we've been friends for a year and a half and we tell each other lots of stuff.the thing is I hav feelings for him and i think he feels d same cuz he 1ce asked wat i wouldsay if he askd me out.I said no comment cuz i wasn't sure then dat he was serious.He's a friend of my ex.I'm done with high school but he's not.Should i make a move or just wait and see?
2006-09-15 04:49:06 · 19 answers · asked by Teen Star 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it can mean a lot of things so just try to wait and see. maybe all the waiting will be worth it.
2006-09-15 04:51:48 · answer #1 · answered by kamahalan_12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that since I'm a bit older than you marriage is definetly not on your list right now and I agree with what the other guy said.. wait and see. But heres a few tips.
I married my best friend. I can tell him ANYTHING, I can tell him things I wouldnt dare confide to my own mother!! If youre best friends anyways and you both have feelings for each other, then its not a lust at first sight type of relationship. You guys already know each other. You know what makes you tick, your likes and dislikes, and all that other stuff that goes into the makings of a great relationship. You guys have already been friends, and being firends first and foremost with whom you love is better when your are in love with him as well.
Of course sometimes it doesnt work. It like you guys are such friends, that its like being with your brother or other male family member. But you never know if you guys will ever be more than friends until you test the waters and see where it goes.
2006-09-15 04:56:57 · answer #2 · answered by Shalamar Rue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I feel you. I've been in your situation and it's not easy.
If you really have feelings for him, they're not going to simply disappear with time. My advice is that you talk to him about it. You could tell him that the reason you didn't answer him when he asked you what you would say is because you were afraid he didn't feel the same way.
That or you could make a move on him and see what happens :)
Good luck!
2006-09-15 04:53:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know i can't tell you what to do but i can help i think you should fallow your heart and if you know it could hurt your other friend then don't do it, but if you ask that person if its OK to be with him then go right ahead ,then again you two might be friends that like each other but what happens if you break up were did your friend ship go you never know they hey might not want to be friends any more then what you lost so one you felt close to but really just fallow your heart and do whats best for you and the others around you
2006-09-15 04:57:13 · answer #4 · answered by Erika Dawn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make an intelligent yet transparent move_if u cant wait to find out his intentions.If he realizes what ur indicating,he'll pick up from there...it'll be good for the both of u to initiate a relationship if u two want it to,instead of only hanging around for MOVES...!!
2006-09-15 04:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, tough read, but I would say just go for it. There are some things in life that you just have to plow through. If he asked you out already, you don't have anything to lose, especially if a decent amount of time has passed since you split from your ex.
2006-09-15 04:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see. Even though i never liked the idea of dating EX's friends.
2006-09-15 04:51:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your "no comment" shot him down. He was checking to see if he could ask you out, and your answer indicated that it wouldn't be a good idea.
If you want him, it's now up to you to make a move. Either ask him out yourself, or find a way to make it absolutely clear that you'd say yes.
2006-09-15 04:52:31 · answer #8 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait and see
2006-09-15 04:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off I think that you should go back to English class. Your grammar is something to be desired. You both are to young to commit to anything. Hell he's still in school.
2006-09-15 04:54:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋