My fiance and I live together-he works 3rd shift-I work 2nd-He got paid the nite before and I was going to the bank when I got up in the morning-he said there might be problems cashing the check because my last name is different-hes like let my mom do it-she has the same last name-people might think we're married-this makes me feel like such a failure every time he does this-he does not let me do things for him that i think fiance's should do-like balance the checkbook, go 2 the bank, do the laundry, do the taxes, make appointments or cook the meals-his mom does all this-i now know why he doesn't stand up for me-because he can't stand up for himself-this just pisses me off to no end-that she just comes over and does the banking herself, mind you, driving to the bank in his truck and not even asking him if she can use it-the lack of personal privacy and space in his family kills me-it also makes me uncomfortable-I hate his mom so much! Please give me some advice! Thank you!!!1
2006-09-15
05:36:04
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SuzyBelle04
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Marriage & Divorce