Family & Relationships - 12 September 2006

So...you told me what you like from a woman.....what is a turn on....Now what turns you off....whats makes you not interested....what causes you to be turned off.????

Looks, smarts, hair color....what? If you want to add your interests that would be good too.

2006-09-12 17:27:53 · 14 answers · asked by bandaidgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

ok my name is ashley and i dont know if i should change my name to somethin like jake or chad or somethin thats more traditional...im a guy by the way and girls hardly ever take the name ashley seriously

2006-09-12 17:27:48 · 43 answers · asked by Jake 2 in Singles & Dating

im so sad....:(

2006-09-12 17:26:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is there anyway i could ever get him to let me see her? or let me talk to her? anything would be good at this point

2006-09-12 17:23:46 · 6 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 17:23:34 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-09-12 17:23:06 · 24 answers · asked by yasmin 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 17:21:59 · 29 answers · asked by roxychik 1 in Singles & Dating

i love him very much but still i can't get over with him....i know it's not good for me if i will believe that we can be together again....i want to kill my self right now...i hurts so much when i think about him and the fact that he's going to be a father soon co'z his gf now is 1 month pregnant....i love him so much.....very much......

2006-09-12 17:21:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-12 17:21:09 · 16 answers · asked by LY 1 in Friends

My mother and father are divorced and i am the only child. they have been divorced since i was 9months old i am now 21 so i know no other life. But recently i've been stuck in the middle of all there fights and its making me look really bad. one minute i'm on my fathers side then i am on my mothers side. but i don't want to choose a side because i know it will hurt the other parent but my mother is so conniving and she treats my father very poorly even though they are divorced he is still my father. my mother and i don't get along very well ourself and my father sometimes treats me like ****. its like im all alone. but i love my father to death would do anything to please him.. my mother on the hand i'm afraid of disappointing her but sometimes i could care less what she thinks. how can i make things right so im loved by both my parents?

2006-09-12 17:20:36 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i really want a boyfriend im smart my friends say that im pretty i have brown hair and brown eyes big lips big boody what else can i do.?

2006-09-12 17:20:07 · 7 answers · asked by littleme 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm really atracted to this guy, and he feels the same for me. But that's it. No further. I'm not about to ask him out but what do I do to make the relationship move?

2006-09-12 17:19:59 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend and i have been together for 3 years now and she still dont trust me. everytime we are away from each other we always argue.like for instance if im at work and dont call her she thinks im on the phone with another girl or if im on da computer she thinks im chatting with a girl what should i do cuzz im getting fed up

2006-09-12 17:19:54 · 10 answers · asked by Dr. knowitall 1 in Singles & Dating

my wife and i have been married almost 7 yrs separated now for almost months we been staying to gether on weekends living apart during the week.A big issue we have is we dont have kids together we tried but our luck wasnt with us we couldnt conceive im 39 she is going to be 49 she wants a kid together so we have some sort ofa thing together that is both of ours she has kids from previous marriage but they are grown. i feel she is to old for a baby and she wants to travel and stuff but its not likely if we have a kid or baby around if we adopt. if we adopt by the time the kid is 20 she will be 70 and me 60 i feel its going to be a financial burden and i feel where we live doesnt help things because the cost of living is so expensive there is no way i feel we could start living our life together enjoying life especially if we have a young kid around. i accepted it because not everyone is lucky enough to have a child we tried and it just didnt happen what could i do to save my marriage

2006-09-12 17:19:31 · 20 answers · asked by alldayworker 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, i so worried bout my friends they were stupid and OD on muscle relaxers and somoked pot and then took the pills with oachol there both on life support and cant breath on there own! I have a huge speech and debate tournemnet this weekend, i have not finshed that i have so much to do i just want to give up i feel i have no one to help me! I dont even have time to get a boyfriend and i really do want one!! i guess i just need a friend my best friend my mom doesnt like so we only see each otehr on the weekiedn and then, my school would not let her come back! Grr... i cant take no more i really on the edge of just droping school! I Cant take it no more! (and im not sucidal so dont worry bout that!)

2006-09-12 17:19:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Yes, 1 minute. I am so tired of this "oh, you're so good I can't help it bull. Any ideas? I am talking about sex.

2006-09-12 17:18:33 · 40 answers · asked by Patty 4 in Singles & Dating

my math teacher is 22 or 23
he is hot and has a sexy voice
i'm 16 will be 17 soon
whenever i smile at him he doesn't smile back
i think maybe i make him nervous, because i have a feeling that he knows i like him
i know there are all these laws about getting involved with a minor and teachers and stuff
but that just makes more fun
should i just forget about him? or what?

2006-09-12 17:18:27 · 22 answers · asked by LaBeLlAvItA 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl is living with her boyfriend . She has only known for 1mon.or 2. She has hurt her parents. Can't her parents help her go down the right path??

2006-09-12 17:17:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Wat wat u do if sum1 told you they only married sum1 to give them their papers and then they was going to get a divorce and he always says that they dont get along..But he always have to sneak to call and now after a yr hes telling you he cant talk to u anymore because he dont want to risk everything?

2006-09-12 17:16:15 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend very much. He has hurt my feelings and has almost past the point of no return. He says he loves me and wants to work on things and does not want to say goodbye. What should he have to do or show me to convince me that he is going to be trustworthy and kind? I am ready to move on if he does not fix things.

Trust Not putting himself into situations alone with women that could lead to cheating. That is not staying alone in a hotel room with a woman. Not dancing with a woman a night on a trip. Watching boundaries.

Kindness Not blaming, not lashing out verbally or not having excessive anger that shows in body language. Communicating without being defensive,

I look at this listed and think there may be no hope at all. What do you think?

Can counselling help a man with these problems?

2006-09-12 17:16:06 · 9 answers · asked by adobeprincess 6 in Singles & Dating

What is the best way to stare at a girl?

2006-09-12 17:15:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 17:15:02 · 21 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3 in Family

when is the right time to say "i love you" in a new relationship? is there a recomended period? i made the mistake of saying it too soon(1 month) and for that she left me

2006-09-12 17:14:47 · 13 answers · asked by CHARLIE 3 in Singles & Dating

we have been 2gether 4 3 years, 1 year old baby, it is w/ his family member, he's mexican.

2006-09-12 17:14:04 · 36 answers · asked by myannambaby 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

they are rude and arrogant, and only come around when they need something.

2006-09-12 17:13:22 · 18 answers · asked by lilgazell 3 in Family

theres alot im debating that im doing, death is defintely one thing, do you think theres less of a chance id die now....wars ending...? or its just by complete chance, its in gods hands.... anyways, my friend who was 17 died last year, n he definitely wanted to do the marine corps more than anything, he had his whole life ahead of him, i wanna do it for him, and myself, im a college drop out, im 20 years old, i work full time, idk what to do my life isnt that great, i have 2 loving parents, my cuzin is shipping out for the marines in december (4th), and, idk what to doooooo, life is so confusing

2006-09-12 17:12:53 · 14 answers · asked by John 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 17:12:48 · 21 answers · asked by klay43701 1 in Singles & Dating

curious...I dodn't know what I will do.

2006-09-12 17:12:35 · 10 answers · asked by sidekickLX! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-09-12 17:12:32 · 8 answers · asked by anonymoususer987876 3 in Friends

2006-09-12 17:11:15 · 28 answers · asked by czar 1 in Singles & Dating