who haven’t yet observed , try to predicted your day , by observing flow of pee.

2006-09-15 04:58:53 · 12 answers · asked by philanthropic 1 in Singles & Dating

i read in a book that a man would like 2 get married 2 a virgin. but i dont agree to this. why is it women have 2 be a virgin what about the men. 90% of them have had sex so what make them want a virgin? i just want 2 know how everyone else feel abt this.

2006-09-15 04:58:52 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if your job demands interacting with people who behave in an unpleasant manner with girls and you cant help it because its your job.you might very well say that the best is to quit the job,but have decided to take it as a challenge and put things right,whats going wrong..

2006-09-15 04:57:54 · 14 answers · asked by jane24 2 in Friends

my girlfriend and i are both very committed and care a lot about each other.we now live in two different cities for our studies.but truly speaking we both are working really hard to make it last.this one time i asked her this same question which i think made her very upset..what do u guys say?is this a wrong notion??

2006-09-15 04:55:59 · 16 answers · asked by loving_u_4ever_n_always 1 in Singles & Dating

can anyone explain me the term sexualy active and how does it apply to a male & female, "when we say/ask, are you sexually active"

2006-09-15 04:55:45 · 18 answers · asked by Vips_5 2 in Singles & Dating

cheerleaders or dancers
gymnasts or ballerinas
broncoes or cowboys

2006-09-15 04:55:33 · 7 answers · asked by hotdancer_3 2 in Friends

First off, I can already see the jokes coming "umm, the mouth is a good place to start." OK, now that that's cleared up....

Do you have a preference as to where the first kiss is? The couch at home? The porch when he's dropping you off? Somewhere else? Or does it just plain not matter to you?

2006-09-15 04:55:28 · 4 answers · asked by someguy 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl and me were really close, we would stay up till 12 in the mornin talkin sometime, now that mite not be alot, but it is for her, she is homeschooled, I go to public school. Well I asked her to the movies, and she said Idk maybe , and REALLy backed off, she seemed nervous around me, I thought she just didnt wanna hurt my feelings, but she told her friends, she just wants to see if I can stick with her. Well we got further and further apart, until I couldnt stand it anymore and I emailed her, spilled my guts, and asked her to be brutally honest on how she fealt about me, heres what she said

well first of all, I don't hate you. second, I haven't been avoiding you either becuase its not been just swimming that I've been busy with its been life.I also haven't been beating around the bush because you never asked me if I did or not. But I haven't ever thought of being more than friends with you because we've always been good friends and I think thats how things should stay.I just don't want to ruin a friendship.hope you've had a good day, and i will talk to you later

Now, When I read that two things come to mind. One, that she is just trying to be nice. But on the other hand, she is just scared, because she has never had a bf b4, and weve been friends since age 7.

But now she seems more comfortable around me, like now she talks more, and seems more comfortable, but then she'll seem like she wants me, I can tell by the way she looks, and the way she acts, she just seems really sad, and down,

Oh yeah, and she told her mom , that she is just really really scared, and that she does like me, but she told her friends she just dont want to hurt my feelings, now her and her mom are really close, but so are her and her friends, Do you think she likes me, or is just letting me down easy?

And I am respecting her wishes, I emailed her and told her that I respect her decision, and we havent talked about it since.

But I really really do care for her, I wake up and she's the first thing I think about, I go to sleep and Fall asleep thinking about her. I mean I know I'm only 15, but I really do love her, and would do anything in this world to be with her. I've tried moving on, I've been trying to do that, but I just can't. Even though I am am guy, yes I have cried numerous time for her, and about her. I mean, I'm not ugly, I'm fit, and I'm not a big geek or anything, so what gives? I really do love her, what should I do?

2006-09-15 04:55:16 · 4 answers · asked by how many 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime I go out with a new girl, I say look, I want you to know right now, that I would never get married without a prenup. If this develops into anything serious you need to remember that. My brother does this too, and told his gf this on their first date. Now she wants him to propose to her, but she refuses a prenup. I tell him don't marry her with out one. Love is grand, but divorce is a hundred grand. How would you convince a girl to sign one, without seeming like you don't trust her?

2006-09-15 04:55:11 · 3 answers · asked by joe 3 in Singles & Dating

If someone used to like you but now has no feelings for you, is it right for that person to concider you as not existing?
And if it is how are you supposed to react?

2006-09-15 04:54:48 · 10 answers · asked by Ella. 1 in Singles & Dating

Much love and respect Lovely soul

2006-09-15 04:54:27 · 6 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

How can you tell if a guy is a "player"?
Does the guy have to like the girls they are "playing" with or not?

2006-09-15 04:53:46 · 22 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

do i tell him?

2006-09-15 04:53:06 · 17 answers · asked by soxgirl0780 2 in Singles & Dating

or go to the justice of the peace and use that $50,000 on a down payment for a house

2006-09-15 04:53:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't own any property and the property belongs to my Father, secondly my income is not that much that I could pay 30,000pm.
I am not divorcing her she is and also My daughter 4.5years old is with her. What are my Options and how I can avoid paying this huge sum of money.She was working in A Good organisation now she has left that job to harass me and gain alimoney

2006-09-15 04:52:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-15 04:52:24 · 23 answers · asked by Blue_Monkey 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 04:51:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

where are all the GOOD HONEST AND RESPECTFUL LOVING MEN in MICHIGAN? Have you all left??

2006-09-15 04:51:24 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 04:50:59 · 8 answers · asked by poohbear 2 in Family

I've been seeing this girl who lives kinda far, casually for a few years. This girl is moving closer to me for a new job. She's really fun and outgoing, and very opinionated. She's already told me that if a boyfriend ever told her she couldn't talk to an ex or a guy friend, that she would break up with him. I've had some jealousy issues in the past with girlfriends. I just don't like the idea of my girlfriend talking and being friendly with someone she used to be involved with. In my opinion, If ex's are still talking to one another, then one of them still likes the other, or maybe both of them. Anyways, guess my question would be, do I tell her I wont date her after all this time unless she stops talking with her 2 ex-boyfriends, or do I try to let it go and trust her?

2006-09-15 04:50:05 · 33 answers · asked by Smirx 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 04:49:55 · 11 answers · asked by maria p 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im not allowed until im 16, i can only get my ears done, no nose or anything + its suxs

2006-09-15 04:49:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It seems to be more slanted to the male view of marriage than most sitcoms.
One question I have though, do they have kids? I imagine if they do they have moved out, but I don't think it had been addressed.

2006-09-15 04:49:08 · 10 answers · asked by parkdad73 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we've been friends for a year and a half and we tell each other lots of stuff.the thing is I hav feelings for him and i think he feels d same cuz he 1ce asked wat i wouldsay if he askd me out.I said no comment cuz i wasn't sure then dat he was serious.He's a friend of my ex.I'm done with high school but he's not.Should i make a move or just wait and see?

2006-09-15 04:49:06 · 19 answers · asked by Teen Star 1 in Singles & Dating

sure they're the number 1 way to provent having a baby but theres no feelin at all.pull out methood,or say he doesnt have my eyes.whats you're opinoin

2006-09-15 04:48:53 · 19 answers · asked by baseball_saenz 2 in Singles & Dating

Personally, I would never have a baby out of wedlock, but I am tradtional like that as is my wife.

However, all my friends that have children had them out of wedlock and some of them married once their child was a toddler.

I have a friend who felt obligated to stay with the girl he got pregnant even though he didn't love her. That's a situation I never wanted to be in and luckily I never will be in.

Why is having babies out of wedlock acceptable now?

It seems like no one is married before getting pregnant anymore.

What do you think about it?

2006-09-15 04:48:08 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Lets say you have a boyfriend or girlfriend that doesn't want you talking to your "ex" even though it is clear to you and your "ex" that there is nothing more than a really good friendship. Everytime you talk to this "ex" friend your girlfriend or boyfriend gets angry with you. I am just curious who do you sacrifice because you can't keep a steady positive relationship with either? Your good friendship or your girlfriend or boyfriend? Also lets say that you love your girlfriend or boyfriend alot and their only flaw to you is that they are over protective...

2006-09-15 04:48:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I've heard of this myth, but I haven't been able to find any stastics on the number of married couples who met in college to back it up. I'm just curious to find out if it's true or not.

2006-09-15 04:47:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

sometimes it amazes me how some women stick by guys who embarrass them in public. what's the deal with that?!

2006-09-15 04:46:58 · 37 answers · asked by ShaneA 3 in Singles & Dating