Family & Relationships - 15 September 2006

Is it wrong to go to a marriage councilor seeking help for my husband and I....Only to start having a sexual relationship with my therapist? He's also married so now I feel like I have resolved some problems in my life, but have a whole new different set of issues starting? What should I do?

2006-09-15 06:07:26 · 39 answers · asked by Karen 6 in Marriage & Divorce

...especially when I pleasure him orally (despite the fact i like giving it t him)

How do I overcome this feeling of guilt and start enjoying our love life?

2006-09-15 06:06:54 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 06:06:25 · 8 answers · asked by cindy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

One of my daughter's friends called and thought I was her and I thought the friend was my daughter...it was a confusing conversation...the other girl was very upset and started telling me about how badly this guy was treating her and I was wondering why my daughter even cared about that guy since he wasn't the boy she was going with. I finally figured out who the caller was...I bet she was quite embarrassed.

2006-09-15 06:06:24 · 7 answers · asked by Dellajoy 6 in Family

2006-09-15 06:05:19 · 19 answers · asked by james w 3 in Singles & Dating

i am single. even he is.

2006-09-15 06:05:10 · 18 answers · asked by rupjyoti 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my ex have got back togetehr at least 3 times. Last time we broke up was in June, and I got with some other guy. I'm not quite sure if I did the right thing, I still love my ex. And my boyfriend lives in England, so it's hard for us. What should I do?

2006-09-15 06:04:44 · 15 answers · asked by adie m 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay this one is for the boys would you rather have a girl with one boob or half o' brain?

2006-09-15 06:03:57 · 18 answers · asked by shorty_by_nature 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-15 06:03:31 · 12 answers · asked by Special nobody 5 in Family

I just wanted to see if there were any "
people" online

2006-09-15 06:03:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

NOTE ; This is not a RACIST POST!!.
First of all it's open to everyone of the diffent racial background. I don't hate my race if that's what you guys are thinking. I'm 100% BLACK and proud and of African decent.But it gives me much melancholy when i hear of the surge in Blacks wickeness and cruel acts in America. I haven't been offended by any black at all. Talk about Rape and sexualt assualt. it's 69% chance for black man to have committed such offence. if you are black you are liable to unwarranted ser Gangterism, Blacks are the masters. High school drop out. they are among the top 3. Teenage parents,they forgot to use the medula oblongata when they were having sex. Robbery, it's undeniable that we aren't the one's who mostly perpertuate this act . Drugs, 70% of drug dealers in jail are blacks. Most criminal records. Blacks had being breaking this record since 100 yrs ago. Why Why why why why. Why are we so bad!!! MAMA Africa, Our centrifugal mother can't be happy with us!!

2006-09-15 06:03:02 · 19 answers · asked by do you smell..... what's coo 4 in Family

Well, after being single for almost a year and a half, i finally met this new girl through a mutual friend. She is absolutely gorgeous, alot of fun to be around, and great to talk to. Problem is i dont feel good enough for her. I feel like there must be some other reason she is interested... I think she likes me, as after driving to see her one night, she didnt want to wait and came down the next, and she wants me to be with her this saturday... thats a good sign right? i mean i dont think im super ugly or anything, i just wouldnt call myself attractive. She always says im so nice and treat her well, but i just dont think im attractive to her. I know looks arent everything or even supposed to be important, but i just keep thinking about it. Like, she could get so many guys, why would she pick me? I've also never dated a girl that i would really consider extremely beautiful like i would this one... its intimidating. I just imagine all her friends are wondering what she is doing with me.

2006-09-15 06:02:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did something I really don't do. I know why I did it , but that's not the point. I sleep with someone I meet the frist night. He gave me his phone number to his job and cell. He told me to call. I called the next day. I got his answer machine. The day after he answerd and told me to call after 4. I did and he didn't answer. The 3rd day I called and no answer. So I left him a message. I told him to call back if u what to. I have'nt heard from him. I don't what to call him back. But a part of me whats to. So should a wait for along time like 2 to 3 weeks then call him or just leave it alone?

2006-09-15 06:01:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is moving out next week into a house. It will be the first time hes on his own. What would be a really good housewarming gift for him (Like an anctual gift. Not sex or me in lingerie)

2006-09-15 06:01:38 · 20 answers · asked by Mary L 1 in Singles & Dating

i was surfing the internet on his laptop, when i saved a file from the internet.
i went to his videos section to transfer my file to my USB, and i came across all these s.e.x.ually themed videos, and one of them was of him and another woman taken by himself with a digital camera. WHAT AM I SUPPOSE TO DO NOW????? HELP!!

2006-09-15 06:01:30 · 22 answers · asked by sakuraspark 1 in Family

We, the parents do not get along, mostly fight about her two daughters, I have never agreed with her chille rearing, and neither have been taught respect..We live good life upper middle class..
many luxuries, she does not work...have not kissed in 5 years...what to do....

2006-09-15 06:01:24 · 8 answers · asked by judogary 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF for 6 years wants to get adventerous and try a threesome with a Bi-female, should I? He does not want to have actual intercourse, he just wants to play and have her play with me, he said this would make him hotter for me. Should I? or is this his excuse to see others? Is this something men like? and why? if so what do you guys get out of it, if you're not having sex with the other female? I'm confused. educate me please.

2006-09-15 06:01:00 · 15 answers · asked by tami78731 1 in Singles & Dating

What is it like and do you recommend?

2006-09-15 06:00:43 · 11 answers · asked by Sarah 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-15 06:00:28 · 6 answers · asked by Shebby k 1 in Singles & Dating

If you are already in a long-term relationship or marriage, what do you do to try and accept or manage this kind of situation?

2006-09-15 06:00:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I LIKE THIS GUY AND I REALLY WANNA GO OUT WITH HIM AND HE KNOWS IT AND HE'S ALWAYS HUGGING ME AND FLIRTING WITH ME AND HE'S ASKED ME OUT BUT I NEVER GET THE CHANCE TO ANSWER HIM BECAUSE HI FRIENDS ALWAYS PULL HIM AWAY FROM ME I'VE KNOWN HIM FOR A LONG TIME LIKE FOREVER AND WE'VE WENT OUT BEFORE BUT I HAD TO BREAK UP WITH HIM BECAUSE HE MOVED SO HOW DO I TELL HIM THAT I DO LIKE HIM AND THAT I DO WANNA GO OUT WITH HIM IF HIS FRIENDS WILL NEVER GO AWAY

2006-09-15 05:58:55 · 16 answers · asked by x♥x•tasha•x♥x 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked a similar question a few days ago.

We have been together for almost 9 mos. She had me move in with her two months ago. She has two kids nearly full-time and I have two kids every other week. About a month ago she found out she was pregnant and we went as far as getting rings and a marriage license before she started backing away. We even looked at some homes together but money is an issue. Over the Labor day weekend she was stressed over all the kids, starting back to classes and finances.
I had been walking on eggshells around her and it came to a point where she would not talk to me at all. We finally talked and she aid she was uncomfortable in her own house. I told her I was too and sarcasticly said, "What? Do you want me to move out?" and she said yes.
She said I have a quick temper (although I have told her I would never hurt her or the kids) and she feel like she is walking on eggshells around me. I said I did not want to but she made me and now she will not...

2006-09-15 05:58:47 · 6 answers · asked by Mister E 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I LIKE THIS GUY AND I REALLY WANNA GO OUT WITH HIM AND HE KNOWS IT AND HE'S ALWAYS HUGGING ME AND FLIRTING WITH ME AND HE'S ASKED ME OUT BUT I NEVER GET THE CHANCE TO ANSWER HIM BECAUSE HI FRIENDS ALWAYS PULL HIM AWAY FROM ME I'VE KNOWN HIM FOR A LONG TIME LIKE FOREVER AND WE'VE WENT OUT BEFORE BUT I HAD TO BREAK UP WITH HIM BECAUSE HE MOVED SO HOW DO I TELL HIM THAT I DO LIKE HIM AND THAT I DO WANNA GO OUT WITH HIM IF HIS FRIENDS WILL NEVER GO AWAY

2006-09-15 05:58:15 · 23 answers · asked by x♥x•tasha•x♥x 1 in Singles & Dating

I am scared of crowds and I have clostraphobia and fear of people and I hate the mall due to crowds. But my grandmother really " " wanted to go because my mom was doing a survey. I am agrophobic.

2006-09-15 05:58:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-09-15 05:57:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

she doesnt look like one or smell like one

2006-09-15 05:56:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two good friends. I have been friends with them for almost two years now. However, lately I have been getting annoyed at them because I call them the majority of the time. I call them to say hi, see how they are doing. And see if they want to hang out sometime soon. They rarely call me to see how I'm doing to see if I want to hang out. So, I have become really annoyed at them and stopped calling them. Just to see if they will get the message. However, I think one of my friends thinks I'm mad at her because I have not been calling. And, I think the other one does not care. I just grew tired and annoyed of alwayshaving to call them up. The phone works both ways. But, do I have a right to feel annoyed? Should I let this feeling go and just call them as I always do?

2006-09-15 05:56:49 · 11 answers · asked by brooke992002 2 in Friends

2006-09-15 05:56:42 · 2 answers · asked by Trish S 1 in Family

if you have dreams of your spouse or boyfriend cheating does it mean the complete opposite, meaning he is being faithful? I heard it somewhere and wondered if there was some truth.

2006-09-15 05:56:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

are there any women out there any single women out there . that know's what tru love is . and why is it hard to find some one to fall in love with.

2006-09-15 05:54:57 · 18 answers · asked by bluehair_79 2 in Singles & Dating