i'm a maori/ pakeha 18yr old. my bf is an italian/maori 19yr old. we used to be soo in love, and now we are practically pushing each other away on purpose because we dont like each other. He still likes me a bit, and i'm still in love with him, but we fight TOO MUCH.
2006-09-12 16:23:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sounds like you both might be better off if you were not together.
2006-09-12 16:26:21 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle : 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what are you guys fighting about? And why does nationality have to do with what you are talking about?...
Find out why you guys are fighting and try to resolve your issues. Also don't sweat the small stuff, if he does something little that p's you off don't just start yelling and fighting just take a deep breath and think if you really want to start an arguement.
2006-09-12 16:26:52 · answer #2 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sweeti...someone have to be the soft one in the relationship...if both people in a relationship are stubborn...it doesnt take you both anywhere.
Why not u 2 both just relax and have a nice chat..try and work things out.your relationship use 2 be exciting and happy in the past...how did that happen.??
why not u try and do the things u both use 2 do...that made u both realli happy.it will make u and him think sweeti...this is what we use 2 have and now its like this...u both want to be back there
2006-09-12 16:29:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your pretty much saying its driving you and him apart just trying to hold it together well im sorry to tell you that most of the time thats part of growing up usualy the person you think youll love forever is the person you grow away from with age then later in life youll probably find someone who will make you think was it ever really love at all!
2006-09-12 17:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by Larry & Amie D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try going on dates like you used to when you first got together, and remember all the reasons you fell in love in the first place.
2006-09-12 16:26:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
date other people and still see each other and see what happens. But 18years old is young and you will have many other men in your life after him. He was practice for the next guy you fall for.
2006-09-12 16:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by LETICIA P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fell in love, went steady with him for 6 years, married him for 13 years, i thought it would never end. but now i believe we had problems from the start and i was just pushing myself to work it, but it just ended with piles and piles of resentment, until such time i decided not to fix it anymore, coz there's no use. i learned you just have to learn to say goodbye to some things. i think i'm better off now without the person
2006-09-12 16:29:44 · answer #7 · answered by maiax 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont stay in a relationship if the feelings arent mutual anymore..
the problem can be settled if both of you are willing to make effort. if he's not willing anymore i dont think you can still be happy with your relationship..
2006-09-12 16:27:42 · answer #8 · answered by `red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe ya'll should take a break from each other and see other people for a moment
2006-09-12 16:29:19 · answer #9 · answered by ~DANiELLE~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
puppy love...
You will find Mr Right. You are still young
2006-09-12 16:25:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you fight? What is the source of this discontentment?
2006-09-12 16:25:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋