Family & Relationships - 12 September 2006

I know this East Indian (Gujarati) woman in my botany lab who wears a lot of makeup and looks really good, but would look even so much better if she just took it all off.
It's so obvious that she is gorgeous underneath it. You can tell her skin isn't perfect underneath it, but it's not bad at all, and would actually look better without anything over it. Especially in the long term. Her eyes are HUGE, dark, and deep, and her eyelashes are already like 2 inches long. Her lips are deliciously dark like a plum and the only thing she should even THINK of wearing is lip balm.

As a man, I would think that telling a girl she is so naturally gorgeous that she doesn't need any make-up at all would be a compliment: "God made you beautiful so you wouldn't have to!"

I think most women would take this badly, like "you do your makeup badly and look ugly" kinda thing.

Is there a nice way to tell a woman something that is essentially nice, but sounds bad?

2006-09-12 16:32:56 · 29 answers · asked by A Box of Signs 4 in Singles & Dating

ok i been with this girl for 4 years and a half we brorke up 2 weeks ago 2 days ago we had sex and said we love each other and miss each other then a guy calls her up and she said we shold do something the next day with him.. im not dumb it looks like she found someone allready. she also said i was the best in bed with anyother guy in her past. she said this one day when we where both drunk when we still togather. now we are going out for lanch tommorow. is she just using me ? and also when we say each other today she said do you miss me when i give her a hug wtf is that why is she acting like that any advise out there? i do miss her and have feeling for her but im confuse

2006-09-12 16:32:48 · 8 answers · asked by abcboyohboy 1 in Singles & Dating

how do u get a boy to tell u whats wrong when they look like they r about to cry or they tell u that they have things bothering them but they wont talk about it. lets just say that my boyfriend has really good friend that he calms as a lil sister and he has helped change her life but she went back to her old self again doing pot and having sex with numbers of guys and now he feels bad for even taking the time to help her change her life and now he is upset about it and wont talk to anyone about it

2006-09-12 16:32:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We still in school but I know he the one and he does too1!!! he loves me ad misses me....
GUYS: Do u find it as a turnoff for woman to bring up engagemt and marriage, ...but then we do need to know if we on the same page right, or else all in vain..........

2006-09-12 16:29:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

he is such hot stuff? It seems like every guy that I have met online over the past few months (about 40) are still members. I know that I am still on there myself but then after all I am the rejectee, a loser as far as guys are concerned because I dont make big money or have an important job or don't share their interest. However most of the guys I have met were quality guys with good jobs, nice cars, attractive, educated, etc and they rejected me after an hour coffee date. With the number of college educated high wage earning women that are attractive and fit into what these guys are looking for, why are these guys still online? Is no one good enough for them. I find this really odd. Only about 5 guys I have met are no longer on the dating service I use.

2006-09-12 16:29:22 · 5 answers · asked by reallyfedup 5 in Singles & Dating

I really can't explain what i'm really trying to say but bare w/ me on this one. I had this conversation with my husband and he said that i'm looking for him not to trust me but thats not the issue i wanted him to take notice of me pay some attention...i did many things to get his attention to see if he notice me or anything i did or be concern. I noticed one time when i was out late 3am he didn't call on me to see if i was okay or where i am anything of that nature... zI thought that what people do when when they care or love someone..this happen many times. I've called him whenever he's out to see if he's okay if out late or he's traveling on the road..but when im out he doesn't call to be concern.. i did befriend a male friend for 2yrs(Platonic) to see if he would notice and he didn't. So does that mean he trust me b/c he didn't pay attention or did i betrayed his trust in me.Im not sayin for him to hire an investorgator or be a spy. i just need attention.show me that he care.

2006-09-12 16:28:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Where is the middle ground?
How much does either person have to change to fit what the other wants?
Religion,politics ,employment,friends ,where to live and how. Stuff like that.

2006-09-12 16:28:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

we have been dating for 6 months and his birthday is on friday hes wil be 20. I was thinking of going to the build- a - bear workshop and get him a superman bear because hes my hero. Or a knight in shining armor one. what do you thing??

2006-09-12 16:27:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 16:27:08 · 5 answers · asked by dede 5 in Marriage & Divorce

perhaps someone you see on the train everyday while on your way to school, or a neighbor you dont really know but like

2006-09-12 16:26:58 · 3 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

When it comes to sex if a man cant get his woman to have a orgasms is it the woman’s fault. or is it the guy fault? I think it’s the guy fault. It could be his size, length, excreta but it for sure it’s the guy problem if he cant get his girl off. My friend said it’s a woman problem some woman cant have a orgasm. what do u think? If the question is to immature then don’t answer. Ladies what do u think

2006-09-12 16:26:48 · 3 answers · asked by Priesd D 2 in Singles & Dating

What happens in a toxic love relationship? is all hope lost for being together? is it possible to fix?

2006-09-12 16:26:31 · 9 answers · asked by Elly 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i have this friend. He was one of my best friends until we had a tiny fight. I try to talk to him but he wont listen to me. i want to say sorry but he just keeps ignoring me. we've been best buds since 5th grade and we play video games together. I really want to be his best bud again. Btw, he's also one of my only friends too. Wat should i do?

2006-09-12 16:26:05 · 19 answers · asked by UselessID 2 in Friends

Heres the scenario, there are two friends, cousinz actually, real close with each other, i would like to get close with one of em but the other one i kno thinks very fundly of me and i believe she is wanting for me to make a move on her, i can see it in her eyes when she looks at me and when we're having a simple conversation in general. What do i do? Bearing in mind that neither of the two know how i feel and vice versa

2006-09-12 16:25:54 · 4 answers · asked by ChanteC 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know this lady well. Met her once and have been chatting on and off via msn.

Gave her some money even before we met. She wants to go through divorce because her hubby have committed adultry and insane. She have a lover but because she wants to have custody of her kids and do not want to break up a marriage, she decided to give up on her lover. Her life is a mess and she need help financially too.

I like her and feel like helping her financially though I have my own debts but worried that this might be a scam.

Even if this is not a scam and her problems are genuine. Should I help her financially???

2006-09-12 16:25:04 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a maori/ pakeha 18yr old. my bf is an italian/maori 19yr old. we used to be soo in love, and now we are practically pushing each other away on purpose because we dont like each other. He still likes me a bit, and i'm still in love with him, but we fight TOO MUCH.

2006-09-12 16:23:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is there one girl you dated who was so unique and sweet that you still think about from time to time. Even though YOU ended it, is there one girl who you still think about and regret leaving and wonder what if?

2006-09-12 16:23:24 · 9 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Singles & Dating

if so, how do u deal with it. I mean like..what do you do to get by each day? Hes in Iraq..and I dont really ever get to talk to him..and i miss him a lot. what do u guys do for support and stuff?

2006-09-12 16:22:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am moving away from my boyfriend, and we both sort of decided that it would be for the best if we didn't "date" anymore. Meaning he and I are no longer "together" we still hang out and say I love you...but we basically don't sleep together...I miss him, I miss our relationship...not so much the sex, but just having someone there for me. I don't know what to do...except get him a job where I am going...anyone have advice on long distance relationships?

2006-09-12 16:22:21 · 19 answers · asked by kate5484 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok what is the best dialog about asking someone if they are gay or straight.

2006-09-12 16:21:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 16:21:19 · 25 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

all sorts of funny ,and weird things just to get their attention

2006-09-12 16:20:58 · 9 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

i tried to hide it, but it shows anyway even with a lot of clothes on.
I can't try padded bra, because i have big breast.Any ideas ? please , is so embarrasing .You might have an idea ?

2006-09-12 16:20:58 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this hot guy where i work. I really like him but i dont know how to tell him. We've been talking as friends only. I think he likes me to but im not completly sure. So how do I tell him i like him and How Can i make sure he likes me as well?

2006-09-12 16:19:56 · 20 answers · asked by helpful 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i like some of them, girls gettin naked and freaky is always cool!

2006-09-12 16:19:20 · 2 answers · asked by thesilkysmoove 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-09-12 16:19:15 · 5 answers · asked by rasckal 3 in Singles & Dating

later that they are being mistreated???....why not just pick someone who is clean, straight and educated ???

2006-09-12 16:19:09 · 8 answers · asked by maxwell 1 in Singles & Dating

this is kind of a messed up situation. i was going out with a girl for a year and a half, and one day she starts getting wierd even though as a whole things were still good. then she went away for a day without telling me. i waited for her at her apartment and when i saw her she happened to be dressed nice. i got this feeling she was cheating and i kind of forced her to kiss me, almost as if to prove that she didn't. we went into her place and made out. i went down on her, and we had sex. she was clean - in fact, almost out of the shower clean. and it was very passionate.

we broke up about a month later and i now know she had cheated on me that very day.

so my question is, what was going through her mind while i was going down on her?

2006-09-12 16:19:08 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she watches it occassionally online i guess.

2006-09-12 16:18:56 · 22 answers · asked by Kevin H 2 in Singles & Dating

Like a lot of my white guy friends likes asian girls or wants a chance with them....I'm not racist or anything because my best friend is asian but what is it about them that attracts a lot of guys to them?

2006-09-12 16:18:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends