Guys who are "players"?

Question

How can you tell if a guy is a "player"?
Does the guy have to like the girls they are "playing" with or not?

Answer 1

A player, obviously is attracted to the girl he is 'playing', but doesn't want to get serious with them or be committed to them.

Sometimes it is hard to tell a 'player' from a genuine guy (they don't normally wear badges!).

Someone who has a girlfriend is a player, someone who doesn't seem interested in what you say, only in what you can do for him, someone who is only contactable when he wants to be, and who makes everything on his terms. Ask around - players usually have a reputation. And trust your gut instinct - if he doesn't seem that in to you, or he seems to be in to you only when he's after sex, then run like crazy!

Answer 2

I dont think there is a way of telling, untill YOU get played. The guys I know who I would class as players just go for what's on offer - they don't necessarily like the gurl, because all too often it ends up as either a one nite stand or dating for a few weeks (if there is something to be gained from doing so).

I don't think it's funny or kind to play with somebody's emotions. It is not right, in my view.

Answer 3

You can tell if a guy is a player because all they do is tease you and lead you on to things that will never happen.Usually guys like this don't like the girls.They just want to f*** the girl and leave her and then they go to the next b****. Don't fall for guys like this because they end up hurting you. Making you believe that they have true feelings for you but they really don't.

Answer 4

i have a few boy as friend who are player's. this how you know if their a player. when they see a girl they like they alway use the line damn girl u look fine or oi come here basically they wouldnt be polite to you. and the way they dress. must player are the bad boy's. and they just want u for sex once they got that you will never hear from them. but alway test people that how you will know who they really are.

Answer 5

Nope. Guys that are players are just looking for one thing from a girl. Doesn't matter if he likes them or not since after he gets what he wants he's gone anyway

Answer 6

honey

a player works better on a girl who likes all the flash. if you slow down and just look at the sprit and the heart, you can't get payed with. people believe what they want to believe. Playing on the internet is just playing, its not real

Answer 7

you can identify a guy is a "player" if you notice him around your place and he's with a different girls everyday. also sometimes you can feel that he's not serious with you.

the guy doen't need to like the girl. because it may be a just a game from his peers. say, they bet that he can be her girlfriend in 1 week something like that. so, no it doesn't need a guy to like the girl.

and those kind of guys are dirt in the reputation of the other guys who's serious in their relationship like me.LOL!!!

Answer 8

you can't really tell just by looking at them! but you can tell by the way they are talking to you. obvious signs like 'do you wanna come back for a coffee/drink' and other full on sayings. And no, they don't have to like the girl. some guys put a bet on to see if they can 'bed' the minger!!

Answer 9

All guys are players given the chance.

And yes, I'd say they'd have to like the girl.....whether they respect her is a different matter.

Answer 10

You cannot tell, because a guy will say anything to get what he wants, whether he likes the girl or not, trust me.....been there done that.