i have a friend (boy) who is having a house party and said i could bring some one so i invited my other friend (girl), now he has said he doesn't want my guest to go because he doesn't know her very well but he does. Also now she has sed she doesn't want to go when i am supposed to be sleeping at her house that night so i can go because my mum won't let me go otherwise. What should i do?
2006-09-15 05:32:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Also they are both very close friends and i don't want to let the other one down
2006-09-15 05:38:26 · update #1
I think you should be open and explain the situation to your male friend who is having the party. Let him know you will only be able to go is she goes as you need a place to stay. Also get him to invite her, because she might have said she doesn't want to go because she feels rejected. If he says she still can't come, then he isn't being a very good friend to you and you should go off and have fun with your other mate.
2006-09-15 05:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by Oldfruit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not go to the party......why would you want to be friends with a boy who is as rude as to issue an invitation and then put you in the awkward postition of having to withdraw it? Go out with your friend somewhere else, have a great time, stay at her house and recognise who is a real friend and who isn't!
2006-09-15 05:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by nlj1520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sort of party - stay away, too dangerous,
A party is a momentary thing
Live by a rule
if the cost is a relationship - the cost is too high
2006-09-15 07:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by historicslunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a party will be over after a few hours, is it worth risking losing a friend
2006-09-15 05:44:12 · answer #4 · answered by bluebell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend or the party? life is full of tough decisions...............
i think you should stick with your friend.she is for life rather than a few hours party
2006-09-15 06:55:54 · answer #5 · answered by chatax 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOUR AS S OUT OF A PARTY!!
2006-09-15 05:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is more important to you??? The party or your friend???
answer that ? and then you have your answer
2006-09-15 05:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stick a wig and beard on her
2006-09-15 05:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart is saying to you to do.
2006-09-15 05:38:30 · answer #9 · answered by priya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's now your problem hahaha!
2006-09-15 05:35:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋