my girlfriend and i have been together for 3 years now and she still dont trust me. everytime we are away from each other we always argue.like for instance if im at work and dont call her she thinks im on the phone with another girl or if im on da computer she thinks im chatting with a girl what should i do cuzz im getting fed up
2006-09-12 17:19:54 · 10 answers · asked by Dr. knowitall 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want to give advice of breaking up. because it seems liek the easy way out- talk to her, let her know how u feel explain how u cant be or call her every second of the day-that u have alife, and explain how she needs to start trusting u, or there is no relationship. if there is no trust, then how can u go on being with someone? i say first talk and then take it from there
take care good luck
2006-09-12 17:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to start trusting you or it is over cause that just tells you she is a jealous control freak.. i been engaged ot be married to the same man for 2 year and we live on opposite ends of town . and i trust him very very much like he trusts me he just doesn't trust other guys sometimes. as a women of 22 and someone who has been through the same damn thing dude 42 relationships all together i know how it feels to not be trusted and accused of cheating when i never have. at that point either gain trust or dump the *****...
2006-09-13 00:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there has to be a reason why she does not trust you. did u cheat on her? is she cheating on you?(cheaters are insecure in their relationships) she has to have a valid reason for not trusting you. you have been together 3years , whats her problem. i would ask her for her reason and if it wasnt a valid one. i would tell her she is full of **** and i refuse to let you keep me miserable any longer. when you decide to grow up and let the games go give me a call! and hope that you are not to late.
2006-09-13 00:30:37 · answer #3 · answered by purpleartof5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see she can tell the women are like that thay are 1 step ahead of us see you let the cat out of the bag
2006-09-13 00:24:23 · answer #4 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Find another girlfriend or put up with her suspicions and insecurities. That simple.
2006-09-13 00:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get rid of her because she is the one with the guilty conscious and is the one probably doing that stuff to you. believe me i was with a person like that.
2006-09-13 00:28:59 · answer #6 · answered by oraplepurnge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kittyroge said
2006-09-13 00:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by Totoru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she loves you and doesn't want to catch you cheating... doesn't eant to lose you.
2006-09-13 00:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by steve 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore her completely.
2006-09-13 00:21:56 · answer #9 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude move on....
2006-09-13 00:29:19 · answer #10 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋