we have been 2gether 4 3 years, 1 year old baby, it is w/ his family member, he's mexican.
2006-09-12 17:14:04 · 36 answers · asked by myannambaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
That's the worst kind of cheating. always hurts more when it's a family member.
And yes you should tell him.
2006-09-12 17:17:14 · answer #1 · answered by what 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you'd want him to be honest with you right?? Why not give him the same respect?? I mean just cuz you have a baby together doesn't make you obligated to be with him. You obviously don't love him enough to stay faithful to him so why keep on pretending? I say that you tell him and get it all out in the open, yeah, there might be some fighting or yelling, but if your truely unhappy in the relationship why put yourself through that? And why put your child through that, it's not fair to the child, babies can sense when something isn't right and no child should have to go though that. So yes, tell him.
I hope it all works out with the guy that your cheating on your man with and I hope it's all worth it in the end. Good luck.
2006-09-12 17:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm....confused!! is your boyfriend not Mexican? What does that have anything to do with it? Are you worried that you are going to be busted when this baby starts to look like his Daddy? Also, are you still cheating on him? If yes and yes.....why are you still with your boyfriend? He deserves to know the truth especially if he is the one being responsible financially, not to mention the emotional impact of believing this baby is his. Also is the baby's biological father aware that this is his baby? Then what about his needs? Girl, you need to really search yourself and decide the pros and cons to the whole picture; make it be the best interest for the baby as this will definitely impact the child when they are older.
Talk to your pastor, God, and search your heart for the answers!
2006-09-12 17:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by river 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if he is latin, he will get to jealous. Just don't cheat on him with people he knows or that know you. Also, sex is a great temptation, giving in is one thing, but be safe. You love him and don't want to give him any STD's. Some you can get even just from kissing. By cheating, your not really doing anything bad to him except breaking the bond of trust. But we all do that in many ways in relationships other than just sexually. So my advice is be safe and do nothing to hurt him while cheating
2006-09-12 17:17:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should definitely tell him. It will hurt more for him to find out some other way (and its with a family member-- he will find out eventually) Break it off with the other guy, and go tell your boyfriend what you have done. APOLOGIZE. Try and gain his trust back. Be ready for him to be very angry and very hurt. Be ready to lose his trust, he will become suspicious about the things you do, and the people you see. Don't take your guilt out on him, because you made the mistake (I hope it hasn't been going on for very long) If you want to stay with him be prepared for some rough times.
2006-09-12 17:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should tell him. Or at least let him go. How would you feel if someone you love is cheating on you? Also remember about all those STDs out there. You could pass something on to him in the long run.
2006-09-12 17:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by SimpleGurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want 2 start a fight & if U truly want 2 end it & be with the one your cheating with him on.His race shouldn't matter at all even he deserves the truth.It's Sad that it's a family member though that's the worse one to do it with no joke.Good Luck
2006-09-12 17:17:35 · answer #7 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A better question would be why are you cheating on him? He's the father of your child and you're cheating with a relative? Do you not think that someone will say something? Not a very good thing to do.
2006-09-12 17:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by dreamcatweaver 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends, is this other relationship with his family member serious? because if it is only a fling then don't tell him, you will only hurt him , sometimes it's just to fool around and then is over, but i suggest if u want to save this relationship you should stop cheating on him and commit for your sake and your baby OK
You are only hurting your baby with this behavior.
2006-09-12 17:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by KMA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant stand a lier more than a cheater. Yes I would tell him. Maybe he will find it erotic in a crazy way, you know what I mean. If he really loves you he will be upset of course but I bet forgiving.. Lets just hope that he doesn't think that he gets to now.
2006-09-12 17:16:20 · answer #10 · answered by ~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋