My girl is living with her boyfriend . She has only known for 1mon.or 2. She has hurt her parents. Can't her parents help her go down the right path??
2006-09-12 17:17:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u can always learn from ur mistakes..i have done the same thing..me and my parents were having problems and i ended up moving in with my boyfriend that i only knew for like a week..and i was living with him for almost 2 months..but i went back to visit my parents once in a while to talk with them and we eventually worked things out..so now im living back at home with them..but i really hope things work out with ur friend..talk to her about it and see if there is anyway she can work things out with her family..cuz its not just hurting her parents..its hurting her deep inside to..i wish her lots of luck on figuring things out
2006-09-12 17:28:03 · answer #1 · answered by Laura B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I moved in with my man 15 years ago. We are still not married and have 2 kids . After all this time we dont need a piece of paper to tell us were together forever [I hope} Some people get married just to have the big ceremony and get all dressed up and spend a fortune. That doesnt mean the relationship will last. Overall its up to her she may marry this guy eventually its still early days . If she ends up back home dont be too hard on her 1 mistake,if she later on makes it a habit of moving in with different boyfriends then have someone talk to her.
2006-09-12 17:23:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not the solution to your question especially if your girl has just known someone for one or two months. If she is old enough maybe she has other reasons why she wants to live in with this guy. However, if the girl is underage, maybe there is a family problem involve why she wants to move out. The parents can still help their daughter by reasoning with her and probably explaining the advantages and disadvantages of wrong decision with regards to live-in relationships.
2006-09-12 17:40:49 · answer #3 · answered by purplepatch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has only known him a month or two, getting married isn't the right thing. As long as they are not bringing children into the picture, it will not hurt anyone in the long run.
It is also no one's business.
2006-09-12 17:20:46 · answer #4 · answered by Tina K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents should have helped her go down the right path eons ago. If she is 18, there is not much parents can do, unless of course they are paying her way. If so, they should stop.
2006-09-12 17:19:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let her learn 2 months is to soon. in this day and age it is better to live with someone before marrying that way they know it is no picnic. all you need to do is let her know she can come home whenever she wants and call her to checkup on her and invite both of them to family functions and that will show her the right path
2006-09-12 17:27:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't people answer a question straight. A guy is shacking up with a babe for the free sex without commitment. That's it.
When he doesn't get what he wants he will leave.
But how can you get the girl to stop giving it to him?
2006-09-12 17:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by DipperJapan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is this girl? She needs support of her parents. If you object too strongly, you'll alienate her. Be nice to the b/f, you never know, they might marry later.
2006-09-12 17:21:49 · answer #8 · answered by eddie_schaap 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be going down the right path,and if not hopefully she'll learn from her mistake.
2006-09-12 17:19:40 · answer #9 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has happened most likely because the guy needed a place to shack at the time. He is just passing through using who he can to get him to the next location. She needs to dump him, best way to do that is he see her with another guy when he comes homes. That outta do it.
2006-09-12 17:20:00 · answer #10 · answered by ~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋